Even I agree...
I have also given my reasoning in some other post... which is:
"She came into Karan's life after Nandini went into coma. and then too, she took care of Bhoomi.. she became a mother to her... and it was the family who decided to marry her to Karan and she herself didnot propose marriage to Karan... then why blame her?
she was very selfless in all those years. and even after Nandini came out of coma, she went away. It was Karan who brought her back.. and now, he is behaving like this with her. If he couldnot be a husband to her then why did he take her responsibility? if Tanya is at fault then Karan is even more wrong. Was he not selfish thoughout these years... just thinking about Nandini. Nandini went away through her own will.. Noone forced her to go away then why is Tanya being blamed?
and Look at Karan... fine, Manthan is spoiled... but does Karan have no responsibility towards him... becoz he is Tanya's son... Isn't Bhoomi equally spoiled... but Karan sees no wrong in her.. just becoz, she is Nandini's daughter. This is wrong!
I used to sympathise with Karan when Tulsi was away... becoz I thought, it was becoz she died, that he behaved like this. But now, he is sulking becoz of Nandini... and no respect for his mother.
I didnot like him, when he told Tulsi that he couldnot be friends with Sahil becoz of his personal reasons... where did his respect go? Now I feel, all he cares about is Nandini.
I agree, she deserves his love, but did he not marry Tanya... did he not take the same vachans with her then wy this discrimination? If someone is selfish then it is Karan and not anyone else.
I am sorry if I hurt anyone... I dont mean to bad mouth any person, it is the character I am criticising... even I am not a Tanya fan... but she has been suffering too... she suffered becoz Nandini was in coma, she suffered becoz Nandini came back... and now aswell, in all these 20 years, she suffered becoz Nandini went away "