Kala's Affliction-Munchausen By Proxy?

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It was never Kala's intention to kill Dutta. She truly wanted him around to be the centre of his attention. Coz there in lies her affliction, to be the centre around which D's life revolves. Usually this place is taken by a spouse in one's adult life but she can never become that so it was important for her that no one else should ascend to that position.That's when D's troubles began.When he started showing interest in women who would eventually displace her from her position.Seema,Supriya & Nakusha.Nakusha's hiding of her face gave her a solid belief that here at last D will finally be permanently cured of his desire to share his life with someone.But with the Suresh episode it was clear that a reconciliation was imminent.And that's exactly when Kala lost it completely.She will never ever regain her lost position with D.That's when she decided to kill him.He was a source of constant turmoil. her affliction reminds me of a mental disorder called Munchausen By Proxy. A person who suffers from such a disorder usually will create circumstances which will push those under their care into life threatening situations & then when an audience gathers swoop in to save her charge thus becoming a hero in the eyes of the afflicted & those present.Its usually young mothers,nurses or caregiver of elderly patients who suffer from such a disorder. I'm no medical expert & this disorder was an idea on which a crime novel was based.But I see a lot of similarities between Kala & the lead in that story.Its always been kala's ardent desire that D should look to her for every possible thing he wants or needs. I remember a spine chilling answer she had once given her sisters."Main hoon na.Main Dutta ke har zaroorat ka khayal rakhoongi.Use kisi aur aurat ki zaroorat nahi padegi." Her expression said it all.Kishore is an inconvinience Anay is a Kishore's responsibility.Her entire focus is on Dutta.During Supriya's wedding she was the one who wreaked havoc on D & she waltzed in carrying out a check in Sups room, discovering the letter, slapping & manhandling Nakku thus playing the tigress, protective sister to the hilt. Everytime there is some occasion to discipline someone on behalf of Dutta Kala zooms in to be first in line.Supriya,Nakku,Baaji,DP,Suresh & so many examples.
Tonight we will get a clear picture of the woman Kala really is.What do u gals think?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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WOW zuby....im spechless.....loved every word and senence u wrote....u showed kalas face in this post....and i have no words to say....👏👏 But ur right today we will be clear what kala is!!!!
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Originally posted by: Naina_Mishal

WOW zuby....im spechless.....loved every word and senence u wrote....u showed kalas face in this post....and i have no words to say....👏👏 But ur right today we will be clear what kala is!!!!

Thanks Naina dear.😳😊 This lady has me very intrigued.Imagine pointing a gun at her mother.Yes! Tonite a lot of mysteries will be cleared.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Bang on Zuby!!! You analyzed Kala so well!!! Hats off! She indeed is suffering from this mental disorder and is proving it herself!! Her recent actions-reactions are the major proof!
In another of my posts, a reply to someone's post (sorry forgot the name), I said jokingly that Kalatai's cure is only with Dutta!! He is the only "medicine" that can cure her disease! Do chaar solid se thappad padenge na Dutta ke apne aap recover hona shuru kar degi!! Rest Dutta will take care of!
Jokes apart, this character Kala seriously is looking mentally ill day by day! Even her eyes look insane! Anyway, let's see what Saturday special has in store for us! Waiting for the fireworks between Dutta and Kala to begin earnestly!! This time our dear Sher (aapke Patil Saab!!) better win hands down!! Cheers to Dutta and Naku and Baji!!
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Your connection of Kala with this other lead in the story is quite interesting. Come to think of it, the way you've described Kala as perhaps wanting to be the only woman in Dutta's life is disturbing to say the least. I think that it's more her aim to make sure that Dutta never experiences love and always seeks her help in everyday issues. She has always wanted him to be kept under her thumb, agree with everything and ensure that it is actually HER needs that are fulfilled in the process of keeping him happy with false sibling love. Only by builidng that strong r'ship with him could she keep him alone and starved of love and happiness, forever drowned in the misery caused by Seema's betrayal. Alas, Naku came along and changed the whole scenario which lead her to wanting him dead. If he found true happiness again, her hardwork would have gone down the drain. I mean this woman has been pretending to love Dutta only for hatred to bubble inside. Looking at the u me aur tv episdode, Kala looked dejected and almost tired in the scene. I think tonight we will see her go through a lot of emotions and hopefully a revelation of what truly makes her hate Dutta to the core. It's going to be an interesting watch.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Bang on Zuby,
U indeed proved my yesterday's thoughts right.Since the start ,i felt her obsessive hate towards dutta,but i didn't see the underlined meaning.
But,when she tried to kill him,it made me wonder -what actully she want?
To hurt nukku or there is more to it than meets the eye?
But,after seeing precap,i confirm that she indeed loves him as per prized possession & to retain that she can cross all the limits.


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Truly, Zuby 👏 Your analysis never cease to amaze me. You spoke my mind perfectly.

Originally posted by: ZubyDutta

It was never Kala's intention to kill Dutta. She truly wanted him around to be the centre of his attention. Coz there in lies her affliction, to be the centre around which D's life revolves. Usually this place is taken by a spouse in one's adult life but she can never become that so it was important for her that no one else should ascend to that position.That's when D's troubles began.

