Nakku cant ask for Trust!!! - Page 2

Yaa annu..........well said yaar.............I agree with all u said..............

hi Anu,

I agree with the point of Naku proving her innocence with some proof but I dont agree that she should reveal her true face before asking trust from Dutta.

I beg to differ a bit...

Naku had enough.. she is on receiving end for a long time now n had tolerated whatever has been thrown on her way... she has every right to say "what she feels" ab woh sahi hai ki nahi woh alag baat hai .. How can she prove her innocence? by taking a bullet? usse kaisay pata ki kya honay waala hai ?? She needed to SAY it !! sometimes its better to say or ywh sochay bina ki consequences kya honge .. waise bhi nakusha doesn;t know that dutta is softening towards her ...

From Dutta's pov..

I feel The day at cliff, he had believed her! his eyes said it all.. it was just when she gained consciousness he had been showing no emotion to naku, yesterday when he said " isska BHOLAPAN mujeh le doobay " proves that..

Nakusha's confession this time might affect him if its not Nakusha's dream. as he is looking things from a different prospective now.

in my opinion only..ab rest is in CVs hands..They are always welcome ..

Originally posted by: ccolaco

I agree with the point of Naku proving her innocence with some proof but I dont agree that she should reveal her true face before asking trust from Dutta.

Hiding her true beauty is not a big betrayal in comparison to wat Sups and the first girl did. And if Dutta loves her truly then I dont think he should care much if she is black or white. Dutta has never ever commented on her color like others in PN. He has shared his secrets, his friendship for wat Naku is frm inside and not frm outside.It should be like a bonus for him that his love turned out to be good-looking instead of ugly duckling😉

But seriously guys i dont see anything wrong in wat naku is doing right now. She is not hiding her beauty on purpose, she knws if she reveals it now Dutta may feel she is doing it to get his love and that could hurt dutta more than any betrayal and would never love her back.

CV has already portrayed in front of us why she is not revealing her beauty now and also made it clear many times that she doesnt expect anything from Dutta. Yeah if Naku wanted Dutta's love and then hiding the secret could be wrong frm her prespective but rite now Naku's view is that she doesnt want his love at all but only his trust and the old days that they spent as friends (when Dutta shared his secret). She just wants that attitude, that respect, that treatment towards her back from Dutta. So when she doesnt expect his love and want jst his trust why should she tell him about her beauty secret. If 2morow he starts loving her and accepts her as his wife and then too if she hides it then yeah it could be a betrayal but rite now wen she jst wants to be good frnds like b4 then i dnt see any wrong

This is wat i feel. No offence plz

i totally agree n she thinks she'll b leaving him when they return to PN so acc to her no point in showing her true color

Originally posted by: ccolaco

I agree with the point of Naku proving her innocence with some proof but I dont agree that she should reveal her true facebefore asking trust from Dutta.

Hiding her true beauty is not a big betrayal in comparison to wat Sups and the first girl did. And if Dutta loves her truly then I dont think he should care much if she is black or white.Dutta has never ever commented on her color like others in PN. He has shared his secrets, his friendship for wat Naku is frm inside and not frm outside.It should be like a bonus for himthat his love turned out to be good-lookinginstead of ugly duckling😉

But seriously guys i dont see anything wrong in wat naku is doing right now. She is not hiding her beauty on purpose, she knws if she reveals it now Dutta may feel she is doing it to get his love and that could hurt dutta more than any betrayal and would never love her back.

CV has already portrayed in front of us why she isnot revealingher beauty now and also made it clear many times that she doesnt expect anything from Dutta. Yeah if Naku wantedDutta's love and then hiding the secret could be wrong frm her prespective but rite now Naku's viewis that shedoesnt want his love at all butonly his trust and the old days that they spent as friends (when Dutta shared his secret). She just wants that attitude, that respect, that treatment towards her back from Dutta. So when she doesnt expect his love and want jst his trust why should she tell him about her beauty secret. If 2morow he starts loving her and accepts her as his wife and then too if she hides itthen yeah it could be a betrayal but rite now wen she jst wants to begood frnds like b4 theni dnt see any wrong

This is wat i feel. No offence plz

I agree that Naku's only desire or expectation is that Dutta trust her friendship and love for him. But secrets and secrets, and even a small one can damage a relationship that does not have much of it because of suspicions or past.

