ANYONE FEEL BAD FOR NANDANI - Page 6

Originally posted by: maragathm

ok lets all chill. did anybody see the nach baliye dance. boy some of these guys should stick to acting, i must applaud some of them for being brave and putting themselves on national television probably deep down they cannot dance. 😆 😆 😆

Lol.

to mrs kavya

hey i am just stating what is shown on this serial every day. and just because tulsi is supporting tanya against nandani as shown in today's episode, it doesn't mean that tanya is right. tulsi also commited the same mistake in the past when she supported ansh over karan. as a result: nandani got raped. this time, karan will turn against her, guaranteed from my side because of the promo that shows that he will find her at any cost, even if it means turning against his family. and i cannot wait for that, because tanya deserves every and each of the miseries.

humaira

Originally posted by: mrs kavya nanda

yea zat's true... Karan already gt his punishment by staying away 20yrs frm nandini... which is worst zan death...

wat is botherng me is zat hw cn tanya change her mind... I still remember she tld karan zat i'l go out of ur life once nandini is back... zen hw come she is expecting karan to remain hers??? Karan was never hers...

Karan n Tanya gt married for bhoomi's sake... Karan was forced by z parivaar to marry tanya n at zat time tanya knw very well zat karan love only nandini... karan has already accept zis fact many times infront of tanya b it before or after z leap....

no tina you don't know what is happening or else you wouldn't argue with me on every point i made. ask any member of this forum if i am wrong in any of my arguments.

and fyi, tanya was no miss innocent. she used bhoomi as an excuse to see him.

its like i told u if u are going to bring up the past of this serial with me, u wont get a debate from me, because like i told you: he got his punishment for his mistakes! simply put.

and now in the present time of this serial, they are showing that for the past 20 years of karan's life, only nandani is on his mind and in his heart.

and i'm not being rude. i just cannot stand ppl who claim to know all about the show, put in their .02 and try to act as if what they say is the truth.

Originally posted by: tina59

where's todays video?
lol im just joking... i agree tanya is a sick person she knew everything about karan and nandini yet she married karan... how could she let that happen in the first place... i know that she loves karan but if she really did love nandini as much as she says she does than she would have never married karan...

Originally posted by: parii833

wHY DOESNT ANYONE feel bad for Nandani ??

I mean everyone has their feeling for Tanya, who married the one she wanted, who is raising her kids, who has a husband and home and family??

She always knew wat she was getting into?

Nandani gave up everything so Tanya and her child can be happy...She left her child ...her family...her second baby had no future of father or family ??

I would like what everyone has to say on this ??

Pls tell me why Tanya is so much more behcari then Nandani who is as she said has left karan and has no intentions of coming? While Tanya despite saying that she will leave has never left ?

Pls explain ?

First of all, I'm not anti-Nandini, but the answers will seem Anti-nandini,No offense intended :)

wHY DOESNT ANYONE feel bad for Nandani ??

Because she always did what she wanted: Marraige with Ansh; Gujral's Murder and Marraige with Karan. Such incidents show that she was her own person. She LEFT Karan (because of reasons too obvious to discuss.) for no less than 20 years! The time he needed her to most, she wasn't there for him. What has she done to make people feel bad for her? Going to jail? Well, that was an outcome of her over-protectiveness of Bhumi.

I mean everyone has their feeling for Tanya, who married the one she wanted, who is raising her kids, who has a husband and home and family??

Correction: Nandini got what she wanted. Tanya was deprieved of Karan's love. If you mean to say that Nandini hasn't married the one she wanted; got a husband, home and family, then you are absolutely WRONG! Nandini's got Karan's eternal love, Bhumi's daughterly affection and Co-sister-in-law's warm welcome. What more could she ask for? Tanya on the other hand has been depreived of Karan's love, which is the main thing.

Nandani gave up everything so Tanya and her child can be happy...

Until Nandini clarifies it, we can consider that she left Karan. She could've come back anytime to regain her position as Karan's wife, but she didn't, her fault. Tanya would've went away from them just like she did before.

Pls tell me why Tanya is so much more behcari then Nandani who is as she said has left karan and has no intentions of coming? While Tanya despite saying that she will leave has never left ?

Oh yeah? Tanya left her everything for Nandini's happiness when she regained her conciousness from Coma. What did she ask for, when she left? Bhumi's toy? Is that too much to ask for? Also, Tanya has lived with Karan for 20 years, MUCH MORE than Nandini stayed with him. Why is it that Karan despises Tanya so much that he cannot give her the status that she deserves? Tanya has beared with Karan's memories of Nandini and as Susanna Moodie said "Memories are a person's worst companion", so you can see how tortured Tanya would be. Last but not least, Nandini remains Karan's legal wife, but what has she done to deserve to be called "Mrs. Karan Virani"? Nothing! Tanya is the one who actually deserves it.

Again, no offense to Nandini's fans intended but think it this way: How would you react if you were in Tanya's place? Nandini is merely a blow of the wind. Sometimes strong, sometimes thin, but Tanya's been standing with Karan through all his thicks and thins, so it's her who needs more sympathy because she's been through a lot! Nandini merely suffered the result of her own actions, but Tanya's been suffering for Nandini's actions.

