Karan as a husband: success or failure? - Page 2

Originally posted by: SMITAKSHI

I cant agree wid u...

the basic reason for this is that if u wud have watched the storyline completely...then b4 karan married tanya he said all the conditions 2 her...

and the main part in it was that karan said that i am marrying u juss for bhoomi's and my family's sake...bcuz i cant disagree to tulsi maa's decision...and though we will b married 2 eachother...i wont b ever able 2 give u the position of wife in my lyf...bcuz it will b olways secured by nands....😊

and as far as i rememeber...tanya agreed to this condition n then she married karan...

later on...wen nandini returned frm coma...karan understood that tanya loved bhoomi...so he inspite of loving nands...took bhoomi secretly 2 meet tanya...so tht tanya feels gud....

later on...nandini sacrificed...her everything 2 let tanya b happy wid karan....

then after seeing that spending 20 yrs together...karan never loved tanya...and w8ted for nandini 2 cum back in his life...tanya promised karan...that wen nandini will cum back...i wud leave karan, this family, and this house as well...

but such a jerk😡 like tanya...

wen the time came to show her sacrifice and broad mind...she stepped back frm her own words...

and tried to gain control over the house,karan giving "BHOOMI" as the damn reason...she made bhoomi against her own mom by saying vigerous things abt her....

and finally...by her tears...and fake act...started gaining control and sticking like a fevicol wid karan..........

and shes so weird that now money has also bcum a vital part of her lyf!

u cant say that karan failed as an ideal husband.......

its bcuse karan never gotta chance 2 prove himself as a gud hubby..

firstly he wanted 2 marry nands...and that cudnt happen cuz that evil ansh married her...

then wen they got married...nands and karan...had a happy begginning ...but that also cudnt sustain 4 a long time...cuz she went 2 coma....and bcuz of wich he had to unwantedly marry that tanya...whom HE NEVER LOVED!

so wats his fault in this???

it was tanya...who ruined his life,his love and even his kids...cuz she was unable 2 bring them up as gud human beings...instead she made them spoilt brats!!!

so this makes me conclude that karan has proved himself best in everything..."EVEN AS A HUSBAND"!!!

Mypoint exactly, why marry someone for your needs? dont they have a life either? even though tanya knew wht she was getting into, she devoted herself for 20 years bringing them up, she deserves better than wht she got, and for making the kids spoiled brats, mom is not the only one bringing them up, karan is equally responsible for tht....maybe if he wasnt so busy making money he could have seen how bhoomi n manthan were turning up...

Originally posted by: Singh23

yeah i agree with the original post, karan fell short when it came to being a husband, BUT just barely his character is near ideal. however he is a worse father then a husband

I have to agree with the last statement...it is very true

i totally disagree with you.its totally tanya's fault she knew it very well on her first day of marriage karan was agreed to marry with him just for bhoomi's sake and first first three years he didn't gives her wifes rights when tulsi came back after completing her 3 years prision she said to him then he gave her wifes rights but when nandini was comeback from coma docter called him he left tanya in their wedding anniversary and happiliy went to met nandini.when nandini was faint when she read his diary karan told infront of tulsi and tanya maine woh sare rishte khatam kardoga jo mere aur nandini ke beech ayen ge.when nandini got 14 years prision karan told him clearly you will never takes place nandi's place in my heart .then why not tanya except it nandini is karan's life and i am nothing infront of nandini in karan's life.then whynot she left him.thata means she is the most chipko woman.zabadasti pyar karo tanya said to karan so many times when nmandini will retuen i will leave you but she never fulfil her promise ,she said to karan i always respect your and nandini's love oh thats why she kicked out nandini from sn that means she is a biggest lier.plus when she knew abt nandini's marriage she said so many bad things to nandini then why not she was happy in that time and if she was sincerely thinking abt karan thats why she said so many bad things to her then why not she is happy right now and reunite karan nandini.no she was showing jelousy that meanshe is a double standard woman.

as you are talking abt giving a chance why you all forget when karan made a decision living with tanya he wanted to moved on with her.but what tanya did with him.

Exactly, wht did she do?? she couldnt have done much, bcoz she never knew karan decided to be with her...she is not a mind reader now!

