so here it is:
Caught between two worlds
Post marriage, Abhishek Bachchan isn't being his usual friendly self towards female co-stars according to the grapevine. Poor Priyanka Chopra, whom he fondly called "Piggy Chops", was at the receiving end of his surprisingly cold behaviour during the shoot. Apparently ever since he has got married, AB junior is keeping most of his heroines at arms' length. This sudden change in behaviour is being blamed on Ash, who, sources say, likes to keep her hubby only to herself and his male buddies. Let's see what a few
married and unmarried celeb guys have to say if they are to choose between friendship and conjugal bliss.
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Mishal Raheja (actor)
I expect my wife to be sensible and to trust me. If she points fingers at my female friends, I will find out the reason behind it, as she won't be objecting just for the heck of it. I can't just cut off ties from trustworthy old friends. I will explain to her that I will be within my limits. I will give her examples of other married guys who have female friends and tell her "you too may have friends whom I don't like, but I am not asking you to destroy your friendship with them". Thus I will strike a balance between marital harmony and friendship.
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Vivan Bathena (TV actor)
At first I will try to make my wife understand that I have known my friends for a longer time than I have known her. So, I will try to work things out by encouraging my female friends and my wife-to-be to meet up so that they get along well. But despite all my efforts, if she is not happy with my friends, I will slowly back out from them because ultimately, the comfort of my spouse, with whom I will be spending all my life, is more important than friends who may come and go.
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Ignatius Camilo (model)
First of all, I won't be dating such a girl. After spending time with her for years, I would get to know her nature properly. I will drop her if she becomes possessive and suspicious. However, if my wife suspects my friendship with another girl, I will clarify my position once and then expect her to understand. If she still persists and objects to my mixing with my female friends, I will ask her to carry on with her own life as her possessiveness will affect our future too.
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Nikhil Mehra (fashion designer)
First of all, guys shouldn't make a wrong choice by marrying such a possessive girl. In case you have, prioritise who is more important. You can always meet new people and new friends. But if you want to keep up the friendship with old friends, then reason out with your wife. I will first ask her the reasons for her objection and depending on how logical her answer is, I will take the decision.
As told to SULOGNA MEHTA
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