The stereotypic conceptions of liking a bad boy.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Why am I bringing this here? Because quite a lot of people have this amusingly wrong conception about dark characters being liked..dark characters like RK being liked cause they are PHYSICALY ATTRACTIVE.🤣 And honestl , I haven't heard a more ridiculous conception about the reasons for liking and popularising a particular character..many people do this..Many people thought girls liked Udayveer from DEK cause he was "hot"...same with Abhay from PKYEK even..some people only saw the superficial arrogance and "meaness" Abhay wanted the world to see but never saw how he fought with the whole world for just one person and his love was such that it stood where it was always for 200 whole years!!! No. No one even thought of seeing that..no one thought that in the beginning why Abhay never expressed what he felt by his words or his face..nobody understood that the pain of the past..of losing someone tormented him so much for 200 years that that pain for that, the tears, the torment became numb at one point..and that numbness became a solid iron mask where you don't or cannot know what he feels..until Piya broke that mask slowly..but lets not go off topic from the start.😆 I made this topic for anyone who thinks RK is loved only for his bad boy image and looks and the general statement made in some topics that normal girls always go for the "bad guy".First of all , what is good or bad anyway? our society's and our mind's preconceived notions of "good" and "bad".The creator of us never made these conceptions. WE DID! WE ;ABEL SOMEONE GOOD , BAD , UGLY PRETTY BY OUR OWN NOTIONS.But that doesn't become the "truth" just cause the majority of humans think it is.These "bad boys" might be hard to handle , but once they care and start caring..they fight for you from the people you even thought apparently "cared and loved" you..they become your constant protective shield..That's what RK will be for Madhu! Can't one possibly understand? He will be hard to break,YES.But once he starts caring..the very people who were her life- like roma , rishnaa , paddy , even makkhi...when they will start creating the "aag" in her life cause her life will be transformed..HE is going to protect her from all of them that time..even from her OWN FATHER!! HE IS GOING TO HER PROTECTION SHIELD. JAB AISE LOG PYAAR KARTEY HAI NAA..TAB SAARI DUNIYA SE TUNHAARI LIYE LADTEY HAI..UNLIKE THESE "GOOD" GUYS WHO ARE GOOD WITH WORDS AND ACTIONS..😆THESE bad boys who are arrogant and proud..even leeched types..when the time for portecting a girl's respect will come..they will do it whether they know the girl or not! And the basic respect for a woman from a man..is very important ..much more important than love..cause love cannot stop violent reltionships from happening , but respect CAN.my point?

the reason why people dont like mukund is cause when the police was keep on trying sideline her saying who the hell is she to comment on family matters..if his love was strong like it seemed to be in his thoughts about her..then he would speak to the inspector to not talk to madhu like that.. look all i am saying is ok , he must have been shocked..but where was the respect and hidden feelings which should have come to play when pradhan was as usual being inappropriate with her? we know he either makes a move on her with punned dialogues or tells her in very inappropriate ways especially by demeaning her in front of Mukund's mom that who is she to talk?


Mukund should have at least told the inspector that she is the one to talk cause she SAVED MY LIFE AND TOOK ME TO THE HOSPITAL. as simple as that. can't even defend a girl and her respect when she is doing so much for you? give me a break. and if a girl even is doing so much for you , fine be shocked..lekin ek gentleman ki tarah se atleast defend a woman's repsect- regardless of knowing her or not...i guess my mom is right you know , jo aadmi khud ko defend nahi kar sakta aur koshish mein haar maan jaata hai..woh apne pyaar kya maryaada sabke saamne kaise defend karega? he was already infactuated with her , by the way before Madhu was humiliated by Pradhan..his thoughts about her and her smile and her attitude and persona going on in his mind even before Madhu defended him..love and feelings for him happened in FIRST SIGHT..IT WAS WRITTEN IN ARTICLE , ALSO. so yeah. please tell me where were those feelings when she was getting humiliated left right and center?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agreed. There's no point liking a guy without spine...unless you are spineless yourself, because then that would be a match made in heaven! 😆 Which is why I dislike Mukund to the teee!!!
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Originally posted by: bookworm-ALS--

Agreed. There's no point liking a guy without spine...unless you are spineless yourself, because then that would be a match made in heaven! 😆 Which is why I dislike Mukund to the teee!!!

look even if self respect is not really there...it can grow..but cummon..respect a woman or save the respect of hers!! then how can you even see your feelings for in dignity when repsect is not there with love?😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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laughing at me? laugh at yourself.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Koyel, so rightly said about the conceptions of good and bad, right and wrong. 👏

I do not understand from where people got this notion that most of us like RK coz he is hot or has dashing looks or whtvr. And it certainly is not coz RK is played by Viv. The reasons for liking RK go beyond his good looks.

Even if I don't go deep the basic reason is that he entertains us. Simple.
And for those who want a more deep reason...should get the answers in ur post.😆

And whats with crediting a char with colors so early?? Black ,white Atleast let a char unfold first then decide on the colors yaar.😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bookworm-ALS--

Agreed. There's no point liking a guy without spine...unless you are spineless yourself, because then that would be a match made in heaven! 😆 Which is why I dislike Mukund to the teee!!!