Originally posted by: desiflavour101

to roohani and preity*zinta:

what we are trying to say is that, nandani's circumstances weren't controllabe. she didn't ask to go to a coma, and she went to jail to protect her daughter.

tanya on the other hand, knows what she got herself into. she knew since the time she knew karan that he is only nandani's. so why does she expect more? when karan has told her not once, not twice, but in every confrontation that nandani will always come first for him, why does she expect love from him? why did she confront karan in front of everyone, when she knows the truth? when the guy hasn't given her a time of day since nandani left him and partially holds her responsible for nandani leaving, why still expects love from him? why does she expect anything from a man who will always love only nandani? (i am talking about post-leap)

when nandani realized that she came in b/n karan-tanya's happy, as told by tulsi, she decided to leave karan. she accepted the blame for killing gujral and never came back, even though she has more rights than tanya because she is his first wife. and she could have come using bhoomi as an excuse but she didn't.

its not a matter of who is first and second wife, as you have told me constantly. its about a matter of lack of dignity and lack of self-respect with the way tanya has treated her situation and her ownself. personally she is degrading herself and insulting her love for expecting more, as love isn't about being selfish. its about accepting the fact that he loves another woman, let me NOT EXPECT MORE FROM HIM OTHER THAN GRATITUDE AND FRIENDSHIP, and then give him to the woman he loves and find her for him, because i am not the one responsible.

but tanya has acted the other way. she has expected more from him other than friendship and gratitude. she hasn't given him to the woman he loves, because she kept on meeting him behind nandani's back using bhoomi as an excuse. then she went around town and in the house, exclaiming that she is karan's wife and they should tell nandani the truth, because i am pregnant. and then, she hasn't found her. and she herself said that karan-nandani's reunion is a nightmare for her. she doesn't want nandani to come back.

and another thing, she only sees her pain and holds nandani responsible for the way karan treats her. how is that nandani's fault? does she not see that its only because of nandani that she got her rights as karan's wife (post-leap), as the mother to his children, and as a member of SN. nandani could have come back from jail and kicked tanya out on the street. instead, nandani did her a favor and in return, she is afraid of karan finding nandani!

now, i am not saying karan isn't at fault for what he's done (before leap). he should have told tulsi that he cannot give tanya her 'wifely' right because he belongs only to nandani. he should have been the one to tell nandani the truth about what and why he married tanya, because it made him look even more guilty after nandani found it. it confirmed to nandani that tulsi is right that she is responsible!

he acted like a culprit by secretly meeting tanya bhind nandani's back. which only made tulsi's accusation right. when tulsi accused her of coming back and breaking karan-tanya's happy home, it was proved with the way karan treated nandani!

and he paid for his punishment: NANDANI LEAVING HIM FOR THE PAST 20 YEARS.

now, the right thing for tanya to do is to find nandani and bring N back home. but she won't do it. because since friday she has confirmed that no matter what, she won't leave karan, despite telling karan that she will leave him whenever nandani returns.

lolz that was long!! but good points .. and i'm not saying that Nandani's circumstaces were controllable yes I DO feel bad for everything thats happened to her.. Before the leap took place and before Nandani woke up Karan DID love Tanya it was evident he cared for her .. Yes Tanya knows whats she gotten herself into and I don't think she expects anything more from him .. she KNOWS shes the 2nd woman in his life and will be and that Nandani always comes first .. accepted the blame?? SHE KILLED him, she had too .. otherwise Mihir woulda been in jail so many ppl were getting hurt in the process of trying to find out the killer.. not that I blame her for killing Gujral someone had too!! Tanya did NOT use Bhoomi as an excuse its evident that she loves Bhoomi sooooooo muchhh .. it was evident before the leap and its just as evident now she cares for Bhoomi a lot ... she always did and always well .. c'mon Tanya raised that girl for like 25 years or so .. Nandani coulda come back but she didn't and no one REALLY knows why, everyones assuming it was so that Tanya and Karan could live happily together.. but its nvr really been told .. i dunno like I do agree with you to some extent right but theres some things where i have different views.

i dont think u 2 have seen today's episode yet have you?? where you 2 are claiming about tanya's so-called sacrifices right. well, miss tanya today ahs claimed that she doesn't want nandnai back home! how is that for a saut.

and i am not arguing anymore on this topic. i am fed up of it. every month or another, same ****comes up. we all have our opinions and let's leave each other alone.

i am not saying this becuz i cannot respond back, i am saying this because i am fed up of this topic!!!

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Originally posted by: desiflavour101

i dont think u 2 have seen today's episode yet have you?? where you 2 are claiming about tanya's so-called sacrifices right. well, miss tanya today ahs claimed that she doesn't want nandnai back home! how is that for a saut.

and i am not arguing anymore on this topic. i am fed up of it. every month or another, same ****comes up. we all have our opinions and let's leave each other alone.

i am not saying this becuz i cannot respond back, i am saying this because i am fed up of this topic!!!

nope i haven't seen todays episode i'm a week behind cuz i rent the tapes

Its not like Karan & Tanya are living a happy life all these past 20 yrs....Karan is depressed,Tanya is everytime crying...I have no idea for what reason she still wants to stay with Karan,just to have a house & family...but she will never get Karan's love..& thats what she wants and all those loosers in SN wants. Yeah Karan fell in love with her when nands was in coma and thought she was lost to him for ever..he went with life since tanya took good care of bhoomi...but when she came back from coma he made it clear that Nands was his life...he went to Tanya since he felt guilty for her...but he made his choice and that was nandini...when she went to jail, he took Tanya's responsibility because she was pregnant, but told her that it is only Nandini who he loves...it is shown that since these 20yrs, he stil cares only for Nands and considers Tanya just as a friend. The only time he had any kind of fellings or relation with Tanya was ony when Nands was in coma.
If she really a good friend and loves Karan she should not be selfish but try to bring Nands back to Karan.
The main point is none of them are happy nor Tanya nor Karan. She can't force Karan to love her. At least if she does this he wil still respect her as his friend

Originally posted by: tina59

YTina tina tina......dear tulsi pressured him if u remember correctly....and befroe leap all did was yes tulis maa this tulsi maa........so he went ahead and did it........

he was a complete sissy before leaps but now he knows his mind......hence why i hated him before the leap...but now i love the fact he has realised what his true love is