is avani right? - Page 3

Originally posted by: shonu.703.

yeah to add to this, avni is life long money minting machine

now we talk about lata- rohini hattangadi- as she is saas nd talks harsh , and very cunning all time, so we feel hitch

what abt kaveri, goda goda bolun, she used to hack money form vani for her useless son, and always till avni used to leave door to office, her mother will be after her- avni kiraya, avni electric bill, avni manu la paise

now hr inlaws - the only difference is these inlawas are litle bit raw suckers and those were diplomatic suckers her mothers hosue- THIS IS AS FAR AS MONEY- I TALK

Originally posted by: April2007

Kaveri raised her alone after her father left them, she has right to expect Avni as her child to help her and her siblings. When sibling will grow up they will also help. The brother was abundant by father as a result he suffered. Btw, Kaveri despite her faults raised a good daughter.

In-laws didn't raise Avni and Avni is doing more than her fair share of work that should do for her upkeep. Bhasker mom should ask Bhasker for money, she has no right to expect anything from Avni.

Basker's Aaaii's useless daughter is married, she neither does housework nor earns anything, what kind of deal her in- laws got..

Originally posted by: April2007

One to one and half hours to cook lunch for 10 people..she must be a machine even machines cannot do so fast..it will take more than as least 3 hrs and if take into account shopping even more time..the husband probably takes another two to three hours delivering (to and fro).

It takes about two to three hours to put fall on one sari..4 to 5 saris every day will make a person blind. Btw, how far does |s 400 go

Originally posted by: patelcharu

In today's world I think people expect too much from Woman. Before when woman was not working outside to make money, but woman was overwhelmed with house work with many responsibilities such cooking, cleaning, washing, dusting, moping, taking care of children, husband, nanad, dewar and the most IN LAWs. Outcome is 0; I mean 80% family never has given justices to her or never even appreciated to her. Now day's women working hard to make money and still when she come home she needs to do house work. At the end society expect to give half of her pay to her In-LAWs...my question to you all..."WHY?"...I don't see the needs of giving her half or whole salary to in laws. They haven't done anything for her (in general). In real like 95% in-laws are like they have shown in DOR. Yes if she give money for her expense or she can buy on her own if she don't want to be dependent on her husband'or if she not help out in house work.

Women start working hard to make money...and still do house work...but 75% of man' do they help out women in house work? If they do than may be for him but not for his family. For his family they all have to treat daughter in law with lot of respect, love and in order to take have to give something.

As of our culture, religion...after marriage MAN is responsible to make money, and full fill all her needs...not women. There is no where written that Women have to run his family if she is working outside and come home to help out in house work.

Husband-Wife are equally responsible for both side of family in order to share women's salary and husband have work in house just like wife have too. And Husband needs to help out wife family needs' wife already sacrificing her family after getting married'what else husband and his family want???

You know our society only want to take from Woman but when it's time to give something ...they wash their hands or says harsh words to her. Only few families understand meaning of sacrifice, give, understanding, love, trust and the most equality''

Sorry...but I think Avni is right...she can help her mom and keep some for her future. Bhasker and his family is responsible for there needs...not Avni.