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Posted: 9 years ago

Errr..

So..i m a very bubbly kinda girl..

U knw..the one who is alwys ready to make frends..

And wenever i meet a new girl or guy..i KNOW i hv to b their frend..not tht i approach..they do..n then..it blossoms..

I hv really pure intentions-only friendship..

Nthin more thn tht..i hv two bffs...a guy n a gal..

Now..

The problem is..i hv been having this feeling..tht i m too clingy..i dnt lyk my bffs ignorin me even once..

Also..

I smtym do things tht cn b termed as clingy..n makes..especially boys uncomfortable..

I sense their discomfort..

N i really wanna stop b4 i m misinterpreted..

Also.. I m tired of the constant rumours of my bff n mine relationship🥱

Pls help..hw cn i b a little less clingy?

Hw cn i maintain distances..?

hw cn i avoid being misinterpreted?

Pls dnt bash..i hv been feelin very low..n it seems hv lost my confidence..it m8 nt b a big thing to sm..

Bt it really is to me..

Thnx a lot in advance..

Sorry fr any grammer or spelling mistakes or typos..

P.s.

I hv nevr been in a relationship.. Its all really gross to me..😛

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luvflicksgirlPM

@luvflicksgirlPM

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Posted: 9 years ago

Hi dear,

I dunno how much this might help you.

But from my point of view, I think if you feel your friends are ignoring observe them for a few days and then directly ask them. I believe in clearing one's mind. If you don't ask them you'll think up reasons which might be wrong. If they are your true friends they'll directly tell you what they feel. Think it out sweets 😳

Hope I could help

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Farhana

@princess_farh

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Posted: 9 years ago

Yes you could stop being cling wrap and start being a bit distant. don't take the first step for a few days. don't msg don't call don't meet show them u have a life of ur own. start spending quality time with ur mom and if your mom is like a best friend you could ask her what she thinks are you or aren't you clingy trust me mother's give the best advice

if the people you so proudly display as your best friends really care they'll want to know why you keeping a distance and will convince you that they don't find you clingy or then they'll tell you how the clingy behaviour affects their overall appearance of being with you

in the end., love yourself and don't have low self esteem you gna be fine! with or without them!

Edited by princess_farh - 9 years ago

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Zennia

@Zennia

Stunner

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Posted: 9 years ago

be friends with more people and develop your hobbies

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962142

Hibernated

Posted: 9 years ago

okay ..

the way you type ... most clingy people i have seen type this way.

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1036670

Hibernated

Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: D3viL
okay ..

the way you type ... most clingy people i have seen type this way.

🤣🤣

Frankly speaking..

I was utterly exhausted..n ur coment still managed to make me go---->🤣

I mean..

Seriously?

How illogical can anyone be!!

I had heard of handwriting defining a person..

Bt typing too?

Boy..u really got a future out there🤣

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1036670

Hibernated

Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: luvflicksgirlPM
Hi dear,
I dunno how much this might help you.
But from my point of view, I think if you feel your friends are ignoring observe them for a few days and then directly ask them. I believe in clearing one's mind. If you don't ask them you'll think up reasons which might be wrong. If they are your true friends they'll directly tell you what they feel. Think it out sweets 😳

Hope I could help

Hey ..thnx a lot..!!

Yeah..i tlkd..n worked as u all said..n they were all worried..n it turned to b my assumption..😛

They say they like me the way i am..

N i really shudnt worry bout wht people think..wen i knw i m the right one..

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1036670

Hibernated

Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: LoveFawad
be friends with more people and develop your hobbies

Sure😃

Thanx😳

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1036670

Hibernated

Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: princess_farh
Yes you could stop being cling wrap and start being a bit distant. don't take the first step for a few days. don't msg don't call don't meet show them u have a life of ur own. start spending quality time with ur mom and if your mom is like a best friend you could ask her what she thinks are you or aren't you clingy trust me mother's give the best advice

if the people you so proudly display as your best friends really care they'll want to know why you keeping a distance and will convince you that they don't find you clingy or then they'll tell you how the clingy behaviour affects their overall appearance of being with you

in the end., love yourself and don't have low self esteem you gna be fine! with or without them!

Yeash!!

😆

I must say u have a really awesome style of living..

Yeah i tried tht..earned a good slap🤣

N my mum says..its does not mattr wht people think i am.bt wht i knw i am..so...

A really big thanx🤗

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Farhana

@princess_farh

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: arrodil_smile

Yeash!!

😆
I must say u have a really awesome style of living..
Yeah i tried tht..earned a good slap🤣

N my mum says..its does not mattr wht people think i am.bt wht i knw i am..so...

A really big thanx🤗

ur welcome
trust me u don't wanna be spending half of your life waiting around people that don't care
did you try maintaining a distance? are you getting the response you expected? so do you know what you are as ur mom suggested?

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