Epi 470: D-N The Real Eternal Story - Page 2

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Originally posted by: Ani_98

Sorry Brvr...😊...I came home late and just saw your post when the thread was closed.

I do understand your point...😃...but...my view's a little different...I know many would not agree on it...sorry but that's how I see it.😃

Naku did not change Dutta with her love...he wanted to change. He was already taking very small steps with Supriya. The real Dutta has always been inside of him and wanted to come out. What he needed was just someone to love him and support him... Naku gave him that.

Then there is also Naku being his "dhal"...and they are meant to be together.

I do not see naku as being that afraid of Dutta's anger...but more afraid of him being in pain and hurt.

About Naku hiding the truth about Supriya...who gave her the right to hide the truth and who was she to decide what was right for Dutta?🤔

About hiding her colour...yes she did not say anything because of Baji, Babi then Aayi...but the truth is that the biggest reason for not saying it...was that she was not ready to do so and they were just an excuse for her not being honest, for procrastinating the inevitable...the lie gets easier because then you do not have to feel guilty about it...you can blame it on someone else.

Me saying that Naku does not have faith in Dutta...has to do with how she has no faith in him to handle emotions...I know...we have seen Dutta reacting dramatically every time but he also received the bad news dramatically every time. If he had not been given the news like shock waves, one blow after another, then he might have dealt with it differently... he might have been able to think and consider rather than feel so emotionally imbalanced because of the manipulative blows that his mind blocked any rational thought...🤔

Right now she keeps questioning his actions...that is (in a way) lack of faith.

She hides things because she thinks it is going to hurt him...but instead she is the one who ends up hurting him more by hiding and lying to him rather than trust he can deal with things...not only that...she involves people he trusts in it and that is not ok. It does not matter how good a person's intention is...if you make a decision that involves another person's life without letting the person know...that is just not ok.

Now Dutta has apologized to her...more than once...by the way...has Naku ever really apologized for her lies to Dutta?🤔 For doing what she thought was right for him without asking him?🤔 For hiding things from him rather than trusting him with it?🤔

I think the one time she said sorry...was when she went alone with the SP.

I am not against Naku...I like her...I just do not see her as a superwoman...but as a normal person with flaws...just like Dutta has got some.

She was wrong about Supriya and did not know what Kala was up to...right?...so her intuition is not always right. A natural development would be to learn from her past mistakes just as Dutta has learned from some of his. So should she not have learned by now that hiding things from Dutta and then have him know that everyone knew except him will only make the truth worse? More bitter? That it will only make him angry and left out and as if he was not trusted.

Now after Dutta has apologized and is doing everything he can to make her happy...it is just not enough...he is honestly really trying...but why keep reminding him of what he is and what he can never be?

When she talks she is (kind of) saying two things...on one hand she is saying she trusts him and she is going to follow him whatever he choose...but on the other hand she keeps questioning his actions and keeps using the baby to make him think about changing his life.

Naku seems more unsure about her feelings and what she want. She is letting many things effect her and her trust/faith in Baba is also "kind of lacking". Weil Dutta seams more in peace and it seems like he know what he want and what is possible and realistic to get. The problem is only (as I see it) that the two women who he love most and who are suppose to be his strength and his support are "kind of" weakening him. As I said in my last post...his faith in himself and his survival relies on Naku's faith in him.

Again...I understand her...I understand her fear...but that still does not make it ok. Naku fell in love with him despite his flaws, his nature... she never wanted to change him...she never had a problem with what Dutta is...he was her world and everything in her world revolved around him... for Naku, not even a child would make her want to change him... it's what makes her Naku...

I feel everyone beside Baji are selfish when it comes to Dutta...Madhu I do not agree with...she has lived all her life without a family and now she finally got a big family and she is putting her love for a guy before all of them... They have accepted her even though her father is responsible for their pain... I mean, the way she was... yelling at Dutta ones? She admired him, she loves him and put him before everything else because he is all she has left... and now she's selfishly choosing a man over him..? 🤔

Again just my view and my opinion...😊...I am not complaining...I love the story...and it is interesting how the characters are changing...I just do not agree with there behaviour every time and then I miss a full insight in Dutta's feeling about all this.

He has been through a lot...a lot is happening in his life...good and some bad...many more responsibility...even Aayi taking Naku's side...does he not need someone to talk to?...who understand his view and are there to listen to his feeling and his worries?...where he can just say how he feel and not have to consider hurting there feelings?...anyone in the house...🤔...not really...😳...but...

I think it time for Dutta and Sanyarao to have a long deep talk...son and father (kind of) talk.😃

Ani, i guess we r not going nowhere, yet here i go...when u fall in love it is one thing, when that love is reciprocated it is another. Naku fell in luv with dutta with all his flaws, but when she realised that he too loves her, she had difficulties in accepting his proposal cause of the inferiority complex nd the reality of her colour. All her attempts to tell the truth was thwarted. At that point of time i was almost hating naku for her actions but on hindsight things fall into perspective. She made mistakes like hesitating to tell the truth and u should also keep in mind till that time her mother was the centre of her universe nd in whom she had utmost faith even though she knew that it was wrong to hide the truth, she could not go against her mother. Circumstances nd a person's upbringing also plays a big part in our decisions. She was pushing dutta to marry supriya inspite of herself falling for him. Why? cause she felt that supriya was the better partner nd herself being a maid was not worthy of him, ofcourse she was trying to help him to get over his disappointment in love as a wellwisher.
When i say she was intuitive i dont mean she was always right, she had her own share of mistakes, who doesnt make? in the name of justice dutta too made several mistakes, he even took lives, who gave him that right? Baji by not letting naku to disclose her truth nd conniving with babi to let the flower on Bappa fall on the wrong side made a blunder, so to err is human! Even now, it is not as if she is blocking everything Dutta does, its only that she wants to make him realize the changed reality of his life, he is gonna be a father, nd she is worried for the future. You should agree that dutta will not let anyone rule him but since he knows that naku is not wrong he is ready to change to a certain extent. Ofcouse, she has asked for his forgiveness nd understanding for the times that she has gone against his wishes. When u r ready to forget nd forgive dutta for his mistakes why not naku?
When she refused to jump of the vehicle facing a certain death, when she took a bullet on herself to save dutta from Chaskar, when she hiked a hill for the medicinal flower risking her life, how can we accuse her of being selfish?
Ani, Im sure we can go on like this, i would have luvd to counter many of ur points but let's agree to disagree or else we will be kicked out of this thread for taking discussion offcourse😃.