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Hey guys,

Thanks shifali for listening to us
Drooling post r allowed so thnks again
Well i hav seen many members opening peace posts bt it ends becoming fight zone coz of fans.

Can I just say something? We have all these rules but no one is really digging into the whole situation about what happens with fights and why they start. Everyone says that this is what we want but no one is discussing about what can be done about the fights. And no one is taking the initiative/promise of saying that if someone criticizes my favourite, I promise to not go all out and bash em.

Thank you Shifali - Can U just add - also members starting a fight for no reason or personally attacking TM's will be warned severely pls. The rules are perfect now..

Originally posted by: *Shifali*

Can I just say something? We have all these rules but no one is really digging into the whole situation about what happens with fights and why they start. Everyone says that this is what we want but no one is discussing about what can be done about the fights. And no one is taking the initiative/promise of saying that if someone criticizes my favourite, I promise to not go all out and bash em.

I think the problem starts when some act like the PH here & tell others what to do & mock them. Like right now if many complaint about a track, others start their teaching & mock them & call them bashers etc. Why?? Isn't everyone should be allowed to share their opinions here about a show? Then why do others need to attack others?? It's instigating, & there the fights start. Why can't just people disagree than attacking & mocking the people who share different opinions about the show? If they can't control themselves from attacking, then ignore the post! No one is forcing here. Here if you say CVS are making RK a villain, people come & attack saying you bashers. If people find bashing, REPORT it, then calling start personally attacking others just for a show. And even here the fight started!

That's why mod, Please do something with mocking, targeting, instigating etc posts which target other people's opinions, members, DT, & fan groups.

Originally posted by: *Shifali*

<font size="2">Hey guys,</font>

<font size="2">Thank you for your suggestions, so here is what I can summarize from all your rules:</font>

1. <font size="2">Appreciation topics/drool topics should be allowed on the forum. But if a fandom opens a drool topic then the other fandom shouldn't comment on it if itpertainsto just mocking that group.</font>
2. <font size="2">Bashing/unhealthy name calling should not be allowed on the forum, which means no rapist etc.</font>
3. <font size="2">Criticism should be welcomed [since it is a right to speak] but if a member is making a post just to get back or in retaliation to other members posts and it is bashing on purpose then it should not be allowed.</font>
4. <font size="2">Members who can't handle criticism should not reply to a post which does criticize their favourites [again, that depends on the member itself, and not us as Mods]</font>
5. <font size="2">And posts which start/instigate a fight should be edited/deleted by the DT so that it does not disrupt the actual topic itself.</font>
6. <font size="2">Tweet threads should be allowed -One thread for DD, one for VD and one for Madhubala Creatives/Production. So that means NO Vahbiz tweets allowed. Even if they pretain to VD?</font>

<font size="2">My question:</font>

<font size="2">Guys, there are members who open peace topics in the forum to make both fandoms chill, so do you guys want those peace post so to be allowed, not allowed?</font>

Thanks Shifu! The rules are good, but not only posts to get back to others should be closed, comments which target others should be have strict action against too. There is no difference between targeting posts about others or making comments about others. Both instigate others because even now I can see comments like calling others bashers etc for their difference of opinions which instigate others, so hope mods do something about "such instigating comments " as well.

Coming to the last question, I think such posts shouldn't be allowed because so far all such posts after 1-3 pages turn to war again. People there blame the other group & so on. No need for telling others to be stop fighting etc as well. Mods are here to give warnings to those. No one needs to give others a lecture why this & that. My opinion about this. 😊

vabhiz tweets should be allowed she tweet for vd. so that is only source for vd fans