is avani right?

I just want to ask u people that is avani right in giving the whole salary to her mother? this is really a tricky situation, because after marriage u har the responsibilty of your in laws, u stay with them, eat in their house, so the expenses of looking after u are at your inlaws cost! at the same time i feel we cant just let go off our responsibility towards our parents, afterall they have given us birth, taken care of us, educated us all these years, so when the time comes, it is our duty to help our parents! what i feel is that we should split our salary half and give to both families, because at the end of the day, we are responsible for both the families! sometimes i feel avani cares only about her mothers family, she seems to be least bothered about bhaskars family, and thats why the treat her so badly! I know they are a horrible family, but still ! now when abha has started earning, then also she is feeling guilty! what do u guys think, plz reply!

u know i do agree with u ... actully from day one i have been saying that ... its not fair to give whole salary to maayka ... she should split in half ... if bhasku was gar jamai then that would have been different thing ... she has came up with new plan she wants to give salary to her family and overtime to her in laws which i dont agree with ... who knows how much money she will get for overtime ... either way she should have split the money in half ... its a different thing that her inlaws and hubby r greedy but right now we r just discussing how avin wants it her way ... she should have got married to gar jamai type of a guy or an orphane ... if her in laws were rich then it would have been ok for her to give money to her parents

how can an overtime run the house, it can be a maximum of 5000 rupees!

Well personally I think its her money, so its her choice , as long as she made it clear to the sasural-wale beforehand that she would be giving her salary to her maayka.

i do agree with ur point that avni should give half of her salary to her mom n half to her in laws. bhaskar's family is also not financially so sound. show focuses on avni's mother n her financial condition bcz she is a single woman but same goes for bhaskar. even his dad couldnt give minimum luxuries also moreover bhaskar is the only bread winner now.

...its not a question of half & full ..avni should give a part of her money as required to her mom n sisters n
rest she should spend on her own expenses like clothes , soap, oil, perfume , shampoo..etc 😆😆😆...n also spend on household expenses of Bhaskar's home like Buying groceries , buying clothes occasionally for her in-laws

..anyways she should spend it as she wishes ...😊

u know what, even my mom said the same thing, a working women should not give her salary to anyone, she should keep it for herself, so that at difficult times,she can have her own independence! or she can also invest that money for her children! and over here, i think both the families are in need of money! i feel avani should not have got married only! and now that she has got married, and abha and her mother are trying to be independent, then also she is not letting them be! yesterday also she was feeling guilty that her mother asked for a job from her kaka, what was wrong in that? she was just asking for a job, not financial help?

Originally posted by: RAMKIARCHU

u know what, even my mom said the same thing, a working women should not give her salary to anyone, she should keep it for herself, so that at difficult times,she can have her own independence! or she can also invest that money for her children! and over here, i think both the families are in need of money! i feel avani should not have got married only! and now that she has got married, and abha and her mother are trying to be independent, then also she is not letting them be! yesterday also she was feeling guilty that her mother asked for a job from her kaka, what was wrong in that? she was just asking for a job, not financial help?

Originally posted by: sunitaakumar

I really do not understand why this whole big fuss about "how" to earn money... cos the number of opportunities we have in India, I don't think it is there anywhere in the world!!!! I mean, Avni's mom could start stitching clothes (start with falls, piques etc.) or if she cooks well, why not start dabba system? Or maybe make masalas at home? She need not go out in the sun to work... and anyways, no work is small as far as you get money and are independent... both Abha n Aditi can help her in whatever she is doing whenever they have time at hand... maybe going further when her work (business) expands, she can engage other women...