Tanya v/s Nandini... The difference? - Page 5

Originally posted by: moonlight

But K just does not love her...he had told her that in the beg. and he stilll says that T is a friend.....He did not even hug her for the last 20 yrs...when T has realised that, she should have just walked out long back...instead of sticking to him and hoping he will change...

And what about the 2 children, looking up to her as a mother.. She just leaves them with their father, who's moping around...?

She cant take them with her, coz Karan wouldnt let her take Bhoomi... And splitting up a family... Just not a healthy thing to do...

okay. i have read so many discussions and replies from both sides.

what some members seem to be forgetting is that the MAIN d/f b/n Nandani and Tanya is that TANYA chose this life for her.

Tanya was the one who chose to marry Karan despite Karan telling all SN members that he will not marry her as he loves Nandani only. She STILL married him, despite him stopping in the middle of the wedding. And when he took the wedding vows with Tanya, HE ONLY SAW NANDANI'S FACE.

Tanya was the one who cried buckets of tears (as she is doing right now) after Nandani came out of her coma, because it meant that she will lose Karan and Bh.

Tanya was the one who kept on meeting Karan behind Nandani's back, even after Nandani came out of SN. During these meetings, she would always cry about how alone she is and what wrong she has done?!

Tanya was the one who ALWAYS wanted to tell Nandani the truth, not caring that Nandani could die from the shocking news (As told to Karan by Nandani's doctor).

Then it was Nandani who after finding about Karan-Tanya's marriage, took the right step. Confessed to killing Gujral, put Karan's hand in Tanya's, and left them forever.

When Nandani was sent to jail, Karan told Tanya right then and there, that for him NO ONE CAN TAKE NANDANI'S SPOT IN HIS LIFE. SHE SAID THAT'S FINE WITH ME.

Now she is complaining and crying, making Nandani look like the 2nd woman? How disgusting is that?

She always claims that she will leave Karan the minute Nandani comes back. But everytime there has been a mention of Nandani coming back or Karan missing Nandani, she rather cries to Viranis about what fault she has?!

TANYA'S MAIN FAULT IS FOR CHOOSING THIS LIFE FOR HERSELF. TANYA'S FAULT IS FOR MARRYING AN ALREADY MARRIED MAN, WHO MADLY LOVES HIS WIFE.

When Nandani was being pressured to marry Ansh, she went to Karan. She confessed she loves him and that they should elope, and she doesn't care what anyone says. But Karan turned her away, saying he doesn't love her. By then, Ansh was pretending to be a good friend to her, so that is WHY Nandani agreed to marry Ansh.

Ansh raped Nandani which resulted in her being pregnant. She wanted to abort the baby (encouraged by Tanya) but Karan convinced her to keep the baby. She married Karan and when delivering her baby, she slipped into the coma.

After coming out of coma, she lost everything she had. Yet some people on this forum have the never to call her selfish?

Where was she selfish when Ansh raped her? When Karan convinced her to keep the baby?

Where was she selfish when she realized how many so-called 'sacrifices' tanya made and never came back to where she belogns? When Nandani has more rights than Tanya.

Where is she selfish by pretending to be married to Aseem so Tanya's home won't get ruined?

Where is she selfish by turning Karan away so Tanya's home won't get ruined?

Where has she been selfish?

Selfish is only Tanya. So wake up, put on some hearing aid and glasses, so you can finally see this serial with clear eyes and perfect hearing.

Humaira

^ Really... Wow , that's a real nice unbiased point of view...

Pray, enlighten us more on how you reached this conclusion, other than blind love for Nandini...

Originally posted by: darkness_123

^ Really... Wow , that's a real nice unbiased point of view...

Pray, enlighten us more on how you reached this conclusion, other than blind love for Nandini...

🤣 lols nimmi u r funny

Hey....i don't think Karan made a right decesion.....,for time being sticking to tanya is a correct decesion,but not in long run.Karan only loves Nandini n he will never love Tanya so in her whole life she will be in that house as mother of his kids but not as his wife.Karan has accepted to live with tanya but not to love her.Moreover Tanya is insecured n she will suspect Karan n Nandini's every encounter which will result only in her crying or accusing Karan n Nandini.Script writer's will bring Karan n Nandini's child to cause some more insecurity to tanya or some more encounter's of KN...so the story of these three will be unending.............!!!

They are both the same. Everyone is selfish in some kind of way.

It is also normal to cry when you are afraid to lose someone that you love.

its simple tanyas fat and nandani is skinny ( no affence to tanya fans) 😆 😆

Originally posted by: darkness_123

Nandini: Married to a man she didn't love... Got RAPED by him... Had to watch him get murdered... Got pregnant and went into a coma... Murdered a man in defence of her child - which according to me was the worst thing that happened to her... Coz when a non sociopathic person comits an act like this, it affects them so deeply mentally, that it almost takes them under... She went to jail, all the while pregnant... Came back only to realise what Bhoomi and Karan meant to Tanya, and selflessly left... Even pretended to have married a random man for Tanya's happiness...

Nice topic!!👏

I think that won't be saying much, she hated him anyways.😊 And why not? After the physical abuse she suffered on the behest of her silence, naturally it's obvious she'd hate her abuser. Although I do believe had she been a little more loyal to Ansh as a wife, he would not have condemned physical abuse on her.

