About Dutta in love, is it too too much?

I am thrilled to see our Dutta changing, evolving....happy.

But there is one thing that gnaws at me. Perhaps it is due to my belief in individuality even in love, self-reliance, or just not liking others to morph into someone else to please that someone else. I am not sure.

But I am having a little bit of a hard time digesting this goo-goo eyed Dutta, fawning over Naku soooo much. It's not even a matter of Dutta really. It's just me--I have a problem seeing anybody, boy or girl, getting sooo besotted that they change everything for that one person. In the Dutta instance, he has changed for the good, but sometimes, I feel he is becoming sappy. **I apologize for my not so pleasant choice of words, but I hope you get the point. I could not think of another word.** It's probably a by-product of my experiences, or watching those of others.

I enjoy the romance between Dutta and Naku. But I can honestly say I enjoyed it a lot better a month or two ago...now it just feels like a tease, because of the truth thing. The excitement has faded a bit. And also, because all Dutta does is stare at Naku. To be an equal opportunity critic, I did not like it much when all Naku did was stare at Dutta too.

I love "love", I love seeing it, I love feeling it, I love seeing other people in it. It can be exhilirating, humbling, hurtful, instructional...so many things. And if you're lucky to find that one person who just "feels" right on every level (that ever elusive soul mate) at some point in your life, then you are lucky in more ways than you can imagine. And it's normal to get wrapped up in the other person, but at some point you have to wrap yourself out.

It's weird that I have this reaction...even I'm surprised at myself. I like Dutta to be a bit fiery, strong-willed, a bit untouchable---even from his family and Naku. Independent? Right now, I feel like he's just so wrapped around Naku's finger...

Have any of you even remotely felt this way?

No GP did not.....Infact Im fully enjoying these moments of bliss between them .. dutta is not acting like a love sick puppy.. he is acting all natural .. they are having conversations .. trying to kill the sudden awkwardness between them ... which is very well portrayed and enacted... Nakusha is carrying a huge burden on her shoulders.. so she is trying to hold herself back .. aur abhi woh kya karay ?? they are not just "staring" its something different and thankfully appealing... he tried to hold her hand .. amazing scene it was.. asked for her forgiveness .. he is gradually taking steps forward.. the table scenes ... appreciated her.. admired her... its happening gradually he is still the same Dutta whoe shouted over kala! who didn't take naku's lecturing abt kalavati and stand by his views !! GP .. for me the charm has just increased ... not faded away at all ... yah sometimes its hard to accept it with gult ridden nakusha .. but soon she is going to give it away.. and then this tingling romance will take a back seat.. and then a more intense and painful period will take over ... after that we will get to see a a different and intense portrayal of romance from both sides. 😊

Atleast its billion times better then the hero cornering a heroine trying to Think like zillion of times before figuring out where and how to KISS his lady love.. such a nasty way of portraying ur feelings towards a women u love ..

I'm actually loving duta - nakusha for not taking that nasty road ..

i lyk him dis way and angry young man way as else basically i lyk everyfink abut dutta jus love it.😳😛

hi Gp.. nice topic.. yes, the thought has passed my mind very fleeetingly once.. never to well on it again.. in th initial stages/flus of love, it is bound to happen.. i am alsotalking from exerience here😳

I think the CV's are trying to show that the 10years old ago Dutta is reappearing - just a normal simple human being. They are also trying to make a distinction between his behaviour to Supriya vs Nakku. With Supriya he was trying to accept her as his love but now he is truly in love. His behaviour is new and is also being felt by the rest of the family. Not only his family but even the audience is feeling uncomfortable with his new avatar. I don't mind it as long as they soon move to step 2. How long will they continue with the eye-to-eye or hand-to-wrist is yet to be seen. I want him to take more initiation of trying to seek her out and try to be alone with her. Instead of pleasing Nakku by showing interest in Bappa (he is overdoing that part - Bappa this and Bappa that) I would rather see Dutta taking interest in expediting the preparations of the wedding. Dropping small hints to Nakku.

