META chai party: RK as James Dean - Page 3

Originally posted by: applenpeaches

But our Indian society sees seeking any sort of psychological help as a taboo, that it ends up creating lots of weirdos in the society.
As it stands, Indian attitudes to personal relationships is highly complex. Added to it there is no outside psychological help.

Unlike reel life, in real life the wifes are not super woman silently bearing all assaults on her dignity and person (I am not talking about physical assault, but rather of the mental kind). So here I am. I usually bury my head in the sand and forget unpleasant issues- doesnt make it go away but, dulls the pain... So probably this will be the last time, you will see this referred. And I would rather you too never mention it again..
I won't. But allow me to salute you and your courage.

PTSD is very severe for a child to bear alone. When not treated properly it creates all sorts of mental imbalances in the child, which the child learns to mask under his ego and arrogance.. Just like bhoomi mentioned, he grows into a supremely confident man believing he is the center of the universe he inhibits.

RK sees his mother's marriage as betrayal and grows to hate her. He allows her to stay on in his house and tolerates her new family as well. He is lonely as only such a person can be. Its very difficult for him to let any one near. One man army- no pun regarding the personas trapped inside him.. He is emotionally detached from everyone else.. He is not emotionally attached to anyone else.. With Madhu his mask slipped bcos he allowed her a glimpse into his heart, his feelings and his emotions...

Re. Dipali.. Dont think he was physically intimate with her.. Probably saw his temper tantrums during his mother's marriage (My second post).. Thats the only reason I think he is not pushing her away unlike others..

That could be possible, especially if she's a childhood acquaintance. He's very wary of her. And all those lines about gussa ya taqleef, she's a sadist, methinks. Or at least a true believer of schadenfraude. She has fun getting her darts through people's armours. Sick.

@SD.. reply to your post after paet puja (hope i got the spelling right)..

- FG

Originally posted by: Foucaults-qalam

@ bhoomi. I will only say: remy martin VSOP.
😃 Has that got anything to do with your rapping?
😃

I had not intended Deepali to be the predator. She is merely another predator, who's sexual aggression cause RK to revert to Rishab and thus become immensely vulnerable.

I suspect that Kukku was directly or indirectly involved with the sexual abuse. Sikky is older than Rishab, and perhaps that could be why RK is so overtly violent and threatening towards him as an adult.

No, I understand that. I was simply confused about who the abuser could be. I didn't want to deal with the possibility of it being Kukku. But since you have said it, I agree that it is extremely possible. In fact, it is a given that Kukku has abused RK in some way, if not sexual.

Originally posted by: bhoomi.s

FQ and B (short and sweet with all its associated meaning..)

I disagree with the child sexual abuse theory for his hatred of kukuji.. He hates him for having married his mother.. If kukuji had abused him, he wont even be tolerating his presence at his home right now and he would be seen nervous or awkward in his presence.. He is neither.. He is his usual arrogant self..

Originally posted by: applenpeaches

FQ and B (short and sweet with all its associated meaning..)

I disagree with the child sexual abuse theory for his hatred of kukuji.. He hates him for having married his mother.. If kukuji had abused him, he wont even be tolerating his presence at his home right now and he would be seen nervous or awkward in his presence.. He is neither.. He is his usual arrogant self..