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Posted: 12 years ago
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Moda are doing their job well. You can make fun posts, no problem. But it is more like insult posts
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Posted: 12 years ago
#12
best post
i like it

same mera bhi yahi hai
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with u that we can resolve these issues peacefully but for this to happen both the parties shd have an open mind. Compromise needs to be made from both ends I am a VD fan but I love DVD as well. I like DD as an actress n I find her pretty n talented but I defo dont drool over her. DD fans want to post 100 topics praising her, they r most welcome to do it but while doing so, they need not make other actors look small, thats defo bad n same goes for VD fans as well For each their own. They may feel he/she is the best coz for them he/she is their fav. So at the same time others will also have their fav right? Also if DD fans feel we VD fans r poking fun at them, y dont they see that sometimes we poke fun at VD/RK or even ourselves? Its all taken in light humor. Y get offended for tat? If a personal remark is being made on the actor as a person thats degrading then they have all rights to raise their voice. But even in fun posts n BBB aren't we allowed to have a say? Thats really really bad. If u make a post on something n ask someone for opinion, u shd also be sportive enough to take it in stride when somebody's opinion differs on urs n respect their views rather than bash them for taking a stand different from urs. If some person feels DD/VD is not so gr8 then its their opinion, their choice n they r entitled to the freedom of appreciating an actor/actress of their choice. Well if u try to enforce ur opinion on others though they take a neutral stand they will feel compelled to detest it. We have already lost some of the best TMs bcoz of this mess. How many more now is my question??????
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Posted: 12 years ago
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awesome post Zaara ...completely agree with you👍🏼
DD & VD both are pillars of Madhubala show...Im DD fan but now Im lovin VD as RK too ...DVD & Rishbala rocks😊
Edited by RENU1111 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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MY PROBLEM:
The forum is a mess. Any freedom of speech is not allowed here because few are the right ones and sensible ones. And when they dislike others' opinions, instead of disagreeing with the opinions in a respectful way, opinions will be mocked and members will be mocked. Many have left b/c of this. No one can say anything a different opinion or do something, else you will be mocked and you will be the reason for being for their fun and target. Tit for tat posts & so on. Even we disagree with many things but we don't mock each other, target each other and so on.

Mods have always stated to disagree with each others' opinions in a respectful way than attacking each other.

As for fun topics, just right now go to Manesha fun post about Karwa chout and you can see. an ACTUAL REAL fun post because it's about the show/characters etc than members/fan groups so on. Fun post is not a fun post if it hurts others. Fun post itself says to laugh others and bring positively than anger and negativity.

As for my personal opinion regarding this, even I like fun and having fun with other or in way to taunt others just for fun, BUT I will do this ONLY with my close friends/people who can actually understand me and my jokes. But if I go around and do the same with others, I am sure even you know, they will never like my making fun of them no matter how many times I tell them I was just joking because for them it will always look like I was making fun of them than I was having fun with them .
And I myself will never go after others if they just can't understand my jokes or if they get hurt, because for me fun/jokes etc are for LAUGH and having FUN with them. But if they won't find the same way, then w(hat's the point of me doing it? I will simply respect their space because if I still go after them, that will just make me look like I have no life and no respect for others' choices and sentiments. I believe in LIVE AND LET LIVE Unless someone mess with me first.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I totally agree with u zarat, i dont understand what is going on in this forum, every now and then there r fights, talks r going on about leaving the forum, plz guys stop this war and be together for our rishbala!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I appreciate your post truely. But I think after months of being in this forum I have realized that this problem cannot be solved.
Here people come as VD fan or DD fan not as DVD fan. It does dissapoint you but its the truth and its harsh.
I love Rishbala. Yes I am a VD fan but I equally respect DD and have never bashed her ever. I like her as Madhubala and like i cant see anyone else playing RK the same way I cant seeanyone else play Madhu NOW..
Edited by me_shreeya - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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agree superb post zara when this war going to end m fed up now infact mene bhe yahan ana band krdia hai its so irritating now
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@cutiee i agree with u. Fun posts are gud and i love it, but they become mocking posts
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I really hope U really get successful in making the forum peaceful. And nice effort.

Here is what I noticed in this forum. I don't post here much. That is teh reason for the long post.

Just waiting for the forum to be more mature. I am a DD fan, but the amount of bashing going on here for DD makes me away from the forum. People have problems if she was called princess, if people praise her back, if people wish her to get good scenes, if people wish for Madhu stardom track. But it is to one's freedom right, how they love their favourite actor.

Some people here in this forum claims they are the only people who understand the show and try to degrade others by mocking their future predictions and ideas. Some people think they are the only people intelligent enough to understand the show, So people who don't understand shouldn't even express their views here. They are considered as dumb and stupid.

That is the problem in this forum.

For them it is a problem if someone made a post saying how will Madhu become a heroine. If a post was made like this then they think DD fans think the show is only about Madhu becoming a heroine and make fun of that. But I believe even this can be discussed this is a major part of the concept of this show. So can't member on this forum can discuss things like this when it is related to the show. And obviously a hardcore VD fans wouldn't make a post about Madhu and DD. So who will make a post like this Ofcourse people who loves DD or Madhu right.

When there is a post against the rules, MODS are there to close it and they are doing a fairly good job at that. Then what was the need for some members to make posts mocking other's posts and criticizing how many drooling posts were made every day and so and so and trying to make other members understand the show.

Sometimes there are dark story definition lessons and sometimes reality check posts where people's predictions and ideas are mocked. What was the need for lessons and reality checks. Members are not small children and their responsibility whom they have to give lessons and scold them.

Here everyone should have freedom to express his/her ideas and make posts as long as they are in line with this forum's rules. The funny thing is whenever they make a post there will always be a comment where they will mock about other posts and views expressed. That means they are also not accepting other's views right. But the same people will make posts saying I'm quitting the forum, here different opinions are not accepted and criticizing is not accepted. So that is why I am quitting. Why the need to announce about quitting, if anyone wants to quit just quit, there will be new members who will join and members always leaving. For me these kid of posts are more for attention seeking and to know how many people stop me from leaving, how many likes I get.

And every post they make there will always be an instigating comment where one of the lead is degraded and a comment to make fans upset.

Well they say star attraction of the show is RK, but when someone else say star attraction of the show is MB, the problem starts. But why making an issue out of that? Why are they expecting other's to understand when they even don't understand and accept other's views.

The problem here is some people just doesn't even want to make peace and let the neutral people be here. Whenever it seems yes the forum is in peace now, there an instigating post will be here to again make the forum a battlefield.


Sometimes I think some people here want to be popular than the leads of the show and want other members to make posts for them and praise their posts in this forum instead of making posts on the show and its leads. So maybe the reason for having problem when there are posts praising the leads of the show, instead it should be posts praising them.

Unless people make an effort to adjust with other's opinions and views and stop mocking and questioning other's views, it is impossible to make this forum peaceful.

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