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Posted: 12 years ago
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My below comment will either be royally ignored or I'm in for a royal kick in my butt by two fangroups.
I can only speak for myself here, I do not represent anyone. This is me and only me talking. There are times when I haven't liked posts from kutta gang. What did I do? IGNORED THEM! There are times when I did like their posts and I COMMENTED on them. SIMPLE! Also there have been posts about DD which I thought contained too much focus on her looks. What did I do? Yes, IGNORED IT! Then other post have been very beautiful. What did I do? You guessed right...I COMMENTED!
I have ALWAYS believed in freedom of speach but I also believe in doing it with a bit of respect. It is true we all can't like the same thing...it's impossible! But is it so hard to respect the differences? Is it so hard to ignore what you don't like? I swear to God...human behaviour keeps baffling me.
On a side note. Yes I'm supporting Shifali's decision but hoping it's only temporary. I would like to have fun posts back again.
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I forget to answer the question...MB forum is for everyone not only DD fans.
Edited by rahmona_pakswe - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#73

Originally posted by: Ipkknd-ki-fan1


Sorry not to great at hindi but as far as I understand... a fun post is fun because its meant to make people laugh NOT to offend someone so I don't see why it got locked?
By the way what post was it?😕


Hindi aur no hindi. Its fine as far as we can communicate😆
Yes I agree about your fun post but, seriously can I control if people take my opinion on DD as offending? So, how will define that? I won't give my opinion on DD to offend anybody but just as an opinion.

I am talking about this current topic. This will get closed in 1/2 an hour.😆

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Posted: 12 years ago
#74

Originally posted by: rahmona_pakswe

My below comment will either be royally ignored or I'm in for a royal kick in my butt by two fangroups.

I can only speak for myself here, I do not represent anyone. This is me and only me talking. There are times when I haven't liked posts from kutta gang. What did I do? IGNORED THEM! There are times when I did like their posts and I COMMENTED on them. SIMPLE! Also there have been posts about DD which I thought contained too much focus on her looks. What did I do? Yes, IGNORED IT! Then other post have been very beautiful. What did I do? You guessed right...I COMMENTED!
I have ALWAYS believed in freedom of speach but I also believe in doing it with a bit of respect. It is true we all can't like the same thing...it's impossible! But is it so hard to respect the differences? Is it so hard to ignore what you don't like? I swear to God...human behaviour keeps baffling me.
On a side note. Yes I'm supporting Shifali's decision but hoping it's only temporary. I would like to have fun posts back again.
Edit:
I forget to answer the question...MB forum is for everyone not only DD fans.


@red you sound very much like me. I do that whenver I am at Forum.

@blue - freedom kiske liye? Just for a 20 people. I am sure rest hundreds of fans are following the same rule you mentioned in red.

@pink - I do not agree with her decision because I think it shows that a few 20 people can bend her to make the rules for the Forum.

P.S. My question is not a question. It is a vent topic.😕

Edited by Ritzie - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I understand your point of view. But I have a small request - please do not place all fans under the same category. You get different types of fans for every celeb. Some good, some bad...some ugly 😆 I won't name the celebrity but I have been at the receiving end of fans of a male celebrity in the past at a different forum. So this is sort of behaviour is not exclusive to DD fans alone.

I am very well aware of the fun posts you are referring to. Some DD fans may have an issue with it, and some may not. Personally I fall into the latter because I don't really care a hoot about what pple have to say 😆 as long as it's in good spirit and with no malicious intention, I would be the last person to cry foul.

But I think both parties are to be blamed. Some (not all) DD fans need to take a step back and relax. There's no need to create hoopla over small matters, whereas some (not all) non DD fans should be a bit more dignified in their approach. No need to rile up fans.

At the end of the day, IF doesn't really belong to anyone except Vijay 😆 And lastly, I'm a DD fan but I don't have issues with anyone. So this proves the obsessive fan theory to be flawed 😛


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Posted: 12 years ago
#76
You know what, the topic was Not closed because I couldn't handle 'true' comments. The topic was closed because I am not at home right now to handle your questions.