Originally posted by: SAraW

No GP did not.....Infact Im fully enjoying these moments of bliss between them .. dutta is not acting like a love sick puppy.. he is acting all natural .. they are having conversations .. trying to kill the sudden awkwardness between them ... which is very well portrayed and enacted... Nakusha is carrying a huge burden on her shoulders.. so she is trying to hold herself back .. aur abhi woh kya karay ?? they are not just "staring" its something different and thankfully appealing... he tried to hold her hand .. amazing scene it was.. asked for her forgiveness .. he is gradually taking steps forward.. the table scenes ... appreciated her.. admired her... its happening gradually GP .. for me the charm has just increased ... not faded away at all ... yah sometimes its hard to accept it with gult ridden nakusha .. but soon she is going to give it away.. and then this tingling romance will take a back seat.. and then a more intense and painful period will take over ... after that we will get to see a a different and intense portrayal of romance from both sides. 😊

Atleast its billion times better then the hero cornering a heroine trying to Think like zillion of times before figuring out where and how to KISS his lady love.. such a nasty way of portraying ur feelings towards a women u love ..

I'm actually loving duta - nakusha for not taking that nasty road ..

I agree with you on that point. I am THANKFUL we have been spared the typical fare, and yes the Dutta-Naku romance is different in that way. But, where we may depart is in my belief that this D-N romance is getting protracted and slightly tedious--it's the same game of won't they, will they, but with the LTL reserve, self-discipline, maturity, and dramatic twist. I do appreciate the skill with which the CVs have handled the romance, but given Dutta's and Naku's special circumstances, would we have believed any KISS planning on either's part anyway? It was going to be a serious romance on both sides. They were serious and seriously flawed people.

Your points are valid, Sara, and I cannot argue on any level with them.

I am a bit different when it comes to my views on love. I don't think wanting to touch or kiss someone you are falling for or in love with is necessarily disgusting. I think it is absolutely natural, when you have a connection with that person, and they with you. As long as that hug or kiss or holding is done out of love and respect, then I say go for it! That, of course, does not mean I want to see seedy love-scenes on TV either. 😆

nice topic...im liking the change in dutta, he's starting to believe in God...like he said himself, naku has taught him a new way to live life and to understand people... he realised that his way of thinking and living was wrong, due to wich he failed 2 understand the honesty in nakusha and also see the wrong that was happening around him, i.e. kala plotting against him... now he sees things and life from a new and improved perspective which is gd for him...

Originally posted by: prettywoman

hi Gp.. nice topic.. yes, the thought has passed my mind very fleeetingly once.. never to well on it again.. in th initial stages/flus of love, it is bound to happen.. i am alsotalking from exerience here😳

u just want to see that person ll the time, even be happy to be nearhatperson and not say a single word, jst happy to hae hat feeling that the special someone is around you.. it is nt something un-atural and so dutta is not being sappy, jut normal gp.. yes, u r finding it hard sheis dutta bhao and u think how can he lose tht aura .. but fu think back to even a couple of episodes, that aur is still there.. remember the bashing he gave kala, the way he shooed out the sisters from hi room after nakku ran offjust to ention a few.. the old dutta bhao is sill there.. but nakku has revived the old dutta who believes n love and is lapping it up as he as been deprived o it for so long.

he is shy and not very communicative or extrovert like say baaji, so all he can do to express his love is stare at her and is doing a commendable job😆

i think when the revelation and post repurcussions happen, he will be ack to the old bhao, but i stil fee he will not go all out like he did in sups case..

i dont think we can say he has changed.. love has introduced him to new feelings and thoughts and he is still enjoying it..he has not changed..he was mighty upset/woried after naku left, so he ismaking every effort to ensure she realises how much he loves her..so enjoy his fawning over naku ya as i am sure when the tooan comes albeit for a short time, we will want these days back!

and mindyou, shaadi ke baad, maybe he wont fawn oer hr sooo much, till ghoorega, but after afew monmths, othr responsibilities will take precedenceand pls i am not saying love will take a back seat, but it will be on a safe patri!

sorry, if i have upset anyone...

vaish

Vaish,
There is absolutely nothing for anyone to get upset about! 😛 It's a discussion among friends!

Yes, initially in love, there is that overwhelming rush of passion--to see the other person, to talk to that person, to know everything about them, take care of them...absolutely...been there, done that. Learned from that too...

But your point is very right about this timing impact...he is falling in love for the first time in along time.

The other reason I think the CV's are showing the extreme side of Dutta (in love) is probably because when he does find out about Nakku's true revelation he can flip back to the angry side and is noticeable to the viewers. 😆😆