LOOKT AT KARAN'S SITUATION.AND COMPARING B/W NANDINI AND TANYA.
NANDINI WHO SHOWED INFRONT OF HIM HER FAKE MARRIAGE JUST FOR TANYA AND WHEN KARAN KNEW ABT IT HE WANTS HER RETURN IN HIS LIFE BUT NANDINI GAVE HIM 24 HOURS ULTIMATE BECAUSE SHE WANTS KARAN WILL REALISE TANYA GAVE HIM 20 YEARS OF HER LIFE AND ITS NOT EASY YOU WILL BREAK YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH HER.
TANYA WHO SAID TO KARAN EK AURAT SaBKUCH BARDASHT KATRSAKI HAI DOSRI AURAT NAHIN THEN WHY NOT YOU WERE THINKING ABT NANDINI WHEN YOU WAS MARRIED WITH KARAN AND NANDINI IS KARAN'S FIRST WIFE YOU ARE KARAN'S SECOND WIFE PLUS SHE SAID TO HIM NANDINI LEFT YOU 20 YEARS BACK TANYA NANDINI LEFT HIM BECAUSE SHE GOT 14 YEARS PRISION NOT FOR HER OWN WISH AND THAT MEANS IN TAHT TIME YOU WERE THINKING NOW KARAN IS ONLLY MINE AND NANDINI WILL NEVER COME BACK.
NANDINI IN one episode EPISODE KARAN SAID TO HER KABHI KABHI TO MANN KARTAHAI SUB KUCH BULAKAR AND NMANDINI STOPPED HIM AND SAID TO HIM TUMHE APNE AAJ MAIN REHNA HAI.
TANYA WHEN KARAN SAID AAJ BUHAT THAK GAYAN HOON SHE SAID TO HIM TO APNI THAKAN GUeST ROOM MAIN JAKAR MITALO AND MERA HUSBAND MERI DOST SE PYAR KARTA HAI,USE KABHI NA BULNE KA dAwA KARTA HAI.TANYA WHY NOT YOU WERE THINKING ABT NANDINI HOW WAS NANDINI'S SITUATION WHEN SHE KNeW MY BEST FRIEND WAS MARRIED WITH MY HUSBAND.BUT LOOK AT NANDINI SHE NEVER ASKED HIM ANYTHING ABT HIS AND TANYA'S MARRIAGE INFACT WHEN WHEN KARAN WENT TO MET HER in jail she ALWAYS SAID TO HIM TANYA DESERVES ALL HAPPINESS AND LOOK AT TANYA'S BEHAVIOUR TOWARDS NANDINI.
NANDINI TULSI WAS INSULTING HER INFRONT OF EVERYONE BUT NANDINI DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING BAD ABT HER.
TANYA SHE SAID TO KARAN TUMHARI MAA WAPIS KYUN AYEN MAR KYUN NAHIN GAYEN.
NANDINI BHOOMI SAID TO HER CHARACTERLESS WOMAN,I NEVER EXCEPT YOU AS A
MOTHER AND TUM ABTAK GAYEN NAHIN BUT NANNDINI DIDN'T SAY TO HER ANYTHING JUST FOR TANYA. and tanya she was using bhoomi against nandini.

I dont understand this, how and where did she use bhoomi against Nandini? yeah, she kept quite, which was wrong, but how did tht become using her??

NOW PLZZZZ TELLME HOW KARAN FORGET NANDINI AND MOVE ON WITH TANYA.IN WHICH ANGLE TANYA DESERVES KARAN' LOVE PLZ TELl ME.

The angle of having been there for those 20 years, when karan and his kids needed someone to care of them n the house! Any body will come down to blackmail if they see tht the 20 years they selflessly gave to another person, is for nothing. it is not too much if tanya asks karan not to go after having lived with her for 20 years! if karan hasnt been able to forget nandini in 20 years, then tanya who also loved karan, how can she let go of him??

and in which angle tanya truely loves with karan.she loves with karan thats why she is always blackmailing him,pushing him i gave you 20 years of my .life thats why mujhe pyar karo,i loook after your children thats why mujhe pyar karo sacha pyar karne wale ehsan jata kar pyar nahin mangte.

