kick out tanya from sn. - Page 7

Originally posted by: preity*zinta

Other than that "dying of shame" part that you mentioned ..your points are well written

i agree preity*zintaa

Originally posted by: komal_life

yes im blaming tanya because she is at fault!!!!!anyways if u dont find any snce in this debate u can lave plz . as for tanya she is the worst mother for sure , when a kid goes wrong u should give him/her a tight slap obviously good karan has slapped manthan on and off esp when he didi batamzii with baa but tanya? she has literally spoiled the kids rotten ! QUOTE=complication]

omg, i can't believe komal_life is justifying bhoomi being a brat but blaming manthan's attitude on tanya's inability to give him proper sanskars! what kind of biased, illogical argument is that? whatever, i'll continue with the debate when the person i'm debating with actually makes some sense! but jaysean, keep it up! glad to know someone someone around here is logical!

kajal

hahaha!😆just coz u cant provide me a strong argument...u simply want us to leave....well....she's the worst mother for u..but not for me.....coz nandini is the one who is all ready to spoil her kids so i think she is the worst one and will always remain like that


and plzz.....for god sake....stop lecturing me.....i dont need ur advise on either should i leave or not?....and u have no right to tell us to leave....madam....i have the right to put my opinion up ok....so plzzzzz............dont advise me

Originally posted by: complication

right, she left everything, she made that decision so now she has no right over anything. she's a good friend, she's willing to sacrifice her love for her friend's sake, but that's what makes her a bad mother. she left her kid, PERIOD, and a real mother wouldn't do that for any reason.

you're a girl right? then why are you blaming everything on the mother? hurting a child physically can make him rebel because there comes a day when the child is big and strong enough to hit back, and that only happens when the parent has only hurt the child and has never given him love. that is exactly what karan has done. he always shows up to punish manthan when he's wrong, but other than that, manthan doesn't even exist to him. and till the abhir fiasco, he's never thought bhoomi could ever be wrong, even though she's always been manthan's sidekick/savior in all his wrongdoings.

also, you keep saying that tanya should have slapped her kids for acting out when they first started. well, i'm sure she's tried and as a result, learned not to because could you imagine how psycho karan would have gone if he heard someone laid a hand on his angel child? he wouldn't allow anyone to punish bhoomi and that's what spoiled her. also, she does reprehend and reprimand manthan time and again. plus tanya's the one parent that he doesn't hate because she's actually been there for him. karan's lack of love is what is slowly turning manthan's heart to stone, not tanya's inability to raise children.

very well put complicaton👏i totally agree with you😊😉yeh..i know..karan is the one who spoilt his kids.....not tanya....and if nandini has left everything and has got married again...then its not tanya's fault....she should atleast live with her husband in her own hose...where she deserves to be with her children😊

Originally posted by: komal_life

and girls or guys plz act mature , we have no fun in blaming or accusing any character but if soe 1 is wrong only then we do .


i agree karanw as wrong and made a sin 20 yrs back when he married this anaty and tht time we said he should be punshed for it and wht a nice punsihment he got tht his wife/love left him and he kept crying !

nandini is wrong in sacrficing every thing for a so called frd us ne khud he khulhai apney perr per mar di hai withoiut thinking abt herself and karan

now tanya is wrong in still being a thorn betwen true lovers husband/wife kniwng well she is the most unwanted person by karan !

he even didnt do kanyadan with tanaya wht can we say and his room is separate from hers from past 20 yrs .

and then tanya recntly said she cannot stand th nandini came back (looks whose talking) anyw ays there can be pages piffled on this sick charcetr but i wish they show her reunitning nk happily and leaving WITHOUT ANY TEAR OR COMPLAIN

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oh! yeh...whatever.......as if u r acting mature...ha......are u?.......well...i dont think soand btw.....how come tanya is thorn between true lovers....ur so called"true lovers" had a chance to live together but they still brought tanya bak(20 yrs ago..after nandini came bak and tanya left)..ha....so how come she's coming between them?????oh........plzz...give me a valid reason this time coz i am sick of hearing the same thing over and over again(uz crying over tanya being with karan and nandini not living with him as his wife).....lol...dont u get of sick of criticizing others..or blaming others??....😆😆😆coz it makes me feel tired when i read 10000000000000000000000000000000posts blaming tanya just coz ur so called "True lovers" are not together in this show

a good mother is one, who corrects her kids when they r wrong.. by supporting bhumi in abhir fiasco, tanya proved that she is a BAD mother...

like that a true lover is one, who is willing to sacrifice her pyar, for the happiness of her lover. by being with karan like a leech, tanya proved that her love for karan is NOT TRUE...

on the other hand, nandini tried to get away from karan s life for tanya s sake.. the "SO CALLED SACRIFICE" of tanya is nothin but a dikhava, bec she got what she wanted- ie the status of karan s biwi- on the pretext of looking after bhumi....

