Dutta , a lost Soul !!!. - Page 4

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Posted: 14 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: ushankitvc

AS is the BH (Badi Hasti)....................... Dont u think so...............

I dont know how CVs want to justify ASs character as a sane woman, after what she did to Baaji today. If a person like she is termed "sane" then I would love not be called one. She disguts me to the core. If i can I wouldve strangled off today.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anu-Reddy

The positivity will and have to come back one day. But what will be cost Dutta has to pay before he gets back his life ,is gonna be interesting.



Oh Dutta will pay very dearly, the cost is going to be losing Naku's trust. She is going to leave him once he redeems himself, so Dutta is going to have to work hard to get her back, and this time, he is not going to have it easy.
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Posted: 14 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: nureat01


@bold: Great points yaar....I see what you mean....when Dutta fell in love....when he began to believe in goodness, in love again, he never let anything shake his faith on Nakku....no matter how many ppl tried to say suspicious things to him....his faith was unshakable....but the face revelation shook the very foundations of that belief and brought it all crumbling down....cuz everything was centered around Nakku.....his koel Nakku....the one he'd known all this time.....but now that very identity (to him) is gone in a way so every venomous word that he'd once blocked out is now worming its way into his mind and making him fallback to thinking the worst....to thinking that if Nakku could betray him and lie about such a big thing, she can lie about anything like certain ppl warned him....so you're right....it's very human.....it may not be logical, may not be right.....but it's very human....and I empathize with his plight.

Bang On Anu !!!.
He is not a god. He is human and he is acting like one. Nakku bought it upon herself by delaying the truth. I feel bad for both of them. The way she sat alone at PN , the way he ended up boozing, all lost. It does pain me a lot but then this was all expected and I actually feel more will come our way.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hi Anu 😊 Hope all's well with u & the baby.😊
As always beautiful thoughts.All the more since its about D in a sympathetic tone.Was very weary of coming to the forum fearing lots of negative posts abt him.
Everytime he gathers courage to put out his hand to touch that elusive happiness for his life it seems the entire universe conspires to snatch it away from him in the most merciless manner. To escape the pain of watching him go through so much trauma I single mindedly concentrated on his old hot look & his fight with Keshav/Apte. But truth remains he has hit rock bottom.May the force be with him. Yes he has a warped sense of perspective, he loses his mind easily he is accusing people who love him the most of some very heinous acts.True. But some of us forget here that he is not the perpetuator of any crime.He didn't do any wrong to anyone. He is reacting to the wrong done to him.That is a very important point. Though its also true those who stand accused today are basically good people who have only his best interests at heart.But they did make a very grave mistake didn't they? D's reaction is so severe that it is paling their wrong in comparison.Lekin galti pehle Nakku & Baji se hui na? Then why are some blaming only D so severely? Twenty years of friendship between Baaji & D.He of all people should have seen all this coming."Kala Tai & Bhau are fighting, now is not the time to say anything"😲 What happened when they made up?😕 Bhashan pe bhashan, guidance pe guidance, saab aisa karo saab waisa math karo while all the while hiding her own face behind box of kajal.Kya guzri hogi D par when all this was revealed?How can one not have sympathy for him? It always happens in my own life. I have never done anything to cause pain to anyone just get my own mission fulfilled but there are some who have used/abused me endlessly. These were all very trivial matters that happens in any large family but they make me angry, very angry.Yet I am the one punished for getting angry. My anger overshadows others wrongdoings they get away scot free.Wah! Ek toh pitto uppar se dobaara pitto for showing reaction???How fair is that??
I'm not a big fan of AS but for a moment put yourself in the shoes of a mother who badly wants her son to get married to the girl he loves & few hours before the wedding such a truth comes out that will not only stop the wedding but will also put your only son permanently off the idea of marriage.Not to mention the son's life span depends upon that girl.But the truth is such that if you have a big heart could be forgiven.Its not that the girl is characterless or already married.What do you do? I would go ahead & do what AS did. I know my son loves the girl.I know the girl is a good soul. Maybe all will be forgiven & forgotten soon. Desperate situations call for desperate measures.As for her not supporting Baji, again she had merely hours to decide whereas he'd known the truth long before.She'd always considered Baji her son he could have gone to her with this matter.He didn't.As a woman in AS's place I'd have reacted the same way.
For the first time this despair in D's life is not Kala's doing. Why she or us should credit her with it is beyond me. D's house is burning she is merely warming her hands over the fire.
Long post! But just a few things going on in my mind I wanted to share.Thanks for hearing me out.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: droopy_asleep


Oh Dutta will pay very dearly, the cost is going to be losing Naku's trust. She is going to leave him once he redeems himself, so Dutta is going to have to work hard to get her back, and this time, he is not going to have it easy.