Sacche pyaar karne wale choubis ghante ka mahurat bhi nehi dete..aur agar apne pyaar ko bachane ke liye, ehsan jatana pade, to harz hi kya hai??

she loves karan thats why she kickout nandini from sn.if you truely loves with somone then your happiness is your lover happiness not like tanya zbardasti pyar karo.she loves karan thats why she said to him apni thakan guest room main jaa kar mitalo.she loves karan thats why she said for tulsi infront of him maar jati to acha hota wapis kyun ayen infact she knew it very well what is the meaning of tulsi in karan'slife.she loves karan thats why she canceled jewerlly order .she loves karan thats why first she herself kickout nandini from sn but still taunting over karan you were not here because you were deep in your thought and obviuosly you were thinking abt nandini .shameles woman if you know nandini is stll leaving in karan's heart then whynot you left him that means you have no selfrespect.she loves him thats why when karan deeply in hurt with his behaviour towards tulsi and mhir and saw bhoomi with abhir instead of supporting him she was planning how to take revange with tulsi.

Your sarcasm amazes me.As for wht she did and said, thts purely out of jealousy, and Karan never gave a thought to why she felt tht way, he never tried to understand Tanya's feelings and emotions. She turned mean and when you r seeting with anger n jealousy, you are bound to say things tht are ugly.

I agree with you. Karan failed as a husband and a father. There are no excuses for his decisions in his life. If he goes against his parents wish, later on they will understand and support him. 20 years is far too long to realize mistakes and correct the mistakes.

Originally posted by: coolkitty_23

Disclaimer: All K-N fans, please do not attack me with comments of karan cant be wrong or kn are best, we all know tht..i am just asking you to look at it from a different perspective. And yes, I am not saying tanya was right to do ugly bad things against tulsi, i am not even talking abt those things. Please feel free to share open minded comments and correct me if I am wrong anywhere.


I have watched kyunki since its inception days and I know the whole history of the KNT triangle etc. But I feel Karan, even though succeeded as a lover, friend, son, father etc, I think he really fell short off being an ideal husband. We all know the history of how Tanya remained married to karan, with all of Nandini's sacrifice etc, but for 20 years, karan really did not give Tanya a wife's place, he never really gave it even a chance. Agreed he loved Nandini, but wht was Tanya's fault in those 20 years for not being accepted by Karan as his wife, as someone who rightfully deserved his love?? He hardly made an effort to be a good husband, how much did he expect from Tanya, to give her love and bring up bhoomi n manthan and not get anything in return? Living for 20 years knowing tht your husband isnt yours tht he still loves his old flame,even though he is married to you, no woman in tanya's place can take it, No one!! Wasn't he selfish to marry her for bhoomi's sake, if he didn't love her, he didnt need to marry her, he could have had a maid or his mother itself to care for her? Even if he consumated his marriage against his wish, he did so, and right there at that point, in his mind was Tanya, not Nandini.
May be , for one sec, even though its just a serial, put yourself in Tanya's place, would you have not done anything n everything remotely possible by you to make your husband, yours, wholeheartedly?? And finally, when he tried to make an effort, he did not even tell Tanya what and why he and Nandini decided not to be with each other, all tht did was create more misunderstanding..and ultimately ruin their marriage.

Agree with you completely.Karan has always taken tanya for granted and has never taken his marriage with her seriously .

Personally, Karan failed as a husband to Nandani, only.

I cannot feel bad for Tanya no matter how much she cries about all she's done for Karan and his family. She got the status, prestige, and rights as Karan's wife despite being Nandani's sautan.

When she became friends with Karan, she knew he liked Nandani. Then she gave him a shoulder to cry on after Nandani's marriage to Ansh. Finally, she would always cry about how she's not happy with Nandani marrying Karan, even though she knows how much Karan-Nandani are in love. Instead of being happy, she was envious.

When Nandani was put into a coma, she stepped forward and took care of Bhoomi. Therefore, the Virani family thought that she would be perfect for Karan.

