Why this forced forgiveness :/ - Page 4

Originally posted by: eshasrk

I feel that both are right intheir own perspectives, but still Madhu should try to figure out the reason why RK is not willing to forgive Radha so easily...and it's not only becoz of the re-marriage I feel. But then again RK told her only that part at the lake that when he needed his mom the most she sort of betrayed him ( in his eyes ) and re-married, so Madhu doesn't know better...

So Madhu think that it's abt the re-marriage of his mom...but I feel things are much deeper than they seem...

So in Madhu's opinion if he can think abt Padmini's re-marriage when in Madhu's eyes it's not necessary, why can't he forgive his mom then ???? I think maybe Madhu said it from that point of view...

But I feel that RK has developed a certain respect for Padmini in the sense that even though she could re-marry, she prefered not to and instead took care of her kids, providing them a safe home

Originally posted by: Nishi.Singh

even i m not liking this Madhu forcing RK to feed cake to mom, take blessings and that is not enough now she wants him to apologize and sleep on her lap 🤣

firstly forgiveness for what?...he never hated her but he just cannot forgive her for ruining his childhood...Radha ji is equally to b blamed here...why cant Madhu see Radha ji's fault in all this? 😕

and regarding the Malik-Padmini marriage toh wo to RK karwa hi dega, afterall he has the theka of the whole Malik family ki main inko aabaad kar dunga 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Nafs_Sweetheart

How I felt about it is, I want RK and his mother's relationship to improve and I didn't mind that he fed his mum the cake and also took her blessing but I think to say sorry is a step too far.

At the party Madhu confidently asked him to do those two things because that letter was from his mother all those many years ago wishing him well on his film career, Madhu told him that this success is due to his mother's blessing (I just watched the episode today and that scene when she is asking him she alludes to what was in the letter, perhaps I'm paraphrasing a bit but she definitely tells him that he has succeeded due to her) and Madhu would have no knowledge of that being the case had that not been in the letter and RK thinking about that letter and carrying it with him and agreeing to Madhu's wishes with no insult to his mother proves he also feels his mothers blessing all those years ago made a difference in his success. I also didnt mind Rk feeding cake to Radhaji or anything but i was wondering about the letter as well. hmm, it can happen its related to his mother and thats why Madhu was surprised in the party. lets see. they didn show what the letter was about|? did they or I missed it 🤔

But RK saying sorry to Radhaji for marrying inappropriately just for the sake of making everyone happy around him, and it's going to happen also, no doubt about it, but it's forced forgiveness, that is not required, if RK speaks to the mother again civilly and seeks her blessings, that's enough he doesn't have to ask for forgiveness for giving her the silent treatment as she brought him these relations which are sponging off him, poisoning his wife, blackmail/extortion all manner of rubbish which are not his blood relations, he has having to tolerate only because of her mistake. So I feel when Radhaji finds out about her husband's evil ways she should get rid of him and his family and ask forgiveness from her son and not the other way round. So agree on this part. he talking to her again is enough and Radhaji is still living in the bubble of happy family but she should know what troubles her family causes and how RK has to take care of these things and also tolerate it.

Originally posted by: M.Hurr

No,you are not the only one thinking like this,I agree with you completely,forgiveness,hate,love these are the emotions which are generated from heart but if the heart is wounded than only time can heal those wounds,all RK needs is some more time and Madhu should understand this,setting conditions upon him is wrong.

I love the scene when madhu requests RK to take Radha's blessings it was sweet he did it not by heart but that shows he respects and know the value of relations with time he will forgive his mother too,so what's the hurry madhu?

very valid points,good post

Mallu

Originally posted by: an12345678

@TM: To me that condition seemed like telling R.K I asking my mother and Mallik to marry is as impossible as you seeking forgiveness from your mother. More than a condition, I saw it as a full-stop point.

Most of us keep parents at a higher pedestal and often it's assumed that parents can do no wrong and they have their child's best interest at heart. R.K has taunted and has often lashed out at her, (I am not saying he does not have a solid ground of reasons, and valid too, to act like that) and it's usually the young who has to seek forgiveness from the elder.

Wrong or right that is open to discussion but that is the norm of the society.

Originally posted by: Phoenix.Xeelan

Sleep on her lap was one of many dramatic things this show can show us.. 😆 Im not even surprised. 😆

I agree and I said it before RK never hated her mother but its like he is angry and disappointed with her. if he would be hating her he would never let her live in his house along with her mothers family. he is carrying this baggage just not as responsibility but also bcoz of the sake of their relationship and bonding. I dont think Madhu is blaming RK here. she said Rk to forgive his mother.

last part: 😆 😆 😆

Originally posted by: Phoenix.Xeelan

I agree. madhu is a kind person and seeing Radhaji in tears everyday and trying repeatedly to get close to her son surely touches Madhus heart to she is trying to amend things. Like i said I know her intention but didnt like the part where she put it as condition.
Me too.. the forced hug.. best way to come down the one you love...jadoo ki jhappi... 😆 the scene was fab 😊