Originally posted by: leelaa9
Excellent analysis, Shri.👏 But I disagree with you on one point.
Madhu was mistaken about Radha not having asserted herself as a mother. Radha *has* asserted her rights with her son - but destructively, critically, negatively.
She has depended on her authority as Rishabh's mother, but on the behalf of Kukku, Sikki, Dipali and finally her bahu Madhu.
What we have seen of Radha on the occassions when she has pushed her authority as a mother has been with her son keeping her at a distance.
How much more would she have demanded and how much worse fickle would she have behaved had that distance not been there?
This is a woman who has neither sense nor wit. She is a puppet always dancing out someone else's tune.
If she asserts her authority as a mother, it will not be a mother but someone else's puppet who will wound RK all over again.
Leela,
I would agree with you about Radha's assessment, had I been concerning myself with Radha. To me she is always a failure and a supremely selfish woman more like a snake..with lesser intelligence and always nervous. She lashed out at RK to go an seek Madhu's forgiveness in that Nafrat phase...not because...she was wanting her son to be genuinely good. She lashed out because Madhu lashed at Radha and pointed her fingers at Rads womb which gave birth to such a jaanwar. This hurt Radha's ego and made her confront Rishabh. She is just always about herself.
Hence I am gonna ignore Rads.
For me, all my apprehension was about...will Madhu ever ...in her un-offensive manner...ever ask Rads why she does not try to patch up with her son. And that happened today. Madhu in her simplicity comes across as dim-wit and dumb she is...but seeing from the innocent state...she is actually true. For Madhu...Occam's Razor's rule works. So she pointed out to Rads what was her failure. And this intention of Madhu is enough. When worse comes worse or when she is asked to prioritize, these simple rules of MAdhu will always protect her from Radha's spider web of emotions.
As for RK...He knows Madhu is a dim-wit, but RK loves her for intentions. For him, she attracts him only for what she thinks and not now intelligently she thinks. Part of RK psyche is to keep playing with his Biwi. So if Madhu tries to force him into doing one thing, he accepts the challenge, does what she wishes and in return throws her a greater challenge where he makes sure that he wins. Where he retained the right to forgive Rads by his own will, he sweetly forces Madhu to forgive Shamsher.
So I was just judging the situation from Madhu's angle.
Btw, thanks you liked it. But don't you agree, there was nothing to analyse just for us to keep watching...😕
ETA: I forgot a NOT...My bad!! Pls reread. Its underlined.
Edited by 0-SD-0 - 12 years ago