Karan DID NOT want to marry Tanya. He said no when the entire family was pressuring him. Even Tanya heard him say no. Yet not one time did she protest about marrying her best friend-sister's husband.

Karan even STOPPED in the middle of the saat pheras when he realized what he was doing. But Bhoomi started crying, therefore he continued with the marriage with Nandani in his mind and in front of his eyes.

Then, Tulsi came out of jail and convinced Karan to move on in life. He did and then Nandani came out of the coma.

Too happy to have her back in his life and afraid of giving her a relapse that would put her back into a coma, he didn't tell her he was married to Tanya.

He told Tanya that he cannot help her and she left the house, because Karan and the family didn't want to endanger Nandani's life.

TANYA WANTED NANDANI TO KNOW THE TRUTH SO NANDANI CAN LEAVE KARAN OR DIE, BECAUSE THE DOCTOR TOLD KARAN THAT IF NANDANI GETS ANY SHOCKING NEWS SHE WILL DIE.

Then she met Karan behind Nandani's back (just like she's accusing Karan of doing now). She would cry to him about how alone she is and that her dreams have all broken.

What's so double-standard about her character is that she told Karan 20 years ago:

"I can share you BUT Nandani will NEVER SHARE YOU."

20 years later, she claims that no woman can share her husband. Where was this attitude 23 years ago when she married Karan? Didn't she know when she married him who he was in love with?

Finally Nandani finds out that Karan is married to Tanya when she saw them together on Kurva Chauth night. Tulsi brainwashes her and makes Nandani feel to be the outsider.

Nandani accepts the blame for Gujral's murder and goes away from them, telling them two to be together.

Then Tanya came home to live with the Viranis, KARAN TOLD HER:

MY LIFE AND HEART IS NANDANI'S ONLY. I CANNOT GIVE YOU HER (nandani) PLACE IN MY HEART NOR IN MY LIFE.

TANYA AGREED TO THIS ARRANGEMENT AND TOLD HIM SHE LOVES HIM THEREFORE, IT DOESN'T MATTER TO HER.

HE CONTINUED LIVING...THEN TULSI DIED....NANDANI DIDN'T COME BACK TO HIM. HE CHANGED.

Tulsi and Nandani came back to him 20 years later, both convincing him to accept his present (Tanya) and move on.

He tried to move on but honestly you cannot force someone to love you, no matter what you do.

She claims to love him but when he needed her the most, she turned her back on him because of her own insecurities. If she loved him so much, she would put aside her pride and have given Karan the money when he had asked.

Its like Damini told her: You brought this on yourself only.

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I 100% dislike Karan because of the jerk of the man he's been to Nandani. In my eyes, nothing can ever justify his behavior to Nandani and how he treated her! He's always been wrong to Nandani only!

First, he let her marry his monster brother for the sake of his mother.

Then, he got married to her best friend and when she was finally in his life, being happy with him. He decided to meet behind her back with her so-called best friend, because he felt guilty about being happy with her (Nandani).

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To me, its NANDANI who never got the love and the family she has always DESERVED.

Its only because of Nandani's sacrifice that TANYA'S ILLEGITIMATE SON GOT A FATHER'S NAME AND TANYA GOT THE RIGHTS AS KARAN'S WIFE.

So to me, in the loser of all of this has been NANDANI ONLY WHO HAS NEVER GOTTEN THE HUSBAND'S LOVE SHE DESERVES.

SHE SACRIFICED FOR HER SO-CALLED BEST FRIEND, WHO IS A SELFISH, UNGRATEFUL WOMAN WHO CALLS HER (NANDANI) HER (TANYA) SAUTAN.

I can NEVER have sympathy for a woman like Tanya who has created a mess out of her own life. She chose her decisions in life, NO ONE FORCED HER TO MARRY A MADLY-IN-LOVE-WITH-NANDANI KARAN.

Personally I will NEVER put myself in Tanya's shoes because I am not STUPID to marry a man who is in love with someone else. I am ruining on my own life by marrying him because I know he's not mine's.

Nandani made some mistakes but she never blamed them on others, unlike Tanya who finds Nandani as a convenient excuse to blame whenever possible.