Originally posted by: GauriTejwaniFan

wow you people are so right about tanya i never thought there are goo
decent people like and very well written and hats off to you for saying
the truth and you have made me cry reading this post

yes i agree....she should be kicked out!!
i 1000000000000000000% agree...u guys are wkd...it also made me get
tears in my eyes!!

Well, i always felt Tanya ws wrong..tell me hw many of u will u marry ur best friend's husband when ur best friend is in coma..wow wat a great friend she is.. 🤢 ...Nandini ws nt even dead when Tanya married Karan...n ya when Nandini came back...she taught Bhoomi to call Nandini as 'masima'...nw the real mom is Nandini n nt Tanya...Nandini sacrificed everything..her love Karan, her child Bhoomi for Tanya...n Tanya never paid much attention..n ws always selfish...will any of u do something like this? Tanya never tried to teach Bhoomi when she ws a kid that Nandini is her actual mom...instead she kept on telling bhoomi that Nandini is her masi. Nw again its seen that Tanya couldn't raise her Bhoomi n Manthan properly..both of them are spoiltbrat..who doesn't have any respect to elders, culture,values...wat ws she doing at home? she didn't even raise the children properly...in the same house other children like Lakshya, Eklavya was there who were brought up well...but wat was Tanya doing? wat did she teach her children? no values, no culture, nothing...n the childrens' culture, ethics, values always depend upon their upbringings..but Bhoomi and Manthan lacks them..so that proves Tanya never brought up their children properly. And now Tanya when she heard her daughter is pregnant..wow she was rather happy...now i never knew any Indian mother would be soo happy when u come to knw that ur daughter is pregnant before marriage...rather she would feel really ashamed....as this is nt acceptable in a conservative society as that of India's....so wat kind of mother she is..n now even she started blaming Tulsi for everything...but why cudn't she understand before that Tulsi was right always...all Tanya's sacrifice n all was just a show-off n nothing else...she is nt a good frnd, good wife , good mother n even a good daughter-in-law...definately i feel its better not to have tanya in this shantiniketan..she should rather be kicked out...as she's not fit..she's the actual manipulative woman in the entire family...every1 can only see her sacrifice...bt inside she's manipulating everything.

Tanya married Karan when Nandini was in coma since she loved Karan and thought that Nandini will not get well as the doctors said so.....but when Nands got up from coma, and Karan made it clear to Tanya that his life is only Nandini and he loves her more, then also Tanya did not leave SN...she left SN only when Nands tried to get her married...she was waiting for Nands to be OK, so that they could tell her and was ready to share her husband,which is sick. The only thing Tanya did for Nands & Karan was to hide about her preganancy, which happened before Nands came out of coma...The worst that Tanya did was how could she go back to SN after Nands went to jail....After Karan again telling her that he loves only Nandini, and thinks of her as only a friend...If Nandini did not disappear what would have happened...didn't Tanya know at that time that Nands will come back..it's not like Nands was gived a death sentence. When she went to Karan again she knew she would have to leave after 14 yrs...she has no self respect, always crying for Karan's love when she knows she can never have it.

Omg, such an old and trite topic has been brought up again and 12 pages of discussion!

Lol!!!!!!
Anyway some of the points have been written very well, both for and against.
As usual I am a Ght fan and will stick up for Karan and Nandini. But at the end of the day, our arguments pay no heed, as the trps and serial's duration determine the fate of characters. Even ekta doesnt know who will be dumped from the show when, so forget it!

The one thing I found hilariousis that some1 i think sweetie_r had mentioned that 'Nandini fancied a stroll in jail, and that she is a threat to society"
Does any sane person FANCY a stroll in prison! And killing to protect one's child isn't being a threat to society. It was more of acting out of defense than an attempt to spread terror in society. 😊