Originally posted by: nureat01
I'm not quite sure I understand, DD....if Dutta will forgive them so easily, won't it be anti-climactic and against his character?? Dutta loses his mind when he feels betrayed....he loses it over the smallest of things....yeh toh phir bhi bahut badi baat hai.....he will first feel like he's been made a fool out of like Anna warned him as he was dying......and then he'll hate that he was lied to for so long by ppl he loves so much.....not to forget he hates beauty....feels like it always betrays him....Nakku turning out to be beautiful and technically having betrayed him for so long....how will that not shatter him? They'll figure out some way of not having Nakku ro Baaji thrown out of the house maybe but I don't see Dutta doing that out of some sense of serene understanding.of why they did what they did......
Maybe I'm wrong....but I honestly don't think this is a question of having to trust Dutta and his love....he's human....he has to reconcile to something huge....the way I see it....he will hate Nakku for her face for quite some time....one cuz it's not the face of the Naku he fell in love with (the disconnect) and two cuz it's a beautiful face.
If the shaadi happens in the middle of all this, I'm just going to find it weird....and I'm feeling damn confused now.....maybe I should just stop thinking and wait for whenever they show whatever they show *shrugs*
You have a very valid point here Anu.....and considering his history, it is fair to visualize his reactions as explicitly as you have stated! And exactly as you have stated, Dutta's initial reaction would also be the same impulsive, aggressive reaction as before...Because now, its directly related to Naku, the person close to his heart! and I have no doubts the first reaction would not be a pretty sight....Like any Human and like our old Dutta, he would get worked up.....
but I feel Dutta is a changed person now!! From the time he has discovered this new feeling inside him - love, that keeps growing stronger and stronger with every facet he discovers of Naku, he has calmed down to certain extent...In love, he explores things more deeply than Naku or Baaji give him credit for....He has started seeing things that initially he was blind too...and thats all because of love....How easily did he see the serenity on naku's face and realize the calmness inside her inspite of the issues surrpounding her....These facets are reaching his heart so easily for a man, who was only surrounded with his problems initially, who only saw Naku as a shoulder to cry on and vent his feelings....but now, he has started seeing things from her angle, he has started putting on her chappals, started making decisions that are in her best interest....Things have gne thru' gradual change since he has discovered this feeling inside him....he has become more profound than he was before....I am not saying, he would loose the essence of his character....I am not saying that he would not be angry or not give these two cold shoulders...Infact I feel that these two deserve every punishment that he would throw on them....but he would not cut these two from his life...this is the trust I have in his love and transformation.....
As u have stated, its about being human, yes, that woukd show in the initial reaction and the recovery period, but its the love and transformation that would help him heal fast!!...There has to be some diff in the Dutta that we saw before, who had dents all over his heart to the Dutta who feels healed and calm when he is with Naku!!!....
This is my take but your version looks more pausible with the Dutta we have known....This is just my feeling and I give him alittle more credit than Naku and Baaji!!
Lets see how he handles it!!!
Edit: Oops!! I didnt see the later part of your message....I totally agree on the disconnect from the new face.....Yes, that is an ordeal for Naku too, not just Dutta - to get used to the new face....but this process of mapping the feelings to the new face can be done even when he has calmed down and anyways, he can do that only when he is ready to take Naku/Baaji's inputs and listen to them....Else he would remain stubborn and not even try to get into te process of mapping!!...But I totally agree, marriage till he maps is not a possibility...and when I say tht he would heal and get over his anger, I didnt include wedding as the result of it....
What is important here is to show Naku's traits that are still alive in the Gori Naku...He has to feel the traits in his daily routine...probably few incidents can make him see how the real Naku remained the same, inspite of the facial change!!! These incidents need to bring out Naku's traits very explicitly!!
Edited by Dancingdoll - 14 years ago