In the end, this is what I see:

TANYA HAD A CHOICE TO MARRY KARAN.

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You raised these question of putting myself in Tanya's shoes.

MY QUESTION TO YOU IS:

WOULD YOU, A SELF-RESPECTING WOMAN MARRY A MAN WHO IS IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ELSE?

Would you set yourself up for a disappointmen like Tanya's done when it came to Karan?

Because I for SURE would NOT marry a man who is in love with someone else. Not just me, but any self-respecting, independent woman will NOT marry a man who is in love with someone else. I rather live myself alone (Like Nandani) than stay with Karan (unlike Tanya) who will never be mine's.

Humaira

hi, i want to say onething do anti karan n nandani fans have no other thing to do .just to creat these kind of topic ..........why u people dont discuss laksh ,eklavya,mihir eta any other chars but u people always choose karan n nandani over them soo in this case i wouuld love to say this that karan n nandani rvery important chars thats why u people have something to discuss about ..........anyway now my fav characters in kyunki r dying soo why r u anti karan n nandani fans r opening these kind of topics...
for me tanya is the most selfish women whi has no self respect also ...ahe is soo insecure that she cant tolerate nandani in front of her now ..........when nandani came to know about tanya n karan marriage she didnt show her jealousy towards tanya infact she sacrifices for her n that soo called tanya never care about nandanis feeling when nandani came back from coma tanya didnt even told bhoomi that she was her mother infact she always told bhoomi that nandani is ur massi what kind of women is this ..........
and now karan i know he was at fault but not fully he tries to be a good husband n father but bc of circumstances he has changed aot after tulsi death he completely changed..........soo thats why he never pay attention to manthan n bhoomi more bc they r spoilt children n karan dint pay attention to them fully at that time bc he wanted to kept himself busy in his work ........so i think that also was not his fault if he doesnt raised the kids n tanya raised them then tanya should tiold them how to respect elders ......tanya also failed as mother .....now as wife u will see this ....anyway my essay is too long if u want to read then read it otherwise for me tanya is the biggest looser in karan nandani n tanya triangle ..........thats why i hate tanya the mostt 😡 😡

Originally posted by: hgauritejwani

hi, i want to say onething do anti karan n nandani fans have no other thing to do .just to creat these kind of topic ..........why u people dont discuss laksh ,eklavya,mihir eta any other chars but u people always choose karan n nandani over them soo in this case i wouuld love to say this that karan n nandani rvery important chars thats why u people have something to discuss about ..........anyway now my fav characters in kyunki r dying soo why r u anti karan n nandani fans r opening these kind of topics...
for me tanya is the most selfish women whi has no self respect also ...ahe is soo insecure that she cant tolerate nandani in front of her now ..........when nandani came to know about tanya n karan marriage she didnt show her jealousy towards tanya infact she sacrifices for her n that soo called tanya never care about nandanis feeling when nandani came back from coma tanya didnt even told bhoomi that she was her mother infact she always told bhoomi that nandani is ur massi what kind of women is this ..........
and now karan i know he was at fault but not fully he tries to be a good husband n father but bc of circumstances he has changed aot after tulsi death he completely changed..........soo thats why he never pay attention to manthan n bhoomi more bc they r spoilt children n karan dint pay attention to them fully at that time bc he wanted to kept himself busy in his work ........so i think that also was not his fault if he doesnt raised the kids n tanya raised them then tanya should tiold them how to respect elders ......tanya also failed as mother .....now as wife u will see this ....anyway my essay is too long if u want to read then read it otherwise for me tanya is the biggest looser in karan nandani n tanya triangle ..........thats why i hate tanya the mostt 😡 😡

Well this clearly shows how much you did not understand wht I wrote and replied for the sake of it.
I NEVER told I am an anti-KN fan, on the contrary, I am a Karan fan only.

Do NOT generalise and assume that every one who points out something against a fav character is anti that person. Like they say, if you assume, you make an ass-out-of you.

Thirdly, wht kinda excuse is keeping busy with work make when it is his kids at stake?? his love for his lover is so much more important tht is willing to overlook his own kids?? isnt tht called Selfishness??

