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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with Shahisthi

and mee too loved their hug..:)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: devikamd

No worries..you are not the only one...!!


They seem to rush every track...in a way its good...
but most of d time..it leaves us with more questions on How, when, why and what the??๐Ÿ˜†
They seems to be on mission to clear all problems in RishBala's life...
so they can introduce the biggest problem ever...Ballu ofcoz..!!
(and also for their jungle mein mangal๐Ÿ˜ณ ๐Ÿ˜†)

But inspite of all that...they are putting up a pretty good show..!
like the fight and hug today...damn sweet and cute...๐Ÿ˜ณ!

Even if RK forgives Radhaji today...it will only be to please Madhu..
But we all know it will take more than Madhu to make him completely forgive Radhaji..
Lets hope, when the time comes...Cv's don't disappoint us..!


Glad to see many people feel the same ๐Ÿ˜† and yes I keep wondering How, so soon? what the already? ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜† this is my reaction and I agree and i was saying the same in Rishbala At last night there must be some blast coming from Cvs. and today Madhu reciting the dialogues and saying she never likes studio gives hinting the heroine track might be coming. donno.. the show has become really unpredictable now so i dont want to make any assumptions ๐Ÿ˜†
Same.. hope for the best from Cvs..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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agree with u
loved their fight & hug๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜†
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@TM ofcourse they are kids else who will say his wife a 10 year old girl and wife will reply ur 3 year old. ufff ๐Ÿ˜†
Given a chance, they can pull each other's hairs too. ๐Ÿ˜† and here we r even dreaming abt their SR. ๐Ÿ˜†
Edited by Manonids - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agreed. Madhu's intentions are genuine and good...no doubt about it. But the way she approaches to solve the issues just don't make sense. Its not like that RK and Radhaji had a fight a few days back over a box of chocolates that you keep such conditions...if I agree to you will you go and shake hands with her types.๐Ÿ˜ณ For the start Madhu needs to understand that mending relations or forgiveness should never be forced...whether its RK-Padmini case or RK-Radhaji. Infact in RK and Radhaji's case its not all about forgiveness...thrs a lot of bitterness and hurt that needs to be attended to. Instead, her condition would have made more sense if she had just told him to talk to Radhaji once and say what is in his heart. That would have more or less done the job. But I guess Madhu has always been like this.๐Ÿ˜• Anyways, like I said to you earlier...this forced forgivness is an insult to Radhaji and RK and their relationship. One more thing...why is she saying RK to apologise from his mom? Why is she assuming that all is RK's fault?๐Ÿ˜ณ



I just read some of your comments about if he forgives Radhaji suddenly and all...Tanzie, most probably it will be like that only. Coz he just needs to open his heart to his mom for once and that will be it. Rem what happened regarding his faith in Ganeshji and what I had said then. Its the same here. Its only a matter of facing and talking to her once (but ofcourse dil se)...coz he never stopped loving his mom. So it will not take time...the only thing needed is a push to start it...and it will be solved within no time. And that is how RK was and always have been...very sensitive and ultimately giving into his heart. So it does make sense.


Edited by PurpleHorizon - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I feel that both are right intheir own perspectives, but still Madhu should try to figure out the reason why RK is not willing to forgive Radha so easily...and it's not only becoz of the re-marriage I feel. But then again RK told her only that part at the lake that when he needed his mom the most she sort of betrayed him ( in his eyes ) and re-married, so Madhu doesn't know better...
So Madhu think that it's abt the re-marriage of his mom...but I feel things are much deeper than they seem...
So in Madhu's opinion if he can think abt Padmini's re-marriage when in Madhu's eyes it's not necessary, why can't he forgive his mom then ???? I think maybe Madhu said it from that point of view...
But I feel that RK has developed a certain respect for Padmini in the sense that even though she could re-marry, she prefered not to and instead took care of her kids, providing them a safe home
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Posted: 12 years ago
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How I felt about it is, I want RK and his mother's relationship to improve and I didn't mind that he fed his mum the cake and also took her blessing but I think to say sorry is a step too far.

At the party Madhu confidently asked him to do those two things because that letter was from his mother all those many years ago wishing him well on his film career, Madhu told him that this success is due to his mother's blessing (I just watched the episode today and that scene when she is asking him she alludes to what was in the letter, perhaps I'm paraphrasing a bit but she definitely tells him that he has succeeded due to her) and Madhu would have no knowledge of that being the case had that not been in the letter and RK thinking about that letter and carrying it with him and agreeing to Madhu's wishes with no insult to his mother proves he also feels his mothers blessing all those years ago made a difference in his success.

