Originally posted by: psawyer
Please someone explain something to me. Now that Tanya has asked for a divorce (good for her, better to stay away from that jerk!), why are people STILL bashing her? This is what KN fans wanted, right? And note, it was KARAN who said that he didn't want to give her a divorce - all of sudden, after all this time, she's his friend and he cares for her again. 😡 Where was this concern for the past 20 years? He only cares for her when he realises she will leave him?
I think Karan truly believes that he, Tanya and Nandini can all live together and he can bedroom-hop night after night...sorry to be crude, but Karan wants both T and N in his life. And I am saying this as a former Karan die-hard fan - I still love him for his relationship with Tulsi, but the way he has treated Tanya and Manthan is despicable.
Fine, he's madly in love with Nandini - I accept that. And yes, in most cases, people want to see lovers end up together and live happily ever after. But this is a matter of 20 YEARS - it's my whole lifetime for chrissakes! 😆 It's not a joke. At a certain point, it's not about love anymore - they are not the giddy-headed youngsters of pre-leap, they are (or should be) level-headed, mature adults who realise the importance of companionship and duty. Nandini is right in staying away - she, as a woman, knows that it is not easy for another woman to give up her home and husband of 20 years to someone else. How can any woman, be they KN fans or K-T fans, not see the way that Karan treats Tanya as MCP-behaviour? It's disgusting to see the way he treats her. And can't he see that he is, in effect, breeding hate and rivalry between his children, who are now forced to take sides? In his blind "I love Nandini" mode, he's forgotten everyone and everything - every relationship has taken a backseat. Karan is not just the angsty lover anymore - he is a father, a husband and he has a duty to think about ALL these relationships as well as his own.
I totally commend Tanya for standing up - Karan needs to realise that he can't have it both ways. One of these days, T is going to leave him and N won't come back either, and that will be his punishment.
In fact, why not let T divorce him - that way, KN fans will be happy, and Tanya will be freed from the clutches of a confused jerk.