And next time try not to trash every comment with such huge amount of hostility, a little politeness is never bad and i clearly told in the beginning, if you cannot have an open perspective, dont take the trouble of commenting either!

Originally posted by: desiflavour101

Personally, Karan failed as a husband to Nandani, only.

I cannot feel bad for Tanya no matter how much she cries about all she's done for Karan and his family. She got the status, prestige, and rights as Karan's wife despite being Nandani's sautan.

When she became friends with Karan, she knew he liked Nandani. Then she gave him a shoulder to cry on after Nandani's marriage to Ansh. Finally, she would always cry about how she's not happy with Nandani marrying Karan, even though she knows how much Karan-Nandani are in love. Instead of being happy, she was envious.

When Nandani was put into a coma, she stepped forward and took care of Bhoomi. Therefore, the Virani family thought that she would be perfect for Karan.

Karan DID NOT want to marry Tanya. He said no when the entire family was pressuring him. Even Tanya heard him say no. Yet not one time did she protest about marrying her best friend-sister's husband.

Karan even STOPPED in the middle of the saat pheras when he realized what he was doing. But Bhoomi started crying, therefore he continued with the marriage with Nandani in his mind and in front of his eyes.

Then, Tulsi came out of jail and convinced Karan to move on in life. He did and then Nandani came out of the coma.

Too happy to have her back in his life and afraid of giving her a relapse that would put her back into a coma, he didn't tell her he was married to Tanya.

He told Tanya that he cannot help her and she left the house, because Karan and the family didn't want to endanger Nandani's life.

TANYA WANTED NANDANI TO KNOW THE TRUTH SO NANDANI CAN LEAVE KARAN OR DIE, BECAUSE THE DOCTOR TOLD KARAN THAT IF NANDANI GETS ANY SHOCKING NEWS SHE WILL DIE.

Then she met Karan behind Nandani's back (just like she's accusing Karan of doing now). She would cry to him about how alone she is and that her dreams have all broken.

What's so double-standard about her character is that she told Karan 20 years ago:

"I can share you BUT Nandani will NEVER SHARE YOU."

20 years later, she claims that no woman can share her husband. Where was this attitude 23 years ago when she married Karan? Didn't she know when she married him who he was in love with?

Finally Nandani finds out that Karan is married to Tanya when she saw them together on Kurva Chauth night. Tulsi brainwashes her and makes Nandani feel to be the outsider.

Nandani accepts the blame for Gujral's murder and goes away from them, telling them two to be together.

Then Tanya came home to live with the Viranis, KARAN TOLD HER:

MY LIFE AND HEART IS NANDANI'S ONLY. I CANNOT GIVE YOU HER (nandani) PLACE IN MY HEART NOR IN MY LIFE.

TANYA AGREED TO THIS ARRANGEMENT AND TOLD HIM SHE LOVES HIM THEREFORE, IT DOESN'T MATTER TO HER.

HE CONTINUED LIVING...THEN TULSI DIED....NANDANI DIDN'T COME BACK TO HIM. HE CHANGED.

Tulsi and Nandani came back to him 20 years later, both convincing him to accept his present (Tanya) and move on.

He tried to move on but honestly you cannot force someone to love you, no matter what you do.

She claims to love him but when he needed her the most, she turned her back on him because of her own insecurities. If she loved him so much, she would put aside her pride and have given Karan the money when he had asked.

Its like Damini told her: You brought this on yourself only.

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I 100% dislike Karan because of the jerk of the man he's been to Nandani. In my eyes, nothing can ever justify his behavior to Nandani and how he treated her! He's always been wrong to Nandani only!

First, he let her marry his monster brother for the sake of his mother.

Then, he got married to her best friend and when she was finally in his life, being happy with him. He decided to meet behind her back with her so-called best friend, because he felt guilty about being happy with her (Nandani).

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To me, its NANDANI who never got the love and the family she has always DESERVED.

Its only because of Nandani's sacrifice that TANYA'S ILLEGITIMATE SON GOT A FATHER'S NAME AND TANYA GOT THE RIGHTS AS KARAN'S WIFE.

So to me, in the loser of all of this has been NANDANI ONLY WHO HAS NEVER GOTTEN THE HUSBAND'S LOVE SHE DESERVES.

