ANYONE FEEL BAD FOR NANDANI - Page 3

does she have to go around acting like a bechari to win your people's hearts? hasn't what she gone through enough?!!! ganga is still in pain after 20 years after what happened to her and she isn't showing it to sahil, so why should nandani show it.

does nandani have to go around crying about what happened to her to every person in the world to gain their sympathy like her saut?

i think not! its good she is acting strong and trying to be happy!

Originally posted by: pinky917

Nandini made the choice to leave on her own though she knew she had a husband who loved her....also they have not shown Nandini regretting her decision of leaving Karan ...so as far as the viewers know she can be having the time of her life and be madly in love with someone else...just cause karan's life is on hold waiting for Nandini does not mean Nandini's life is on hold...so why would one sympathize with Nandini if she is happy...she seemed to be doing fine at the party..she was looking good and talking to people ....unless the show shows me otherwise I don't think Nandini needs anyone's sympathy

ITS A PARTY! YOU CANNOT COME TO A PARTY AND CRY!! WHAT A BIGGER LOOSER THAN THAT? DIDN'T GANGA ENTER SN ACTING AS IF SHE RUNS THE SHOW, BUT SHE WAS SHOWN TO BE PAIN!

Originally posted by: jgrewal

yup i do kind of cuzzzz well she didnt lok that sad todeay in the paryy dont u guys thinkk

to roohani and preity*zinta:

what we are trying to say is that, nandani's circumstances weren't controllabe. she didn't ask to go to a coma, and she went to jail to protect her daughter.

tanya on the other hand, knows what she got herself into. she knew since the time she knew karan that he is only nandani's. so why does she expect more? when karan has told her not once, not twice, but in every confrontation that nandani will always come first for him, why does she expect love from him? why did she confront karan in front of everyone, when she knows the truth? when the guy hasn't given her a time of day since nandani left him and partially holds her responsible for nandani leaving, why still expects love from him? why does she expect anything from a man who will always love only nandani? (i am talking about post-leap)

when nandani realized that she came in b/n karan-tanya's happy, as told by tulsi, she decided to leave karan. she accepted the blame for killing gujral and never came back, even though she has more rights than tanya because she is his first wife. and she could have come using bhoomi as an excuse but she didn't.

its not a matter of who is first and second wife, as you have told me constantly. its about a matter of lack of dignity and lack of self-respect with the way tanya has treated her situation and her ownself. personally she is degrading herself and insulting her love for expecting more, as love isn't about being selfish. its about accepting the fact that he loves another woman, let me NOT EXPECT MORE FROM HIM OTHER THAN GRATITUDE AND FRIENDSHIP, and then give him to the woman he loves and find her for him, because i am not the one responsible.

but tanya has acted the other way. she has expected more from him other than friendship and gratitude. she hasn't given him to the woman he loves, because she kept on meeting him behind nandani's back using bhoomi as an excuse. then she went around town and in the house, exclaiming that she is karan's wife and they should tell nandani the truth, because i am pregnant. and then, she hasn't found her. and she herself said that karan-nandani's reunion is a nightmare for her. she doesn't want nandani to come back.

and another thing, she only sees her pain and holds nandani responsible for the way karan treats her. how is that nandani's fault? does she not see that its only because of nandani that she got her rights as karan's wife (post-leap), as the mother to his children, and as a member of SN. nandani could have come back from jail and kicked tanya out on the street. instead, nandani did her a favor and in return, she is afraid of karan finding nandani!

now, i am not saying karan isn't at fault for what he's done (before leap). he should have told tulsi that he cannot give tanya her 'wifely' right because he belongs only to nandani. he should have been the one to tell nandani the truth about what and why he married tanya, because it made him look even more guilty after nandani found it. it confirmed to nandani that tulsi is right that she is responsible!

he acted like a culprit by secretly meeting tanya bhind nandani's back. which only made tulsi's accusation right. when tulsi accused her of coming back and breaking karan-tanya's happy home, it was proved with the way karan treated nandani!

and he paid for his punishment: NANDANI LEAVING HIM FOR THE PAST 20 YEARS.

now, the right thing for tanya to do is to find nandani and bring N back home. but she won't do it. because since friday she has confirmed that no matter what, she won't leave karan, despite telling karan that she will leave him whenever nandani returns.

Originally posted by: preity*zinta

No ones saying that they don't feel bad for Nandani, I feel bad for woman, both love the same man have kids with him and are best friends .. but Karan's stuck in the middle of two, he now has two families to support. I feel for Nandani just as much as I feel bad for Tanya, she's got to spend no time with her family at all due to such circumstances(coma and jail) Poor girl.. and shes barely got to know her daughter or be with the man she loves. Just cuz theres a topic in which people sympathize for Tanya doesn't mean no one cares for Nandani

to singh23

tanya is responsible for her own actions. she willingly married karan. whether it was for bhoomi or not, she knew that he loves nandani. she shouldn't have expected more.

and i don't think you have been watching properly since post-leap, because she is told repeatedly of how much importance nandani has in karan's life but she hasn't accepted it nor does she want it to be the truth, because it would mean that she is just a friend to him. its told to her many times, not just monday's episode.

Originally posted by: Singh23

i'm not saying nandani doesn't deserve sympathy what i;m saying as a tanya suporter is that tanya ALSO deserves smypathy, so people are saying nandani derves all sympathy and tanya is wrong and derves nothing.

BOTH women deserve sympathy, theres no good solution to this problem, one will be thing karan the other will sadly not be.

agree wid desiflavour..i really feel bad for nands ..i stopped watching kyunki coz of wat happ wid nands 😭 😭

Originally posted by: komal_life

SORRY FOR NANDINI FEELLIKE CRYING FOR HER AND SORRY FOR A WITCH TANYA MEANS THROWING MY SELF INTO A GUTTER I HOPE THIS TELLS ALL.........