The ban on Fun topics is for a week! A week! And no this forum is not for DD Fans only.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Rafa-

I understand your point of view. But I have a small request - please do not place all fans under the same category. You get different types of fans for every celeb. Some good, some bad...some ugly 😆 I won't name the celebrity but I have been at the receiving end of fans of a male celebrity in the past at a different forum. So this is sort of behaviour is not exclusive to DD fans alone.
>> I am not putting all the fans in the same category. My question does but if you see the first para of my post, I clearly said 20 fans (not an exact number but this shows that I know that the tee tatler are very few in number).

I am very well aware of the fun posts you are referring to. Some DD fans may have an issue with it, and some may not. Personally I fall into the latter because I don't really care a hoot about what pple have to say 😆 as long as it's in good spirit and with no malicious intention, I would be the last person to cry foul.

>>That means you fall in the same category as me. I ignore the posts that don't interest me. I gave the title to my post because I wanted everybody to read my post and not let those 20 fans decide the forum rules. My point is "If I like fun posts, I shouldn't be deprived of them because there are 20 fans who do not like them."

But I think both parties are to be blamed. Some (not all) DD fans need to take a step back and relax. There's no need to create hoopla over some matters, whereas some (not all) non DD fans should be a bit more dignified in their approach. No need to rile up fans.
>> I am not blaming anybody. I am venting because I feel that some injustice has happened. I dont care if somebody said anything to VD (and ofcourse I don't care if somebody said anything to DD). But I do care if the only posts I like on this forum are banned.

At the end of the day, IF doesn't really bleong to anyone except Vijay 😆 And lastly, I'm a DD fan but I don't have issues with anyone. So this proves the obsessive fan theory to be flawed 😛
>>Look Vijay also is earning from IF. He gets more hits and he gets advertisements.😆 I know there are more fans like you or me but the only audible fans are the tee-tatlers. This is the reason I made this post - so that they are not the only ones. We all should be allowed to read what we like. And thanks to you for making your opinion heard in this comment👏.


Posted: 12 years ago
#78

Originally posted by: Ritzie


@red you sound very much like me. I do that whenver I am at Forum.

@blue - freedom kiske liye? Just for a 20 people. I am sure rest hundreds of fans are following the same rule you mentioned in red.

@pink - I do not agree with her decision because I think it shows that a few 20 people can bend her to make the rules for the Forum.

P.S. My question is not a question. It is a vent topic.😕

Glad we are on the same page regarding one thing (red highlighted) and I hope most people are following that rule but those people aren't visible. The sad truth is negativity always stand out more than positivity.
When I said freedom of speach I meant everyone, not focusing on 20 people or. And yes, I still agree with Shifali's decision...as a temporary solution.
Sorry for mistaking your topic as a question. My limited braincells do fail me. 😆 Far too often. 😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
#79

Originally posted by: *Shifali*

You know what, the topic was Not closed because I couldn't handle 'true' comments. The topic was closed because I am not at home right now to handle your questions.

The ban on Fun topics is for a week! A week! And no this forum is not for DD Fans only.


Thanks Shifali for clarifying both the things 1)the reason for the topic closure 2) the length of the ban.

But I hope you expected that there will be an anger as a result of this ban. I am not asking you to reply now if you can't but we do deserve a better explanation for the ban once you get a chance and time.

P.S. I understand the complication of your position to take a decision but I do not understand the ban on fun topics.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ritzie

>>kahan batayegi fir?😛
Group par jaa ke read karna you will get to know 😆


>>đŸ€Ł
Don't laught I am serious 😆

>>Kaisa proof. Mujhe bhi batayo
Again group mein jaa kar read karo... if we are angry it's because there is a reason behind... 😉


>> Jitni baar tera comment pada usme Anmol zaroor tha. *Yawn*
Just shut up and this time I am damn serious... how many times do you come in this forum ? Once a month, twice a month ? Ek do comment mein Anmol ka naam lkya likh diya tum toh peeche hi padhgaye ho... it doesn't mean I always talk about him... Ab toh Nishi has also stopped taesing me because we hardly talk about him... Jis baare mein tumhe pata nahin hai please don't talk about it... Don't bring the past in present... Lagta hai I shouldn't have commented here but thought you made a topic after ages toh baat karloon tumse... but you haven't changed still the same đŸ„±

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