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She is Madhubala Malik...
A woman who topped her college exams while working part time. She worked at beauty parlour and then would also take care of home.
A woman who has time and again shown selfless love towards her own and others.
A woman who respects life because she knows it hasn't come easy to her. Her mother had to fight for it, real hard. And more in one ways she is in debt of her mother that no bond, no relationship, absolutely nobody can break. Even if she wants something more than what her mother would ask her to do, she will do it!!!
This woman stood strong in front of a superstar because she believed he was wrong. This woman took all the insults of her to be mother in law because she thought Mukund was the one - her first close friend!
This woman fell in love... involuntarily...and ended up getting hurt...
BUT Life goes on..and our heroine knows that it goes on!!! She is strong, and she knows life is precious, meant to be respected.
Therefore, I have a problem
1. When people want to see her or want to show her as a confused, clueless , weak woman
2. Why does she need a man in her life right now???
3. Why is everything about sulbala and rishbala? Does she not have an identity of her own?
4. oh yeah, the girl has just become single .. let's get a man for her!! -- is that how we really think...
No she doesn't need RK right now ( at least not what he is right now)... and doesn't need any third person either just because he is around her ( no matter how nice)...
5. CVs - where is the sensible, strong , practical woman???? Are you telling us there is nothing in this world that a woman's life is worth besides waiting for some man to come into her life.. and start rejoicing the moment she is touched????
6. When most of us jump into arguments..do we even bother to understand the context ..or just blindly make it all about the man...oh yeah, she is a woman..who cares about her..her life is worth being a man's woman only?..is that it?????
Show me.. show me the woman of today...show me how they overcome their break ups..show me how a strong independent woman lives her life in a big city and makes it on her own...
Other characters in her life.. have made her happy at some point and have made her sad at other times.. which is fine.. show me.. how elegantly she deals with them.. she lets them back in her life..but how does she deal with them...Show me the woman who knows love and love alone..Show me a woman who can move on and yet not have bitter feelings.. Show me a woman who can move on because she loves life.. and is not tied to petty emotions..
Show me a woman.. who is a real woman.. Show me a woman whose identity is not linked to a man.. and please speak of a woman whose identity is not linked to a man!!!!
PS: Before you take offence to anything, be very sure of what you are taking offence to!!! and if you have the guts to take an answer only then bother to post your 'got offended' views..
@Rest, would be really glad to listen to any perspective .. for or against or neutral or otherwise.. anything
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