Tanya v/s Nandini... The difference? - Page 7

Originally posted by: -xx-Roohani-xx-

Anu, I don't understand one thing. Are u justifying Ansh's behaviour towards Nandani? That if she was more loyal to him that he wouldnt have pyshicaly abused her? So...every woman/man who is unfaithful to thier husband or anyone deserves to be psychically hurt? 😕 I know you're not like that...but when u were saying that up there, I kinda got a feeling that you were justifying Ansh's behavior. 😛

That's all.

Love,

Roohani

Nope. what I'm trying to say is...if Nandini didn't like Ansh what was the point of staying with him, pretending to be his wife? And yea, if she was a bit more loyal to him, it's highly probably that he may not have physically abused her. She married him sans any pressure, did she not? And isn't it OBVIOUS he'd want to have a physical relation with her? And if she's infidel with him, and still has the shamelessness to come infront of him, then it automatically implicates that she leaves it up to him. Knowing that Ansh was ruthless, I can't say it was fully unexpected. That's the difference between Nandini and Crisit from Lives Of the Saints (By Nino Ricci). Cristi too had a relation but she was abused before it. With Nandini it was different, she had a relation before being abused. I think somewhere or the other, it was her fault the rape happened, even if it was in the minority. Ansh was majorly at fault for it, I'm not denying it but I still believe that had Nandini been a bit more active in her role as a wife with Ansh, he may not have condemned abuse on her.

Originally posted by: mz.seductive

Nope. what I'm trying to say is...if Nandini didn't like Ansh what was the point of staying with him,
pretending to be his wife? And yea, if she was abit more loyal to him, it's highly probably that he may not have physically abused her. She married him sans any pressure, did she not? And isn't it OBVIOUS he'd want to have a physical relation with her? And if she's
infidel with him, and still has the shamelessness to come infront of him, then it automatically implicates that she leaves it up to him. Knowing that Ansh was ruthless, I can't say it was fully unexpected. That's the difference between Nandini and Crisit from Lives Of the Saints (By Nino Ricci). Cristi too had a relation but she was abused before it. With Nandini it was different, she had a relation before being abused. I think somewhere or the other, it was her fault the rape happened, even if it was in the minority. Ansh was majorly at fault for it, I'm not denying it but I still believe that had Nandini been a bit more active in her role as a wife with Ansh, he may not have condemned abuse on her.

I think you have not watched Kyunki from the beginning of the K and N love story..otherwise you would not have passed such comments...

On the first wedding night of Ansh and N, he tells her that he married her to take revenge on her....Actually if he was nice to her on that night, maybe N would have turned around gradually.....Ansh was never in love with Nands, he was just OBSESSED with her beauty....

ANsh all along knew that Nands loved K...HE used Tanya to create diff betw K and N....if he was really in love with her, he would not have created that fiasco on the first night and he would have let Nands marry K..

NAndini wanted a divorce on the SECOND day of the marriage, she talks about it wiht her mom but her mom does not support her..ANsh blackmails her by using her
grandpa whose heart is weak...

well first of all hello,i watch this serial everyday but never have been to dis forum.i shud say itz just fantastic.now coming back what i think on fair grounds that ab yaar whatevr u like or not tanya has given her 20 years and morevor without karan's love (maybe) so on her side she's right.but there nandini has given her whole life suffering......i mean she was always bombarded with problems and is a true fighter....so i think its all karan......if he knew nandini wud come back after going to jail then why did he continue his relation wid tanya...........i mean itz all confused par ek baat hai karan is too lucky...ok now i am new here so let me first analyse more but i am not new to the serial.....itz my daily dose for 6 yrs. now...so i thought i can post my experience.

Originally posted by: mz.seductive

Nope. what I'm trying to say is...if Nandini didn't like Ansh what was the point of staying with him, pretending to be his wife? And yea, if she was abit more loyal to him, it's highly probably that he may not have physically abused her. She married him sans any pressure, did she not? And isn't it OBVIOUS he'd want to have a physical relation with her? And if she's infidel with him, and still has the shamelessness to come infront of him, then it automatically implicates that she leaves it up to him. Knowing that Ansh was ruthless, I can't say it was fully unexpected. That's the difference between Nandini and Crisit from Lives Of the Saints (By Nino Ricci). Cristi too had a relation but she was abused before it. With Nandini it was different, she had a relation before being abused. I think somewhere or the other, it was her fault the rape happened, even if it was in the minority. Ansh was majorly at fault for it, I'm not denying it but I still believe that had Nandini been a bit more active in her role as a wife with Ansh, he may not have condemned abuse on her.

I get what you're saying but I still don't think that Nandani was at fault.Yeah,it was her fault that she married him willingly even though she didn't like him.But the whole rape thing, I still think that Ansh was a sick minded person...not everyone would force a pyshical relationship on someone who doesn't want one. I mean, would you?lol 😛

I understand tottaly what you're trying to say but still...I dunno,I just really hate Ansh! Like,when I used to watch kyunki when he was there, I used to yell at the TV 😆 .

-Roohani

Btw..to the person who said that Anu hasn't watched kyunki from then. She has watched it from the VERRYY begginging. 😊

I still repeat that if Ansh was nice to Nands on the first night, N may have turned around eventually...it was becos of his behv. that N turned against him and wanted a divorce on the second day of marriage...Becos she got to know his true face...

Originally posted by: moonlight

I still repeat that if Ansh was nice to Nands on the first night, N may have turned around eventually...it was becos of his behv. that N turned against him and wanted a divorce on the second day of marriage...Becos she got to know his true face...

I agree with you. Ansh married Nandini for his ego and if after he married her, he had shown love towards her instead of humiliating her, she might have responded..

on the first night of their wedding, ansh revealed his true colors to Nandani.

as for marrying Ansh, everyone is forgetting that by then, Nandani and Ansh had become friends, and he was there for her as a friend. Because she thought him to be changed and along with family pressure of losing her family, she agreed to marry him.

but the torture didn't stop there itself. after that first night, he kept on torturing her and threatening her. but Nandani never cried to anyone. Karan tried to talk to her, but she brushed him off all the time. until finally when she overheard Karan telling Tanya that he cannot marry her as he will forever love Nandani only

YES AT THAT TIME, KARAN HAD TOLD TANYA THIS AS WELL ALONG WITH PLENTY OF OTHER TIMES IN THIS SAGA, BUT OF COURSE TANYA BEING A NO SELF-RESPECTING WOMAN, STILL KEPT ON HANGING ON TO HER "LOVE" FOR HIM. CARRYING A SILENT TORCH FOR HIM, NOT REALIZING THAT SHE IS SETTING UP HER OWN DOWNFALL.

Finally Nandani realized that Karan sacrificed for Tulsi and she confronted him. She blamed him for ruining her life and she finally broke down, and cried. He was tortured to see her pain and Ansh saw them together in the rain and Ansh got misunderstandings of Karan-Nandani carrying on an affair.

From then on, Karan became her pillar, taking her side all the time. But disgusting Ansh set them up and caused Tulsi to kick Karan out of the house. Only after the Swiss trip when Nandani got raped and Tulsi standing outside the hotel door, heard Nandani screaming out at him, did Tulsi realize how wrong she was in supporting Ansh.

If anybody wants to know the history of Karan-Nandani's story, ask me. Because not only do I remember the episodes, I have them with me.

Humaira