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Posted: 13 years ago
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Something I've noticed every time I come to this forum don't get me wrong here and I'm not bashing instead I'm against the whole "bashing" thing about this show

The only thing that really bothers me is that yes they have turned this show around to something we all weren't expecting it to be c'mon I think people take shows way too seriously and since when did Indian shows started showing reality? All I'm trying to say is that I understand a lot of people are losing interest in this show but having same topics and talking about the same things over and over is just getting tiring and annoying after a while.

At first I also felt the same way as many of you did about making it into comedy show but this is what it is. Just watch the show and don't take it too personally which sadly a lot of people do. I stopped coming to this forum because of all the bashing about the way how the show is going.

All I'm saying is that instead of bashing can we just move past the whole "logical" aspect and talk about whats actually happening in the show? Keeping reality aside and who is wrong and right because obviously we all know whatever is happening right now doesn't happen in reality.

Sorry If I was being rude but I think it my limits and I had to post this.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I understand your point , But the issue of EMA ( Extra martial Affair) is a serious one..
If u noticed when Mona came to know of it she was devastated. They were going on the line of being serious to show that the wife cannot be taken for granted with such an issue , now all of a sudden it has become a lightly taken issue and this whole circus of making these scenes where you call the mahila mandali and charbroil anuskha's face and put chappals on her as a garland.. There is a dignified way of getting things sorted out and making it seem genuine that the wife has that dignity and she cannot allow the other women in her place or even teaching the husband a lesson and free herself from this animosity ..
Who knows someone who is going through this phase watching it will also feel that the whole show is getting unpleasant with these acts..

I think that they want to bring comedy with situations but its turning out ridiculous and unreasonable now

Just my POV I felt to share

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tereliye06

Something I've noticed every time I come to this forum don't get me wrong here and I'm not bashing instead I'm against the whole "bashing" thing about this show


The only thing that really bothers me is that yes they have turned this show around to something we all weren't expecting it to be c'mon I think people take shows way too seriously and since when did Indian shows started showing reality? All I'm trying to say is that I understand a lot of people are losing interest in this show but having same topics and talking about the same things over and over is just getting tiring and annoying after a while.

At first I also felt the same way as many of you did about making it into comedy show but this is what it is. Just watch the show and don't take it too personally which sadly a lot of people do. I stopped coming to this forum because of all the bashing about the way how the show is going.

All I'm saying is that instead of bashing can we just move past the whole "logical" aspect and talk about whats actually happening in the show? Keeping reality aside and who is wrong and right because obviously we all know whatever is happening right now doesn't happen in reality.

Sorry If I was being rude but I think it my limits and I had to post this.


I don't think you were being rude. I can see where you are coming from. However I'm a firm believer that everyone has a right to post their opinions in respectable ways, even if it means criticizing the show.

And I'm extremely against the notion of people telling others to not say anything bad and just enjoying the show for what it is. Affairs are serious, especially when the marriage has bee in tact for a long time and there are children involved. A little comedy here and there to ease the tension is one thing, but to turn the entire show into a circus and take the man out of the blame has a lot of people upset for right reasons.

This is a problem with plenty of TV serials and it's not just KHTV.

I don't know if you guys remember a show from the 1990's called Hasratein. I didn't watch the entire show from day one until the last day but they had a similar situation regarding infidelity. However in their case, the woman was cheating on her husband with her boss and eventually leaves her family and even has an illegitimate child. That show (at least what I saw) handled the delicate situation of infidelity extremely well despite the controversy over the woman being a cheater. It would be nice to see something like this again; after all, entertainment is not just about constantly laughing and oohing and ahhing over cute couples.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shanti05

I understand your point , But the issue of EMA ( Extra martial Affair) is a serious one..
If u noticed when Mona came to know of it she was devastated. They were going on the line of being serious to show that the wife cannot be taken for granted with such an issue , now all of a sudden it has become a lightly taken issue and this whole circus of making these scenes where you call the mahila mandali and charbroil anuskha's face and put chappals on her as a garland.. There is a dignified way of getting things sorted out and making it seem genuine that the wife has that dignity and she cannot allow the other women in her place or even teaching the husband a lesson and free herself from this animosity ..
Who knows someone who is going through this phase watching it will also feel that the whole show is getting unpleasant with these acts..