In retrospect now, ANY secrets that Naku keeps is a big betrayal. Her reasons are not selfish, that is for sure, and I think Dutta will realize that too. But it is his relationship with Naku at this point in his life (after Seema, living life of a don, her being his only "true friend") which makes it even more remarkable. Hence, it would hurt him very deeply that Naku to this day kept something from him. So even if Naku doesn't expect anything from him like love, if she wants his respect and friendship again, any little thing kept from him can set their relationship back.

This is also just my opinion, so please don't think of it as anything but that. But I do not like the idea of Naku's beauty being like a bonus prize for loving for the right reasons. I hope the CVs tread very carefully here, because I find it very amusing. Why? Because it won't matter to Dutta one bit. Rather, it might freak him out temporarily.

And if Naku wants to be friends with him, based on trust, and this happens, she's got to be nuts to think he would not take some offense to her hiding her face from him. It would be a very short-run friendship. It's as if she is dooming it from the start.

I'm looking forward to the story unfolding, but just as Dutta is realizing his mistakes, I hope Naku does too.

Originally posted by: Ashleydevlin

<div></div>i totally agree n she thinks she'll b leaving him when they return to PN so acc to her no point in showing her true color

Naku believes completely in Dutta's words--they will go their separate ways, and he constantly reminds her of it. But, being the type of person she is, wouldn't she want to rid herself of all misconceptions, her true feelings, her other truths before they separate? Essentially, free herself of anything and everything? If it were me, I'd like to lay all the cards on the table before going separate ways, just so I know I did the right thing. No more, no less.

Originally posted by: gp00

Naku believes completely in Dutta's words--they will go their separate ways, and he constantly reminds her of it. But, being the type of person she is, wouldn't she want to rid herself of all misconceptions, her true feelings, her other truths before they separate? Essentially, free herself of anything and everything? If it were me, I'd like to lay all the cards on the table before going separate ways, just so I know I did the right thing. No more, no less.

All of the above...I agree and disagree....everyone made many valid points.

When it comes down to it...Nakku has no right to ask for anything in return actually. She can explain, yell, shout of her love and her trust; however, like someone said...she could be on the top of the Eiffel tower, it wouldn't make a damn difference to someone who needs TANGIBLE trust. What I mean is...what has Nakku done to gain HIS trust...they started off on a bad Sups note of her hiding the truth..yes...from then on, I agree, she has shown him of her love, with her devotion to his life..however....Trust and Love do not always go hand in hand.
I can love someone dearly..however..I can still not trust them. Trust, I think, is a different facet all together. It is earned, love is sometimes freely given. I believe its time for Nakku to literally tell Dutta her side of the story with Sups from day ONE. And then Dutta can use that and juxtapose it with the current sides of Nakku he is seeing (in which she doesn't put the stuff in the tea ect). It will allow him to maybe see her in a less foggy light.
Next comes her face. I agree, she does not have a right to ask for trust, when she herself is being so misleading. If she wants him to trust/love her, then she MUST MUST MUST reveal who she is...because by the looks of things, if Dutta does trust her, she will really get bit in the *** if he finds out that she hid the truth, regardless of how intention.
I think Dutta knows that she loves him, but also, I feel that he might also think that she is more or less 'infatuated' with him, not really in love...maybe..however..this JMM track might open his eyes to how naive she really is in regards to everything....
Trust is a barrier, however, I think in order to Nakku to get past it, she needs to reveal every aspect of herself, who she is, what she stands for, what she HAS done and HAS NOT...and lay it ALL out there..and leave it up to Dutta, that way, regardless of the outcome, at least she will know that she put in everything she could...

Originally posted by: gp00

Naku believes completely in Dutta's words--they will go their separate ways, and he constantly reminds her of it. But, being the type of person she is, wouldn't she want to rid herself of all misconceptions, her true feelings, her other truths before they separate? Essentially, free herself of anything and everything? If it were me, I'd like to lay all the cards on the table before going separate ways, just so I know I did the right thing. No more, no less.

yeah but naku carries lot of emotional baggage with her, she honestly believe that she can never get dutta to love her(ofcourse we know otherwise😉)n she doesnt want dutta to fall for her beautiful looks n i think thta naku believes that there is no future for them as hubby n wife so better to part as friends n shewant his trust before going away, revealing her looks wil get her a lot of things but trust because time is short once they r back at home, she wont b able to convince him at all