Originally posted by: bangalores
thank you.
i know it is and will be difficult not to go back each time you encounter a comment that does not mean well with you.
it take conscious effort from both sides, no i don't even ask to let go of the past but just not to drag that in, in the future.
i understand at times some comments that was just normal or casual for you tends to be misintepretted as i found out yesterday with someone else who took offense to something i had commented and from her comment i realized she was unable to read what i had meant by my comment... and we sorted out the matter peacefully.
so can that happen? if we find some comment does not agree with us we can ask for an explanation instead of getting flared up... and hopefully the one who explains will do it peacefully too, instead of going into aggression or mocking. Also try to accept that point of view with an open mind.
we may be invisible to each other but we all do spend a lort of time in this forum... and how ever sceptical i am abt this forum becoming "no fight zone" i do wish for peace... coz fighting with even the invisible leaves you irritated and has its impact on the interaction with those we do see.