THE AMOUNBT OF PAINS AND SACRIFICES NANDINI HAS WENT THRU KOI AUR KARKEH BADEY EK BAR BE IT TULSI OR ANY 1 THEN WE WILL TALK..........NO ONE HAS EVER MADE ANY SACRFICES THE WAY NANDINI MADE.......

NANDINIKARAN DESRVE TO BE TOG WITH EACH OTHER AND THIS SICKO TANYA CAN GO TO HELL OR ANY WHERE WHO CARES.

I agree with you partially. Nandini has suffered a lot and a lot. But she is not the only one. Even Ganga has suffered a lot and a lot. At least Karan loves nandini. Sahil was unfaitful and wretched towrads Ganga. Both these women i.e. Nandini and Ganga have had almost similar fates and have sacrificed their happiness for others. Both of them have been deprived of the love and happiness of their children. Excpet in Nandini's case she probably has at least one child with her. Ganga has no one to call her own. 😭 😭

Originally posted by: parii833

wHY DOESNT ANYONE feel bad for Nandani ??

I mean everyone has their feeling for Tanya, who married the one she wanted, who is raising her kids, who has a husband and home and family??

She always knew wat she was getting into?

Nandani gave up everything so Tanya and her child can be happy...She left her child ...her family...her second baby had no future of father or family ??

I would like what everyone has to say on this ??

Pls tell me why Tanya is so much more behcari then Nandani who is as she said has left karan and has no intentions of coming? While Tanya despite saying that she will leave has never left ?

Pls explain ?

I cannot comment, as I do not have ekta's brain. You can not put this storyline in logic thinking because it does not make sense.

to kaboo123

yes ganga and nandani, both women have suffered almost similar fates, but at least ganga had the support of the viranis when sahil cheated her! tulsi, damini, gautam, and KARAN, all supported her. they all feel for her. but who supports nandani from the viranis? who supported her, asked for her, or even concerned about her! at least they want her back. who told karan that he is WRONG AND BETRAYING NANDANI! who stood up for nandani when tanya wanted to tell the entire world that she is karan's wife! who told tanya to leave because nandani has more rights on karan?!

despite doing so much for them, the UNGRATEFUL VIRANIS, especially tulsi, want karan to forget about nandani.

Originally posted by: kaboo123

I agree with you partially. Nandini has suffered a lot and a lot. But she is not the only one. Even Ganga has suffered a lot and a lot. At least Karan loves nandini. Sahil was unfaitful and wretched towrads Ganga. Both these women i.e. Nandini and Ganga have had almost similar fates and have sacrificed their happiness for others. Both of them have been deprived of the love and happiness of their children. Excpet in Nandini's case she probably has at least one child with her. Ganga has no one to call her own. 😭 😭

Originally posted by: desiflavour101

to kaboo123

yes ganga and nandani, both women have suffered almost similar fates, but at least ganga had the support of the viranis when sahil cheated her! tulsi, damini, gautam, and KARAN, all supported her. they all feel for her. but who supports nandani from the viranis? who supported her, asked for her, or even concerned about her! at least they want her back. who told karan that he is WRONG AND BETRAYING NANDANI! who stood up for nandani when tanya wanted to tell the entire world that she is karan's wife! who told tanya to leave because nandani has more rights on karan?!

despite doing so much for them, the UNGRATEFUL VIRANIS, especially tulsi, want karan to forget about nandani.

As far as I see both these women are victims of fate and circumstances. whilse u may feel that Ganga is welcome in SN, and people have no objections in having her back, that is not entirely true. Karan himself has asked her to move on and not look back. This is where Karan is a big hypocrite. On one hand he asks Ganga to move on and forget Sahil and her kids, on the other hand he is unable to move on from Nandini. In fact he revealed this to Bhoomi yesterday coz he wnats Bhoomi to have compassion for Nandini and that Nandini finds acceptance in her heart. What about Ganga's kids. Who in SN has ever ever bothered to clarify to her children why Ganga left. No One. It is indeed a family of losers. Okay I understand that Karan and Sahil were not on talking terms for 20 years but what about Ba, Mihir, Damini, Gautam etc.?? No one. What is most importatnt for a woman. It is her children and her husband. Goodwill of other members of the family is a secondary issue. First is ur own family. At least Karan has restored Nandini's position in Bhoomi's eyes. Has Sahil or anyone else cared to do that for Ganga in the eyes of Lakshya. Even if Tulsi supports Ganga, what good does it do. She can't possibly bring Ganga back. In fact Ganga herself has said bygones are bygones and a moment passed, never comesback. So she has learnt to move on. So has Nandini. We should feel proud of these women. 😊

I am not saying that one's tragedy is worse than the other. A tragedy is a tragedy. The pain which both these characters have gone through is immense. Other characters are defintely very weak by comparison. But I do agree with u on the point that Viranis are a bunch of losers. 😡

desiflavour101, you are absolutely amazing. I love how you coherently stated out your thoughts and I have to agree with you.
I do feel sorry for Tanya and I had been feeling torn about Nandini returning because so much had changed in this time. But you're right. Tanya knew what she was getting herself into and I feel bad for Karan.
Let's hope Karan and Nandini have some sort of passionate (ermm, not exactly that way) encounter after all these years.
I've been a GHT fan for like 5 years and I'm not about to give up now. I've never gotten bored of seeing them together :). Speaking of which, anyone else bummed that Nishant died?