About Dutta in love, is it too too much? - Page 2

GP, I know that right now Naku is the center of his life, she is the apple of his eye and his life right now revolves around her but that is not because he is wrapped around her in the sense that he has lost the touch with reality or outside world. This love is the recent change in his life and anything new, even love is exciting...You are in the exploration mode, exploring new turfs, new high and low points, getting to know each other, understanding what breaks or makes that person and how I can stabalize that, what tiny miny things can make the other person smile, what all are MUST KNOWS and what all classify as GOOD to KNOWS....Till this exploration period lasts, everyone looks wrapped around their partner, but its just a journey that has to be taken. Once the exploration phase is over, life returns back to normal, ofcourse with love still intact in your heart but the epicenter has either changed or widened to include lot of other things!!!

Originally posted by: gp00

I am a bit different when it comes to my views on love. I don't think wanting to touch or kiss someone you are falling for or in love with is necessarily disgusting. I think it is absolutely natural, when you have a connection with that person, and they with you. As long as that hug or kiss or holding is done out of love and respect, then I say go for it! That, of course, does not mean I want to see seedy love-scenes on TV either. 😆

I didn't meant that either.. the thing is GP that on television they fail to translate the FEEL when it comes to showing CLose scenes.. as indian tV has some limitations... so to show physical proximity directors have to WORK extra hard! inorder to pass out the right feel to the audience... most of them fails miserably ...

but TAsha are a bit far away from that ... the physical proximity will increase with each passing day as they are Humans offcourse but as of now whatever that has been shown between them is shown according to their characters... Dutta is a shy person... when ever he is around his family he is awkward but being a romantic and someone who has craved to be loved all his life and who is finally having some true and strong feelings, its apt and very charming to see him behaving in that manner.. he will take his moves forward.. even tonight hr tried to stop her only if that thali wasn't in her hand he would have engaged her in some conversation .. I always get to see some different feel and aspect in every scene of their's these days...he is trying to come close to her at the same time understanding her ... reading her every move.. and this we might not get to see once he is done discovering her... then their relation will take another level ...


see this is what i love abt this show.. Creatives are exploring a phase which others even dont bother to care abt .. once a couple develop some feelings the next step is getting involve physically... to an extent that they fail to show the basic FActor of understanding between a couple..thats what i meant 😊 .. it doesn't mean that i dont want them to get involve physically ..but whatever they show it has to be shown in a DECENT manner... be it a hug or.... 😊

its great, his character, it is giving the viewers the the shades that he poseses, remeber the wedding when he knocked of all the glasses on the bar table, and now he is cheking out nakku as if no one is watchig him, and then doing puja with nakku,, love it, let us see what other shades he will portray.

Great topic GP.

I am in complete agreement with everything Ruby wrote.

This is very much the way Dutta acts in love as he reverts to his shy, sweet, teenage self of ten years ago where his heart yearns for a glimpse of her and staring at her intently gives his heart some satisfaction. He is first and foremost a gentleman so he would not be as fiery or assertive with her like he was when he was imposing his will on her. He wants to be more considerate of her thoughts and feelings, which is why he observes her as he is seeing her in a whole new light.

As for Dutta being so involved in Naku -- she is his world right now (Baaji has noticed and it is exacerbating his guilt). I think his current state is natural, since he is truly in love and he knows she loves him back so he wants to make her aware that his feelings are equally intense. With Supriya he was uncomfortable softening towards her as it felt forced but with Naku it is all happening by choice. His happiness is in her happiness. Although, he has gone into love sick mode since she returned, as almost losing her seems to have increased his attachment to her.

Moreover, when he snaps back into his old-self when the truth is revealed we will see the contrast in his treatment of her now (the need to see her as much as possible) and then (when he may not be able to tolerate the sight of her).

DN have an almost touch-less romance where the relationship is very sweet and chaste. It is the beauty of their ever growing feelings for each other as it is not marred by lust. However, I still believe they could emphasise the attraction they have for one another in more ways. By all means I am not asking for racy scenes or the 'passion' that is common of Star One shows but the subtle form of 'love' can be taken up a notch as their relationship is not in its nascent stage. They were far more comfortable around one another when they were friends – he would invade her personal space more often and she would let him.

I also miss the bonding they shared during their friendship days. They would have meaningful, soul-touching conversations that were more romantic than any eye-lock. I feel the charm of this phase is wearing off because of the nagging voice in my mind that says that this is setting Dutta up for another huge heart break. He is wooing in her in his own way by doing things to please her but it feels unnecessary as she is already firmly in love with him. He need not impress her. He should be initiating the next step in their relationship. Naku's dreams had more chemistry than what we are seeing now.

Good discussion..

Well, like others, I too believe he's trying to understand her, get to know her better, etc... when you're love is new, you tend to do that... About him just staring, I think he's also tried in his own way to tell her he loves her...When he tried giving her expensive gifts she didnt like, he's now trying to impress her by participating in the celebrations... I think he's learning fast... and maybe he'll plan more once this move is successful.... I'd love to see those!

The topic has bn brilliantly discussed by ppl above me. All i can say is in every person ther is a part of us which craves for luv. Dutta was hardened after his experience with seema and then sups, but when he realised his love for Naku, he just opend his heart for Naku. He trust her to an extent wher he belves that she wont hurt him lyk othrs. All d more he wants to give Naku to be happy with him

Well,I say I Agree with you halfly.

Noooooooooooooooooo i am enjoying this dutta in love to the core...............nice topic dear................

You ladies are right, it is a sweet love story, and I understand this being their first true loves. Hence, the awkwardness, the past bad experiences, etc. BUT sometimes I feel like I'm watching awkward 13 year-olds--staring, peeking a look, giving each other cute smiles....but they don't TALK. Even 13 year-olds talk! Isn't the point to get to know each other...to want to just sit and talk, not just to be in the same room? It's a bit odd, to me. It's like watching adults have the love story of pre-teens.

I don't mean to offend anyone with that opinion. It's just that between this and seeing Dutta get all googly eyed, it's been a bit strange for me to absorb, and I have no idea why. I guess we all see things, not necessarily, as they are, but as we are (as said by a fave author).

No GP i don't think so..before also he was quite comfortable with nakku and now he is in Luv and the feeling is entirely diff. and whatever he is doing or whatever he has become now am thoroughly enjoying their romance and i feel his actions are well within his Bhao char😳