I hope thats what he looses so there is a hope of getting it back. Imagine if its someone's death taht he has to pay it all with?. No matter how bad he repents he wont get that person back. Thats soudns dreadful to me 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anu-Reddy

I hope thats what he looses so there is a hope of getting it back. Imagine if its someone's death taht he has to pay it all with?. No matter how bad he repents he wont get that person back. Thats soudns dreadful to me 😆



I was contemplating on saying death, but veered against it, as being a romantic addict, I need the couple back together. 😉
On another note, I dont want him to lose Baaji either, he is a gem of a character.
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Posted: 14 years ago
#37

Nothing remains after your speech.

This is the difference between positive thinker & negative thinker. There are so many points in favor of Naku & Baji. He should think ….. why both of them can dye for him, why AS & whole family with Naku , is naku more closer than him for family……. for the moment forgive about what Jagtap or Subu says minimum he should think why whole family??????
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Posted: 14 years ago
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very well said anu 👏 i was really waiting for ur reaction yesterday episode very well written. all i want it to end very soon only it end when datta get another trouble and distract him so it end when ann bro come in. i am eagerly waiting for his arriavl and nakku is going to know about the true colour of kala it going to hel nakku in some way.

when nakku know the true face of kala she go and pray to baba he will send anna bro to rescue tasha love.🥳
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@Zuby : yaar how ru ? long time no see 🤗. Me fine and Anjali is good too 😳.
Abt the post, loved reading it. I can totally see ur view pov abt Dutta's pain. Ur right that he made no mistake "directly" but then yaar he is at a mistake though done unintentionally , that is his temper. He is famous for his temper and his reactions. Ppl around him are wary of his acts. That though might seem very minute is the reason behind Nakku-baaji's so called betrayl. They were swayed by this "scare". They thought that if they tell him they will loose him permanetly because he will not listen to them or their reasons. Now when they told him later, after marriage (which is the biggest mistake of their lives) they got the same reaction in return. Were they wrong in their belief? No. Dutta behaved the exact same way they assumed he will. Iam sure he wouldve reacted the same way if Nakku told him before the shaadi too. He has some issues yaar. U dont need to make a mistake directly to provoke ppl take a wrong step. Thats the issue being handled at LTL now. Dutta needs to turn a good human and for that he needs to first stop blaming others for the mishaps and look at himself.
See if what ur saying is true, why did Nakku tell Baaji the truth so easily, with a slight bit of provocation and couldnt do it with Dutta?. Because she knows Baaji would listen to her completely, unlike Dutta who even though promised to listen to her, didnt do it. Its not because She had nothing to loose in case of Baaji. Because Baaji getting to know something is equivalent to Dutta knowing it, as she didnt expect Baaji to keep it a secret from Dutta. Even then she told the truth, becasue she believes in Baaji's rational. Dutta is irrational and whatever one might say, the truth boils down to that.
AS , why do u think she had no option ?. She had. The reason she got TaSha married was for her son's security. Not becasue she wanted Dutta's happiness. Thats total trash. If that was the truth, pandit did tell her that Nakku's existence in Dutta's life is gonne get lot of trauma in his life. But that didnt deter her from stopping the shaadi. She is selfish. She wants her son to get married to Nakku , because by doing so his life(even if its a sad one) will be safe and she will have her son to take care of her and her evil kids . She has no good intentions for TaSha nor Baaji. The silence today said it all. She is equally and more responsible for Dutta's condition. How did she assume Dutta knowing the truth after marriage will be ok with it? If she did, she aint Dutta's mother . If she didnt and even then she went ahead, that will make her selfish. No other way out for her in my books.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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As usual great analysis Anu, you have a way putting things into perspective and translate them well into writting.
As you have mentioned, how is Dutta going to have happiness with so many enemies, which is true enough. But to me Dutta's worst enemy is himself, which is why he is the way he is and in the situation that he is. The demon that's inside of him is the worst of all things evil.
Ultimately no one can make you do or be in the situation if you don't allow them. You enemies can only break you and defeat you at your own game so far but you still have the option to bounce back but if you put yourself out there to receive all the beatings, then no one can help you, sometimes not even god.
So instead of blaming everyone and getting angry at every person for their mistakes by people who truly care for him did for his sake, Dutta should sit and analyse things accordingly. But he choses to get angry, break things, taunt people, push them away and drink, so to me Dutta greatest flaw is himself because he made himself a Don, he made himself ignorant about Sups, he never took the time to find out why there are so many hindrance against his happiness and he never gave Nakku a chance to come clean about herself.
In a nutshell he is a lost soul because he somehow likes to take the pathway of destruction. Perhaps he fears that if once happiness comes, he might lose it all, thus is better to be miserable because you can never lose that.
I dunno if I made any sense but I am quite tired of seeing Dutta the dumb blonde doormat . Sorry for the rant 😆

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