See here, I don't agree with you. It didn't "happen" to her. She made it happen. She had the choice. She need not have killed Gujral. Just running away or informing the police would have helped -I know Gujral said that not to inform the police but c'mon, doesn't every baddie say that?. After all, she wanted to save Bhumi, no? The choice she made gave her exactly what she deserved - or precisely, a criminal deserved. Taking someone else's life for the sake of a foreshadowed abuse is wrong. It wasn't even certain that Gujral was going to exploit Bhumi! So what on earth justifies her committing a murder is beyond me. And she got selfish at that point. She was ready to make anyone the scapegoat and escape the punishment for the crime she committed and to save Karan(who was actually paying for her crimes), until the time her tolerance broke (I applaud her for speaking the truth!👏) but in the process she injured so many people - Gautam(physically), Tanya (physically), Tulsi(emotionally), Savita (emotionally) and so many more.

I agree! She may be a larger than life character but that was just too touching. Her leaving for the sake of Tanya. 👏 I applaud her for her sincerity.

Call it Ekta's fault but wasn't she sleeping with "a random man"? Check the epis near Jan 12. I clearly remember them in the same room, in the same bed. Was that for Tanya's happiness as well? 😛

I still think Tanya has suffered more. It's easier to leave something once and for all (a la Nandini) than living every moment under the fear that your husband may leave you for his (technically) ex-wife at any point of life. Tanya's life leads on with Karan's life as she's practically been his wife for the past 20 years, thanks to the decision Nandini made. If Nandini chose the path of sacrifice, away from Karan, shouldn't we just leave it at that and let her continue the path she wants to?😳

Anyhow, screw them larger-than-life characters. 😃

Originally posted by: mz.seductive

Anyhow, screw them larger-than-life characters. 😃

🤣 At the end of everything, this is all that needs to be said... ! 🤣 🤣 🤣

Originally posted by: mz.seductive

Nice topic!!👏

I think that won't be saying much, she hated him anyways.😊 And why not? After the physical abuse she suffered on the behest of her silence, naturally it's obvious she'd hate her abuser. Although I do believe had she been a little more loyal to Ansh as a wife, he would not have condemned physical abuse on her.

See here, I don't agree with you. It didn't "happen" to her. She made it happen. She had the choice. She need not have killed Gujral. Just running away or informing the police would have helped -I know Gujral said that not to inform the police but c'mon, doesn't every baddie say that?. After all, she wanted to save Bhumi, no? The choice she made gave her exactly what she deserved - or precisely, a criminal deserved. Taking someone else's life for the sake of a foreshadowed abuse is wrong. It wasn't even certain that Gujral was going to exploit Bhumi! So what on earth justifies her committing a murder is beyond me. And she got selfish at that point. She was ready to make anyone the scapegoat and escape the punishment for the crime she committed and to save Karan(who was actually paying for her crimes), until the time her tolerance broke (I applaud her for speaking the truth!👏) but in the process she injured so many people - Gautam(physically), Tanya (physically), Tulsi(emotionally), Savita (emotionally) and so many more.

I agree! She may be a larger than life character but that was just too touching. Her leaving for the sake of Tanya. 👏 I applaud her for her sincerity.

Call it Ekta's fault but wasn't she sleeping with "a random man"? Check the epis near Jan 12. I clearly remember them in the same room, in the same bed. Was that for Tanya's happiness as well? 😛

I still think Tanya has suffered more. It's easier to leave something once and for all (a la Nandini) than living every moment under the fear that your husband may leave you for his (technically) ex-wife at any point of life. Tanya's life leads on with Karan's life as she's practically been his wife for the past 20 years, thanks to the decision Nandini made. If Nandini chose the path of sacrifice, away from Karan, shouldn't we just leave it at that and let her continue the path she wants to?😳

Anyhow, screw them larger-than-life characters. 😃

i totally disagree with you. why nandini was loyal to ansh and sharing pyhsical relationship with her are you mad you didn't see what he did with her in their first wedding night.and abt adita gujral's murder she proved she was a true and real mother of bhoomi not like tanya who just said hum maa hain aur bhoomi ke liye murder bhi karsakte hain.and abt tanya she is so selfish she never understands karan's feelings she spend 20 years with him but she never understands him look at nandini's love towards karan she knew karan's decision infact she was not crying infront of and not broken him . and tanya knew it on her first day's of marriage karan only loves nandini infact karan told him she will never take place nandini's place in his heart if tanya has selfrespect then why not she leave him in that time like ganga did with sahil its her own wish living with that man who never loves her his life is his first wife nandini.and she was always lying she said when nandini will come back i will leave you but first when karan saw nandini in a party and told abt her she was creating abig drama infront of all virani's and when karan did nandini's accident and bring her home she was crying and thinking abt herself and whe she was ready to sign divorce papers she was crying with buckets of crocodile tears and showed infront of everyone iam so much maham i give sacrifice infact she was going to nandini's house and showed her divorce papers. and now when karan asked him abt leaving him she was again crying and said i will leave you but i will die .and when she was seeing nandini was hugging karan she was again crying if she truely loves him then why not she understands why karan asked her that question infact why she was trusting mandinra and went to check karan and if she was thinking karan want nandini's return in his life then why not she leave him.this is the difference b/w nandini and tanya.as a human being nandini is great she did sacrifice but not showing infront of anyone infact karan himself find out nanadini is not marriage with aseem and she did it only for tanya.as a friend she did so much for tanya.and as a lover she truely loves karan it proves yesterday's episode.and i wish at one day karan nandini will reunite.