Originally posted by: Mulan12
I really hope U really get successful in making the forum peaceful. And nice effort.
Here is what I noticed in this forum. I don't post here much. That is teh reason for the long post.
Just waiting for the forum to be more mature. I am a DD fan, but the amount of bashing going on here for DD makes me away from the forum. People have problems if she was called princess, if people praise her back, if people wish her to get good scenes, if people wish for Madhu stardom track. But it is to one's freedom right, how they love their favourite actor.
Some people here in this forum claims they are the only people who understand the show and try to degrade others by mocking their future predictions and ideas. Some people think they are the only people intelligent enough to understand the show, So people who don't understand shouldn't even express their views here. They are considered as dumb and stupid.
That is the problem in this forum.
For them it is a problem if someone made a post saying how will Madhu become a heroine. If a post was made like this then they think DD fans think the show is only about Madhu becoming a heroine and make fun of that. But I believe even this can be discussed this is a major part of the concept of this show. So can't member on this forum can discuss things like this when it is related to the show. And obviously a hardcore VD fans wouldn't make a post about Madhu and DD. So who will make a post like this Ofcourse people who loves DD or Madhu right.
When there is a post against the rules, MODS are there to close it and they are doing a fairly good job at that. Then what was the need for some members to make posts mocking other's posts and criticizing how many drooling posts were made every day and so and so and trying to make other members understand the show.
Sometimes there are dark story definition lessons and sometimes reality check posts where people's predictions and ideas are mocked. What was the need for lessons and reality checks. Members are not small children and their responsibility whom they have to give lessons and scold them.
Here everyone should have freedom to express his/her ideas and make posts as long as they are in line with this forum's rules. The funny thing is whenever they make a post there will always be a comment where they will mock about other posts and views expressed. That means they are also not accepting other's views right. But the same people will make posts saying I'm quitting the forum, here different opinions are not accepted and criticizing is not accepted. So that is why I am quitting. Why the need to announce about quitting, if anyone wants to quit just quit, there will be new members who will join and members always leaving. For me these kid of posts are more for attention seeking and to know how many people stop me from leaving, how many likes I get.
And every post they make there will always be an instigating comment where one of the lead is degraded and a comment to make fans upset.
Well they say star attraction of the show is RK, but when someone else say star attraction of the show is MB, the problem starts. But why making an issue out of that? Why are they expecting other's to understand when they even don't understand and accept other's views.
The problem here is some people just doesn't even want to make peace and let the neutral people be here. Whenever it seems yes the forum is in peace now, there an instigating post will be here to again make the forum a battlefield.
Sometimes I think some people here want to be popular than the leads of the show and want other members to make posts for them and praise their posts in this forum instead of making posts on the show and its leads. So maybe the reason for having problem when there are posts praising the leads of the show, instead it should be posts praising them.
Unless people make an effort to adjust with other's opinions and views and stop mocking and questioning other's views, it is impossible to make this forum peaceful.
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