I knw am going off topic, but ur comment just reminded me smthn. Sry Koyel but u hv to bear this.😆
Did u ever like that other guy(I can't even rem his name now😆) in CSAM? Somehow I could never make myself like him since the start. 😳 Even when he was shown so goody goody.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: PurpleHorizon

Koyel, so rightly said about the conceptions of good and bad, right and wrong. 👏


I do not understand from where people got this notion that most of us like RK coz he is hot or has dashing looks or whtvr. And it certainly is not coz RK is played by Viv. The reasons for liking RK go beyond his good looks.

Even if I don't go deep the basic reason is that he entertains us. Simple.
And for those who want a more deep reason...should get the answers in ur post.😆

And whats with crediting a char with colors so early?? Black ,white Atleast let a char unfold first then decide on the colors yaar.😆

i have no idea urvi..seriously i was tired of such labels and conceptions toh likh daala jo maan mein tha...i dont know how people get so shallow and start juding.lol.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I second u! 👍🏼 Like ppl say they dnt understand y many dnt like Mukund,da same way i dnt understand y do they think v luv RK n Abhay 4 hotness! 😳 Its da character which matters n hotness n gud luks r added bonus 2 a power-packed character! Even 2day ppl think Abhay is luvd 4 his hotness,bt they fail 2 c da depth of his character,his humanity,selflessness,his true luv! nt 2 4get his xtremely strong char,he wud stand 4 da person he luvs against da whole world!even Abhay was called a villain at da start of da show n Kabir,da sweet guy,bt as the story progressed n layers of AR's character were revealed,v went insane 4 him,nt coz of his luks,bt his Char which was epic in da true sense! n nw its da same 4 RK,ppl say he's a brat,a bad boy,hot n dats y v luv him! bt they 4get,dat RK is unpredictable,he has different shades n layers 2 his char,he is 1 strong character n v've seen only 1 side of RK,n though he is rich,spoilt brat,he cn fight 4 Madhu against da world n he will,no doubt! he has da guts! bt Mukund is more of a coward,he cnt even stand 4 himself,wen Madhu was talking 2 da inspector,wen der was discussion regarding da case wid his family,all he did was sitting back quietly n say nthng at all! More dan RK,mukund deserved those bangles,coz he needed Madhu 2 fight 4 him! he cn only dream abt Madhu n does nthng! his character bores us coz of this nature! I dnt have anythng against da actor,bt i dnt c any reason 2 like da char,he didnt give me any yet! n Koyel,sumtimes i feel RK might b sum what like AR! little similar! It cnt b xactly same,n every AR fan cn bet dat,coz RK has grey shades! bt AR was as white as snow,even more dan dat! infact itna white to ajkal tide b nai deta jitna AR ka char tha! 😍 🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I loved always your posts, but never commented on any.

Completely agrees with you that there is no good, bad and ugly. We our society created this and we just following them blindly.

Coming to Mukund's character I cannot bear him even as madhu's friend. It's nothing to do with the actor who plays it.

Once more loved your post 👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: MyAngelAbhay

I second u! 👍🏼 Like ppl say they dnt understand y many dnt like Mukund,da same way i dnt understand y do they think v luv RK n Abhay 4 hotness! 😳 Its da character which matters n hotness n gud luks r added bonus 2 a power-packed character! Even 2day ppl think Abhay is luvd 4 his hotness,bt they fail 2 c da depth of his character,his humanity,selflessness,his true luv! nt 2 4get his xtremely strong char,he wud stand 4 da person he luvs against da whole world!even Abhay was called a villain at da start of da show n Kabir,da sweet guy,bt as the story progressed n layers of AR's character were revealed,v went insane 4 him,nt coz of his luks,bt his Char which was epic in da true sense! n nw its da same 4 RK,ppl say he's a brat,a bad boy,hot n dats y v luv him! bt they 4get,dat RK is unpredictable,he has different shades n layers 2 his char,he is 1 strong character n v've seen only 1 side of RK,n though he is rich,spoilt brat,he cn fight 4 Madhu against da world n he will,no doubt! he has da guts! bt Mukund is more of a coward,he cnt even stand 4 himself,wen Madhu was talking 2 da inspector,wen der was discussion regarding da case wid his family,all he did was sitting back quietly n say nthng at all! More dan RK,mukund deserved those bangles,coz he needed Madhu 2 fight 4 him! he cn only dream abt Madhu n does nthng! his character bores us coz of this nature! I dnt have anythng against da actor,bt i dnt c any reason 2 like da char,he didnt give me any yet! n Koyel,sumtimes i feel RK might b sum what like AR! little similar! It cnt b xactly same,n every AR fan cn bet dat,coz RK has grey shades! bt AR was as white as snow,even more dan dat! infact itna white to ajkal tide b nai deta jitna AR ka char tha! 😍 🤣

rofl thats the thing 😆 mukund cant stand for a woman first of all , feelings baad mein aati hai..toh rishtaa kya khaak nibhaayegaa? you cant defend protect or stand for a woman what will you do when she is your girl? 😆 rk jo bhi ho , he'll defend and protect a girl toh jab koi usko choo jaayega tab toh puri duniya se ladegaa same was with Abhay..he didnt know anyone but saved everyone from trouble cause thats how he was and he never liked the fact that people would notice that..ecept piya of course 😆fabulous post rukshi. 🤗 sab ko print karke ye dena chahiye😆

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