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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Arjun


I haven't seen episode so will write something later. On the first day, I felt she was received pretty well. Though I guess Pooja's kids were expecting for some celeb to show up 😳

ditto ArjunšŸ˜›.......will watch it at 9 p.m.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think Pooja went with an open mind and she was ready to adjust and she did except she was not comfortable in cooking in the mess which I agree coz I'm also a freak but Radha went with a close mind and was not ready to adjust at all. Pooja was rite about the chappatis that if their son can eat 2 or 3 day old ladoo y not chappati. Food should not be just thrown away coz it is one day old. I think Pooja household was much organized and actually I was quite impresed with her lifestyle that she gives time to her family and to herself also. As far as the maid was concerned when in a household the maids r working for a longer period of time they do become the part of memeber of the house and r treated that way and r not treated as servants anymore and they do have a say in the matters of the house hold. Radha was not ready to adjut at all. She was tooooooooooo busy thinking how to downgrade pooja that she is not a good mother and I agreed with pooja when her daughter did not tell Radha the issues between her and her mother Pooja was absolutely rite and her daughter also that they dont have to discuss the issue that r between mother and daughter with anybody else.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Radha was a total misfit. On one hand she talked about displaying aalia'spaintings to show people how good a painter she is, on the other hand radha talked about not believing in showing off emotions and gratitudes during the face to face exit interview. I don't think she would understand her contradictions even if she saw the episode. Made a complete fool of herself with her adament nature

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: zarmeeno

I think Pooja went with an open mind and she was ready to adjust and she did except she was not comfortable in cooking in the mess which I agree coz I'm also a freak but Radha went with a close mind and was not ready to adjust at all. Pooja was rite about the chappatis that if their son can eat 2 or 3 day old ladoo y not chappati. Food should not be just thrown away coz it is one day old. I think Pooja household was much organized and actually I was quite impresed with her lifestyle that she gives time to her family and to herself also. As far as the maid was concerned when in a household the maids r working for a longer period of time they do become the part of memeber of the house and r treated that way and r not treated as servants anymore and they do have a say in the matters of the house hold. Radha was not ready to adjut at all. She was tooooooooooo busy thinking how to downgrade pooja that she is not a good mother and I agreed with pooja when her daughter did not tell Radha the issues between her and her mother Pooja was absolutely rite and her daughter also that they dont have to discuss the issue that r between mother and daughter with anybody else.


completely agree with u..

I think if there was a man in Pooja's house then anuradha would have act differently. but here she thought she could say and do whatever she feel like to as she is the head of the house now.. which she couldn't do in her own house. but she completely lost at the first place when she had argument with Aliya.. thats why they didn't support her later on when anita was arguing
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mishlae

Radha was a total misfit. On one hand she talked about displaying aalia'spaintings to show people how good a painter she is, on the other hand radha talked about not believing in showing off emotions and gratitudes during the face to face exit interview. I don't think she would understand her contradictions even if she saw the episode. Made a complete fool of herself with her adament nature

I totally agree with u. What is harm in saying sorry,, please, and thank u. I say it to my son whenever I want him to do something for me I always say please can u do this to me and thank u rite away and when he does it then I again I say thank u and if i make mistake I dont get embarrassed saying sorry even to my own son. U r just teaching ur kids to be courteous
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yes, I feel Anuradha did faced stiff opposition in Pooja's household. Kids were expecting a celebrity and they were disappointed that they did not get one. Also Anita seems to be a bully. šŸ˜† She just wanted to do it by her Pooja didi ways, she too had a close mind. Pooja should have told Anita before hand that she would have to listen to Anu as that is what game is about. I understand Anita is very loyal to Pooja but that does not give her any right to talk to Anuradha in a very rude manner. It is a show and as per its rules Anu will take care of the house. If even for a small simple thing or change they object and create an issue then the purpose of the show is defeated totally. Anita objected for each single thing which Anuradha suggested. Anita acted like a bully from the very first day towards Anu. Children looking at Anita's behaviour towards Anu felt Anu is not good as they know Anita for long time.

On the other hand Anuradha did not help her matters by not taking part from day one and sleeping till late and supposedly kept the children hungry for very long. At that point only she somehow starting loosing ground. Later on when she accuse Pooja to be a bad mom and all that argument, she completely lost it. After that children totally went against her and who would blame them.

Anuradha did not go with an open mind and as soon as she saw whose house it was and Pooja image and no man in the house, her thinking was the house is not run properly. She decided then and there that everything in that house must be wrong and she must try to improve it. Having preconceived notions surely does not help.

So yes Anuradha got a.raw deal from Anita but Anu too did not help matters by having a fixed mind set and not ready to change it.

