Originally posted by: Dancingdoll
Hey Anu...From another post -
Okie...so, IMO....Dutta was right about few things and not-right about few things.....I do agree he did go a little overboard in his warnings to Baaji...His warnings had the hint of finality, conclusion of their friendship and companionship and there i think he went overboard!!
Anu : He went way overboard from the word go to me in today's scene. I promise never to look back at that scene. It had everything that I hate to the core.
but I think there were multitude of reasons behind this scene!!
1. Pass on the message to Baaji, that lately he has not been making eye contact with dutta.....Somehting is fishy!!
Anu : Ya. Thank god he has his eyes open for the first time in his life 😆.So ussi nazr se zara dekhle, even Nakku is not meeting his eyes. Uspe bhi chilasaktha tha. Afterall she is also in that room when that random man gave the sweets 😆
2. He has been slipping in his duty lately!!...Well, we know how many times he has slipped!!
Anu : Ya. But abt the hug lapse , its Dutta more responsible than Baaji.
3. The thought of having a family member on the floor, dead, could send jitters in anyone's body...
Anu : If he has that big of an issue with it, he should go convey that to his mommy dearest instead of blaming his friend of the mishap. Its like he cant blame himself so the next nearest target gets blamed.
4. The wedding was right at the corner and the enemy was loose!
Anu : The enemy has been on loose from the prior marriage time. It isnt anythng new. Gadha forgot abt it thats all.
5. Dutta is the king of his town...Its not in his profile to celebrate when a family was mourning in his town, and that too somewhere he is the reason!!
Anu : Then he should declare that no one is celebrating. Its not that Baaji insisited on the celebration.
Plus, In my field, I have seen one notion very carefull carved in our minds...If u r the leader of a team and your team messes up, I would come to you for explanation and if I find the offense punishable then you would be the one penalized. I wouldnt talk to your team! You do!
Anu : I agree on this but this is getting repititive. Dutta and Baaji are equally to be blamed in this. Its not like Dutta will sleep while Baaji secures the house. Baaji has been handled enuf of work for him to concentrate on one aspect. Also in this case its less of security lapse. No one can see whats in the sweet. Its only to be tasted and then figured out. So what does Dutta expect? Baaji to try everything that Dutta eats? May be that how he is gonna trust back his friend.
This logic is what I have seen in LTL too...If the BGs slip, Baaji is held responsible because he is the leader (senapati) of these BGs! So, Dutta would question Baaji, Penalize him.....If there is any lapse in security, Baaji;s collar is caught because he is the head of the security dept!!....even if the security lapse was right in front of Dutta......
Although I understand this notion, what I fail to udnersand is that in some instances, it is very much possible that the leader doesnt know what his team did at a granular level....For eg: When DP's men chloroformed BGs, Baaji coudlnt have been everywhere to see it all...right?...Then when ur team slips, its not always the leader's fault but he is at the line of fire....
How would Baaji know that the sweet would have poison....The sweet came in front of Dutta too and he was ready to eat it...Did he gauge the sweet and understand that the sweet had poison? No....
Anu : Exactly. This blame was ridiculous.
Smetimes it gets frustrating but this is the drawback of a hierarchy system!!!
Edit: But there is one thing I am sure of...Dutta can say all these humilating stuff in anger and impulse, but Baaji is like part of his bodyy, he can never let him go...If it came to execution, dutta would never let him go...Even the conclusion of the FR, will show Kala that no matter how much she thinks that she can fuel a fight between dutta and Baaji, she will fall hard on the floor!!! Initially she would see success, Baaji-Dutta fighting, ending their friendhsip etc, but its a sine curve for her, her doom would mark the end of the curve and then everything wuld start gng wrong for her....Dutta wuld go back to Naku, accept Baaji....I have too much trust on Dutta!!
Anu : That will happen I know. But the way the rift is being shown to us , makes me hate Dutta day by day. It doesnt make sense to me anymore.
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