Tanya v/s Nandini... The difference?

Okay... It's like the forums gone crazy after yesterday's episode... People are bashing people all over the place... To which I ask - Peopleeee....? Where is the love!?!?! 😛

Karan is being bashed for his decision to stick with Tanya... Nandini is being bashed for asking Karan to leave Tanya... And Tanya...Poor Tanya is being bashed for everything from Bhoomi and Manthan being spoilt to Nandini leaving to global warming and the declining rainforests...

Here, I'd like to ask a question... Are Tanya and Nandini all that different? Both fell in love with a man (the same man! )...And subsequently, their lives went for a toss after that...

The main point is here... That both women have been living apart from the man they love for 20 years... Physically in Nandini's case, and emotionally in Tanya's case...

Let's look at Tanya's case: To live with a man, have his child, LOOK AFTER ANOTHER CHILD WHO'S NOT HERS, and watch him pine and mope over a woman, who had long since left his life... To get it thrown in her face that she wasn't the mother of the child she loved more than her own and that she could never take the place of Nandini... Even offered to divorce Karan... Lives in the constant fear of being replaced by Nandini... What hasn't this woman gone through...? Doesn't she finally deserve some happiness?

Nandini: Married to a man she didn't love... Got RAPED by him... Had to watch him get murdered... Got pregnant and went into a coma... Murdered a man in defence of her child - which according to me was the worst thing that happened to her... Coz when a non sociopathic person comits an act like this, it affects them so deeply mentally, that it almost takes them under... She went to jail, all the while pregnant... Came back only to realise what Bhoomi and Karan meant to Tanya, and selflessly left... Even pretended to have married a random man for Tanya's happiness...

And everyone who's going on and on about how Nandini has become selfish by asking Karan to leave Tanya... Why don't you look at it in this way - Maybe she did it to finally knock it into Karan's head about all that Tanya's done for them... Maybe she did it so Karan could finally realise what Tanya has gone through... She prolly knew that Karan would never be able to tell Tanya to leave after that realisation, and that is exactly what she wanted... Where is the selfishness, here??

And if she didn't mean it in that way, can you blame her for being a lil selfish? She's been yearning to live with her family and husband and yet, circumstances force her to live apart, away from them, and watch her daughter look at her with hateful glares and accuse her of being promiscuous and what not...?? Can a woman be blamed for feeling a lil pang to live with her family and her daughter and want to correct her misguided opinion of her??

Both women are living, essentially, apart from the man they love and been sacrificing their love for each other, time and again... So, are Tanya and Nandini all that different? Coz to me, it looks like both have been going through the exact same thing...

Comment/Opinions/Answers...?

Nimmi 😊

PS - NO KARAN-TANYA-NANDINI BASHING!!!!!! WE DONT WANT THAT HERE!!!!!! GO THROW DARTS IF YOU'RE THAT ANGRY!!!!!! 😳

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thnx for postin dis.atleast some one posted some thing sensible and a topic to wich i agree 1000% .after yesterdayz epi i found evry topic in wich karan-nandini and tanya were bashed.

Seriously, the only way to solve this problem would be to clone karan or perhaps if he has some long-lost twin brother, and then there'll be a karan for both tanya and nandini. 😆

or even better kill of 1 of the ladies or best kill of the man!!!

n to the author of the topic : good point

yea best thing is to kill tanya.i am fedup of her

well ur have a rl gud point there not at all diffrent- but i think that karan deinetly made the rite choice staying wid nandani 😳 well done karan

Originally posted by: komal_life

Best point is kill tanya and let lovers reunite , no scarifices from nk's sides no majbori for karan no pian for nk !

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im srry if im not wrong but at once U USED TO BE a karan/tanya fan?? i think anyyzzwayz im relly relly srry if ur not but yes TO THE AUTOR OF THIS TOPIC I AM SOO WITH U AND AGREE 10000000000000000% WID U😃

I think it is high time Tanya steps out and herself lets Nands into SN and Karan's life and she should stop emotionally blackmailing K that she will die if K leaves her...N did not die aftter loving K so much and living apart from him, how can she die? and K should not succumb to her blackmail

Tanya should do the sacrificing this time and Let two people be happy instead of haviing three unhappy people and this will only happen if she steps out.

Anybody who has watched K N love story from the beginning will agree wiht me...the way they two yearned for each other and how Tanya was in a way responsible for their split and she sided wiht ANsh...

I think it is high time TAnya steps out and lets N come into K's life

i wish tanya will die and poor karan nandini will reunite .

well i think they should kill Nandani off or she should find someone oulse and leve india and leve with some one oulse happily. and let Karan and Tanya be together.