Indeed. We've followed Kala through her psychotic schemes and it was never her intention to remove D from the face of the earth. I still remember her sickly obsession with him in the first months (February, March, and so on). Kala has always made it a point to touch him, even when he's mad, almost as if to show her power over him. She always pushed his limits and he never pushed her hand away. Why she has this inexplicable need to be loved by him, unconditionally, and almost worshipped by him - I'll never understand. Perhaps she really is the typical femme fatale who craves power? So far she has proven to be an expert at using the Machiavellian method in getting what she wants, but I can't help but wonder where it went wrong in her life. What triggered this sick need of hers? Why? Why has she become this ruined woman?

She will never ever regain her lost position with D.That's when she decided to kill him.He was a source of constant turmoil.

True. It clicked for her when she realized that she'd never regain her position. This is not in the defense of Kala, but D made a mistake in his relationship to her. She's right when she claims that he doesn't understand people. He never understood her love for him, didn't see it coming when it started verging on a tug-of-power and possessiveness. When he started to fall in love with Naku, deeply in love, he was so distracted that he didn't see/hear the signs of jealousy and bitterness that coated Kala like a second skin. D has always needed a woman's love. Be it his mother or his sisters. But once Naku came into his life... he found a complete package. A woman who could love him in every way. Something that his mother and sisters couldn't fulfill.

Its always been kala's ardent desire that D should look to her for every possible thing he wants or needs. I remember a spine chilling answer she had once given her sisters."Main hoon na.Main Dutta ke har zaroorat ka khayal rakhoongi.Use kisi aur aurat ki zaroorat nahi padegi."

Spot on, Zuby. That answer shook me as well. That and the way she said that when he'd break, she would be there to stroke his head and tell him that everything would be alright.

During Supriya's wedding she was the one who wreaked havoc on D & she waltzed in carrying out a check in Sups room, discovering the letter, slapping & manhandling Nakku thus playing the tigress, protective sister to the hilt. Everytime there is some occasion to discipline someone on behalf of Dutta Kala zooms in to be first in line.

I noticed this as well. Every single time that she has ruined something, she's been the one to play the hero part as well. Supriya's runaway stunt - and I especially noticed her tactic during the whole thing with his father when she continuesly reminded him of what he had done to her father, and at the same time played the "you should forgive him" game. It put her in some sacrificial light in D's eyes. Some "her heart is so pure and big that she'll forgive my father for killing her father and wants me to forgive him too" light. He never saw past it.

Tonight we will get a clear picture of the woman Kala really is.What do u gals think?

Indeed. I've a feeling that Kala's downfall is just around the corner, and it will be poetic.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Perfect! 👍🏼

I want to say absolutely this things from last few months. But I can't express like u all.

Yes this is the Kala's actual truth.

Well done.

👏 👏 👏
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ZubyDutta

It was never Kala's intention to kill Dutta. She truly wanted him around to be the centre of his attention. Coz there in lies her affliction, to be the centre around which D's life revolves. Usually this place is taken by a spouse in one's adult life but she can never become that so it was important for her that no one else should ascend to that position.That's when D's troubles began.When he started showing interest in women who would eventually displace her from her position.Seema,Supriya & Nakusha.Nakusha's hiding of her face gave her a solid belief that here at last D will finally be permanently cured of his desire to share his life with someone.But with the Suresh episode it was clear that a reconciliation was imminent.And that's exactly when Kala lost it completely.She will never ever regain her lost position with D.That's when she decided to kill him.He was a source of constant turmoil. her affliction reminds me of a mental disorder called Munchausen By Proxy. A person who suffers from such a disorder usually will create circumstances which will push those under their care into life threatening situations & then when an audience gathers swoop in to save her charge thus becoming a hero in the eyes of the afflicted & those present.Its usually young mothers,nurses or caregiver of elderly patients who suffer from such a disorder. I'm no medical expert & this disorder was an idea on which a crime novel was based.But I see a lot of similarities between Kala & the lead in that story.Its always been kala's ardent desire that D should look to her for every possible thing he wants or needs. I remember a spine chilling answer she had once given her sisters."Main hoon na.Main Dutta ke har zaroorat ka khayal rakhoongi.Use kisi aur aurat ki zaroorat nahi padegi." Her expression said it all.Kishore is an inconvinience Anay is a Kishore's responsibility.Her entire focus is on Dutta.During Supriya's wedding she was the one who wreaked havoc on D & she waltzed in carrying out a check in Sups room, discovering the letter, slapping & manhandling Nakku thus playing the tigress, protective sister to the hilt. Everytime there is some occasion to discipline someone on behalf of Dutta Kala zooms in to be first in line.Supriya,Nakku,Baaji,DP,Suresh & so many examples.

Tonight we will get a clear picture of the woman Kala really is.What do u gals think?


Zuby duby...sweetheart you nailed Kalavati Shriram Patil....even i felt that initially kala's intention to kill Dutta...it is actually an admission that she has lost the final battle....and since she cant win she will destroy her own king to end the whole game....but hats off...you put the whole thought in such beautiful words and analogies that I am


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