But RK saying sorry to Radhaji for marrying inappropriately just for the sake of making everyone happy around him, and it's going to happen also, no doubt about it, but it's forced forgiveness, that is not required, if RK speaks to the mother again civilly and seeks her blessings, that's enough he doesn't have to ask for forgiveness for giving her the silent treatment as she brought him these relations which are sponging off him, poisoning his wife, blackmail/extortion all manner of rubbish which are not his blood relations, he has having to tolerate only because of her mistake. So I feel when Radhaji finds out about her husband's evil ways she should get rid of him and his family and ask forgiveness from her son and not the other way round.
Edited by Nafs_Sweetheart - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manonids

I agree forced forgiveness is no solution but today the deal was thrown to say if its difficult for u to patch up with ur mother, then its equally difficult for me to change my stance abt pure and benaam rishta bw my mother and Shamsher. So far, she has been conscious abt RK-Radha but today, she was angry and emotional that why to name their relation when they are as close aa they have always been. Not an issue, Rk ne Madhu ke dimAg main keeda daal diya hai, ab woh chup thoda rahege. ๐Ÿ˜†


agreed with you and fab answer...loved it ๐Ÿ˜ƒ
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Phoenix.Xeelan

Ok, is it just me or any1 else here also not liking how Madhu was pushing RK to forgive his mother? ๐Ÿ˜• Rk should forgive Radhaji by heart when he realize he should and not by any condition.
Before you jump on my throat for saying this kindly read the whole post ๐Ÿ˜›


even yesterday I knew he hasnt forgiven Radhaji but took her blessings only because maybe he didn want to create a scene and when he did he realized how much he missed her. it was a weak moment but not forgiveness. Afterall the distance is there from many years so it cant go away so easily.

Rk was just suggesting Madhu to get Shammo and Paddy married but Madhu is giving him conditions but why? im not questioning Madhus intentions because I know they are good and all Madhu wants is to fulfill her promise and also to unite Radhaji and Rk because she also knows Rk loves and misses his mother .. but i didnt understand the reason for pushing it.. forgiveness doesnt come forcefully.. it should be by heart. now if RK agrees with Madhu's condition to accept his mother again would that be from his heart? true forgiveness?

I think Im the only one thinking like this.. ๐Ÿค”

P.S: loved the hug scene.. they should fight more.. i love them when they fight ๐Ÿ˜†

'Why this forced forgiveness :/'
Superb analysis, Tanzie.โญ๏ธ๐Ÿ‘
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: PurpleHorizon

Agreed. Madhu's intentions are genuine and good...no doubt about it. But the way she approaches to solve the issues just don't make sense. Its not like that RK and Radhaji had a fight a few days back over a box of chocolates that you keep such conditions...if I agree to you will you go and shake hands with her types.๐Ÿ˜ณ For the start Madhu needs to understand that mending relations or forgiveness should never be forced...whether its RK-Padmini case or RK-Radhaji. Infact in RK and Radhaji's case its not all about forgiveness...thrs a lot of bitterness and hurt that needs to be attended to. Instead, her condition would have made more sense if she had just told him to talk to Radhaji once and say what is in his heart. That would have more or less done the job. But I guess Madhu has always been like this.๐Ÿ˜• Anyways, like I said to you earlier...this forced forgivness is an insult to Radhaji and RK and their relationship. One more thing...why is she saying RK to apologise from his mom? Why is she assuming that all is RK's fault?๐Ÿ˜ณ I got it.. my posts are your essay writing grounds ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜†I dont think she is assuming its RKs fault bcoz she said u will forgive your mother but i guess she understands RK misses his mother. but like you said it cant be done as a condition and yes then it wont be fair na. so huge gap between rk and radhajis relationship which needs to be attended carefully and slowly. it will get clear this week i guess and like i told you earlier if the cvs show everything is ok between RK n radhaji in 1 day it would be so inconvenient ๐Ÿฅฑ



I just read some of your comments about if he forgives Radhaji suddenly and all...Tanzie, most probably it will be like that only. Coz he just needs to open his heart to his mom for once and that will be it. Rem what happened regarding his faith in Ganeshji and what I had said then. Its the same here. Its only a matter of facing and talking to her once (but ofcourse dil se)...coz he never stopped loving his mom. So it will not take time...the only thing needed is a push to start it...and it will be solved within no time. And that is how RK was and always have been...very sensitive and ultimately giving into his heart. So it does make sense. Totally agree there. he needs to open his heart and like always he will pour out his myriad of emotions to whoever he opened up. he bottled up to much inside alone so he just needs to open it. thats what he did with Ganeshji, Madhu and now i guess Radhaji. All I want is Rk realize and then accept his mother again but i don want to it be rushed. but the show speed is rocket speed now so Cvs can do anything and no idea how.. ๐Ÿ˜•


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