SHE SACRIFICED FOR HER SO-CALLED BEST FRIEND, WHO IS A SELFISH, UNGRATEFUL WOMAN WHO CALLS HER (NANDANI) HER (TANYA) SAUTAN.

I can NEVER have sympathy for a woman like Tanya who has created a mess out of her own life. She chose her decisions in life, NO ONE FORCED HER TO MARRY A MADLY-IN-LOVE-WITH-NANDANI KARAN.

Personally I will NEVER put myself in Tanya's shoes because I am not STUPID to marry a man who is in love with someone else. I am ruining on my own life by marrying him because I know he's not mine's.

Nandani made some mistakes but she never blamed them on others, unlike Tanya who finds Nandani as a convenient excuse to blame whenever possible.

In the end, this is what I see:

TANYA HAD A CHOICE TO MARRY KARAN.

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You raised these question of putting myself in Tanya's shoes.

MY QUESTION TO YOU IS:

WOULD YOU, A SELF-RESPECTING WOMAN MARRY A MAN WHO IS IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ELSE?

Would you set yourself up for a disappointmen like Tanya's done when it came to Karan?

Because I for SURE would NOT marry a man who is in love with someone else. Not just me, but any self-respecting, independent woman will NOT marry a man who is in love with someone else. I rather live myself alone (Like Nandani) than stay with Karan (unlike Tanya) who will never be mine's.

Humaira

For once, I woudn't and secondly ever wonder tht karan could have chosen to live alone too?? it was his life, his children and above all, his love....if anything, i will agree, tht he fell short before Nandini too!

Originally posted by: coolkitty_23

For once, I woudn't and secondly ever wonder tht karan could have chosen to live alone too?? it was his life, his children and above all, his love....if anything, i will agree, tht he fell short before Nandini too!

I agree with you Hu

I think since Karan is an emotional fool he was indirectly forced to marry Tanya when Nandini was in Coma..I remember a scene where Tulsi tells him that "I know you hate bhoomi, but you promised nandini that you would give this child your name and look after the child. So marry Tanya as she is taking care of bhoomi"
Tanya had a choice she wasn't under any force. she married him knowing that there would be no relation between them.
Karan consummated the marriage only after Tulsi was realesd from jail after 3 yrs and told him that he has to move on as Nandini was considered as good as dead. He moved on with his life as the doctors also told him that nandini would never be fine and she as good as dead.
When nandini came out of coma tanya left because Nandini was trying to get her married to someone else not because she was thinking about her friend . When Nandini fainted after reading his diary Karan told the doctor that nothing and no one is important to him than Nandini. Any kind of Husband wife relation he had with Tanya was ended when Nandini came out of coma.
He was happy with Nandini. Then Tanya again came into saying she can't live without seeing bhoomi. Karan felt guilty and kept meeting her as a friend. and Tanya did not help by crying and making him feel guilty all the time. I don't think if Karan knew about Tanya's pregnancy also he would have left Nandini, he might have felt more guilty thats it.
When Nandini went to jail for killing Gujral Karan was not happy that Tanya has come back. He infact was shouting at her, he wasn't even happy about her pregnancy. Again it was tulsi who told him that she is pregnant and he had to take care of her. but he told Tanya that he can never give her the love or place of Nandini in his heart.
Tanya still stayed with him knowing that Karan will never love her as before since he is waiting for Nandin's return For Karan since then there was only one relation with Tanya, she was the mother of is kids thats it.
Tanya till now shouts that since the last 20yrs he never gave her a husbands love..when he still considered himself Nandini's husband and waiting for her to return how could he be happy with Tanya.
Although there was everyone with him he considered himself alone and had a good lovable relation only with Bhoomi. He never gave any hopes to Tanya or told her to stay with him..He just did not tell her to leave him pre-leap
Tanya always knew that Nandini would be back someday and karan was still waiting for her...its not like she was dead.
The only big mistake he did was marrying Tanya when Nandini was in coma. But after Nandini came out of coma I feel he was faithful to Nandini and only been hers since then and had only a relation of friendship,guilt & pity with Tanya.