Edited by sweta01 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweta01

Yes, I feel Anuradha did faced stiff opposition in Pooja's household. Kids were expecting a celebrity and they were disappointed that they did not get one. Also Anita seems to be a bully. šŸ˜† She just wanted to do it by her Pooja didi ways, she too had a close mind. Pooja should have told Anita before hand that she would have to listen to Anu as that is what game is about. I understand Anita is very loyal to Pooja but that does not give her any right to talk to Anuradha in a very rude manner. It is a show and as per its rules Anu will take care of the house. If even for a small simple thing or change they object and create an issue then the purpose of the show is defeated totally. Anita objected for each single thing which Anuradha suggested. Anita acted like a bully from the very first day towards Anu. Children looking at Anita's behaviour towards Anu felt Anu is not good as they know Anita for long time.

On the other hand Anuradha did not help her matters by not taking part from day one and sleeping till late and supposedly kept the children hungry for very long. At that point only she somehow starting loosing ground. Later on when she accuse Pooja to be a bad mom and all that argument, she completely lost it. After that children totally went against her and who would blame them.

Anuradha did not go with an open mind and as soon as she saw whose house it was and Pooja image and no man in the house, her thinking was the house is not run properly. She decided then and there that everything in that house must be wrong and she must try to improve it. Having preconceived notions surely does not help.

So yes Anuradha got a.raw deal from Anita but Anu too did not help matters by having a fixed mind set and not ready to change it.


Well said Sweta.. I completely agree with what you wrote.. 😊

Anuradha was at fault.. agreed but she was bullied in that house.. by Anita and later by the kids as well.. I felt bad for her when they were talking about some money issue and Anita and kids kept laughing and making fun of her.. Anita was giving orders to her just like someone orders a servant.. šŸ˜• and Anuradha also got a raw deal from the makers.. the VO is supposed to be giving neutral comments and let the viewers make their own judgement.. but they kept saying negative comments for every single thing which Anuradha did.. Anuradha made them wear Indian clothes on last day.. and there was nothing wrong in that... afterall Pooja changed the decor in Anuradha's house.. that too with Rajiv's moneyšŸ˜• but VO was completely biased to Pooja and was completely negative about Anuradha..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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^^^ yes, you are so right Purva !

VO was very biased towards Pooja .....Considering Anu's background, i did feel she was right at times . I think Anu wasn't exposed to circle of rich families before hence the house looked like a hotel to her.

At the end when Anuradha asked her son if pooja gave him food , the kid said ki " wo khana hi nahi banati "

I was confused with that statement. I think editing was too bad to cover pooja's negative shades. Or probably Rajiv brainwashed his son to say that statement . šŸ˜•


Edited by .Arjun - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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To Purva from Purva :)

I think that Anu really did get a bad deal in the Bedi household. She might have had pre-conceived notions about Pooja, but I think that it was the conversation with Parveen and Kabir that made her realize for the first time the different roles Pooja plays in the house.

She did try her best to make the kids happy and all her efforts were really genuine, but she did not get appreciation for them. She wanted to treat Aaliya as she would her own daughter and more than Pooja's fancy painting, I suspect she would've put up Aaliya's painting in her living room. I think she must've been very hurt to hear Pooja describing her as a rakshasi, whatever she did or did not do, she didn't deserve to be labeled as that.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Arjun

^^^ yes, you are so right Purva !

VO was very biased towards Pooja .....Considering Anu's background, i did feel she was right at times . I think Anu wasn't exposed to circle of rich families before hence the house looked like a hotel to her.

At the end when Anuradha asked her son if pooja gave him food , the kid said ki " wo khana hi nahi banati "

I was confused with that statement. I think editing was too bad to cover pooja's negative shades. Or probably Rajiv brainwashed his son to say that statement . šŸ˜•



Yes.. the editing was too bad.. šŸ˜•

That kid's statement was confusing.. but then I never saw Pooja actually cooking in the kitchen šŸ˜• all she was doing was thinking of ways to make Rajiv spend money for full time maid, tuition for kid, buy all the decor items etc. etc. and on the other hand she had not left enough money for Anuradha to get things fixed/done in her own house.. purposely I guessšŸ¤”.. also the maid Anita was fully trained to be a bully to Anuradha.. if she behaves same way with Ms. Bedi.. she will be kicked out of the house the very next moment.. šŸ˜‰ Also I think Pooja never trusted Anuradha in the first place.. that's why she arranged for visitors to keep an eye on her.. šŸ˜‰ while Pooja had it easy with given full control of Anuradha's house as well as financial dicisions.. šŸ˜›

Having said that.. I think Pooja did some remarkable things.. i.e. made Rajiv aware of Yash's poor progress in academics and made him work in the kitchen.. šŸ‘šŸ¼

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