D&N: Eternal Love Story - Nov 17th

Thanks DD for providing the hope that seems to be waning in the past 2 episodes

Originally posted by: Dancingdoll

Hi Guys,

I would do a combined e-LS this weekend on the "FR- Dutta's Initial Reaction" but today, I just had to write this intermediate e-LS and dedicate it to Naku! I am not touching here her means of attaining a permanent soot, I am just touching the precap! Today, I call my e-LS - "Ying Yang"☯️

Before I start on this e-LS, I must say that many here have presented a beautiful and valid case for Naku!...Very convincing... and me, who is right now not so pro Naku, was very touched by the argument.....But I will speak from my experience here and hence, don't throw angry stares at me!! 😆😉

In a relationship, compatibility is how two people complete each other, how they come together to complete the criss cross puzzle resulting in the final picture, accurate and perfect!...To make this happen, it is not necessary, infact in most of the cases, it is usually better to have a ying yang relationship ☯️!...One's flaws and other's virtues fill the gaps and viceversa! If one is the aggressive type and s is the other, then all we can do is fight, be discontended with each other and never be on same page...Hence, Its is must that when I am miffed, he supports me, is patient, waits for me to get around the situation and then calmly show me the true picture which my anger had blurred out intially...and same is the case with him, I would join my strengths with his weakness to mellow down the cumulative effect and move forward!!..That is what Naku and Dutta are made of today! this is what completes their e-LS! ...If Dutta made 100 mistakes then should Naku also do the same? Does my partner's mistakes give me a right to make my own mistakes and then ask him to understand me because he too made mistakes? IMO, Each mistake should be treated individually...If I love someone, I wanna heal him for all his mistakes, not commit on top of it to throw the tit for tat punch! Wouldn't Tit for Tat result in both being left unhealed!....And thats definitely not what love means!....If Dutta has 100 flaws and Naku just has one...irrespective of the count, both should work with their respective strengths to irradicate each others flaws.....

Naku and Dutta are ☯️...They complete each other...For the emotionally unstable guy he respresents, Naku is his strength....And now for the beauty she represents, he would soon be her shield!....Dutta was at fault in past and non eof us question his flaws! His character sketch since day 1 included his flaws! That is what he is and Naku worked to heal him of each and every flaw....Today he has yet again displayed an additional flaw in his trait, and Naku would again heal him...I am so happy today for the decision she made to stick with him and heal him yet again!!,....Isnt that what love is? Wold abandoning Dutta justify her love? If Dutta and Naku both had to be perfect or both had to constitute of similar flaws, would the love be intense?

If Naku gets into the "tit for tat" mode with Dutta, the man she just plainly and purely loves, then she never loved him...Irrespective of the behaviour inflicted on her by Dutta, her love can never subside.....It would always be there and for that love, If she has to yet burn into an ash then so be it...This would make her more happy than abandoning her love, or displaying aggressive reactions to top of Dutta's aggression!!

Aggression never kills agression....When has Tat killed the tit in the "Tit for Tat"?

On Dutta, this is his initial reaction, he is not able to relate his feelings to this new face...He loves Naku, there is no doubt about his love but how does he map those feelings in just few hrs to this new face...He is fiercly loyal to the Koel Naku, so intensely in love with her that this fair Naku is like a new gal for him, then how can he love this new gal when he loves someone else?....This is where Naku has to help him...Help him see that she is the same, help him map his feelings to her....Its only she who can show him that her heart is still the same....Its by actions and not by words that Dutta can regain that feeling for a new face....Baabi and everyone can keep saying that the heart is the same but when have we loved someone just because we have been told to love? Heart works on feelings, "aehsaas", and Dutta has to now get that right "aehsaas" from this new face.....

Today he wasnt ready to listen to her reasoning, that only goes to show that he would one day be ready to listen to her...Let them heal each other and that is the only secret to their "happy married life"....Naku can heal his 100 mistakes, and Dutta can heal her 1 mistake.....He went thru hell for his 100 mistakes, Naku also would go thru' the same...When either of them punished the other knowingly or inadvertently, they too suffered in the process...the punishment was always for both......Dutta has very clearly stated today that he would also go thru the punishment.....How big a punishment can it be for Dutta that his "Naku" is dead...and how big a punishment can this also be for Naku!!....Both would burn in the furnace and both would come out shining and glowing!!!

Jab dekhoon tujhe toh sirf Dil nazar aaye,
Teri Ruswaa mein bhi teraa pyaar nazar aaye
Tere dard mein mere liye tadap nazar aaye
Humaare zakhm mein bhi shidat nazar aaye!

Wouldnt that be perfect and take their e-LS to heights! Lets help them guys!!

In Love with the furnace,

DD❤️

Originally posted by: nizam13

Thanks DD for providing the hope that seems to be waning in the past 2 episodes

Originally posted by: Nels

Very well said DD! 👏.
I understand Dutta's situation. And in one of the posts I read, it was very well written that Dutta has realised that it is his Nakku. But he is not allowing her to speak because her voice tells him its her ... his Nakku, who brought happiness in his life. He deliberately does not wants to get connected with this new face.
Now is the time when he has to learn the biggest lesson of life which he knows but has not understood quite well. It is, one should love the heart and not the look of the person. Ofcourse look helps in connecting you to the person but that's not the important factor though.
As far as Nakku is concerned she is very strong emotionally. She will never leave Dutta and will always be there for him. Now we have to see how Dutta will learn understanding Nakku and her problems, which he has never done before.

Very well said Nellu!