I think that they want to bring comedy with situations but its turning out ridiculous and unreasonable now

Just my POV I felt to share


yes it true ther are ppl waching who might just be goin thru all this phase in theri life,n belive me here my frnd is..but the MOST IMPO. THING WHICH EVRYONE OF IS 4GETING N I THINK THE WRITER N DIRECTOR CUDNT SHOWED IN GUD WAY IS YES ANU IS MAIN REASON BEHIND ALL THIS,PRADEEP IS NOT AS MUCH AS IN FAULT AS ANU IS,
1)IF ANU hasnt showed prdeep d 2 ways pradeep keyaa no man in intire world cud posible lev wife and kids n easily start leving with other woman..if anu wud have been adamnt as not being other woman n all n think bout logical point n all then how prdeep wud lev his wife.ITS SO CLEAR ANU GV HIM THE OPERTUNITY TO CHOOSE..F SHE DENIED HIM THEN PRDEEP BABU KEYA KARTAY TELL?WHT PRDEEP WUD DO?HUH!FORCE ANU,RAPE ANU,MAKE HER LIFE HELL N ALL HUH?WHT !MAN 80%ANU RESPONSIBL
2)NOW REST 20% IN WHICH 10% TS fault of mona...a housewife dsnt mean u just stay at home n tc of kids n let huby feels he is god...no be a house wife but dotn let your man think he god,involve him n daily activity,make him seee n relaise things goin around home,m not saying cuk n all ...she cud use his help...yeh he too tired 4rm cumin office n all..but then just sitin with kids n leting them do hw...n f thy dotn know anything just help them doin work..saying kids go n changw n wash n just sit in rum n wach them doin so..sayin them routin lagaya chalou lagou..lets see whts writen in diary n all...tht way he is not getin up of bed he is in full rest or playin with kids n soem time just sitin in kchn n helpin mona pasing things n all...a wife shud invol their huby...but we dont do all...thy come n say we tired whole day workin n all mazay sai bestar todr rahay hain..if kids playin n they feel iritated one shud keep mouth shut...lolzzz 8yrs thy been in tht house n milk man dsnt even knew he was d man of the house...tht was mona fault...tht was hillarious..quit stupid but SO TRUE TO EARTH..ITS A WOMAN FAULT THEY LET HTE MAN THINK THEY CAN BE TAKEN FOR GRANTED
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Posted: 13 years ago
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This the the exact attitude that our indian shows have gone regressive. I mean the whole attitude of its a serial and not relaity so sab kuch chalta hai...

EMA is a serious topic. Also a serial has to be somehow logically plausible and believable . You should believe in characters for it to be successful. You just cant show anything and expect people to watch and enjoy it.
its very simple logic, if two people had an affair why is only one being blamed and punished. Its unfair from every angle. If mona had punished both pradeep and anushka and if the makers had made this comic, it would have been great. But, to punish just one and the other is still the same old way, ordering and blaming the 2nd woman and is absolutely still being nicely treated by both his ex-wife, friend, mother then its just plain wrong.
infact, most of the people in this forum from what I gather have garnered sympathy for anushka now than mona that itself shows that the creatives got it wrong
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Honestly there in no logic in any of the shows on any channel the shows start with a good logic then the logic is gone and all the drama.

Well the women's of (nari Shakti) how do they have any right to humiliate someone like that I don't know if it happens in real or not but was really shocked to see all that, well saying it was Anu's fault all the way is wrong it is pradeep's fault as well he also deserves the similar treatment (if it is done to Anu)

Anyway if I start writing my POV I can fill pages. I personally feel all the three at fault Mona ('coz when her husband needed her she was behind her children's well yes she was thinking for her childrens better but not at cost of ur husband).pradeeb (self-centered thinking solely abt himself leaving his wife of 12yrs is no small thing).Anushka(for breaking a beautiful relationship of a husband and wife)

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Posted: 13 years ago
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things like these do happen in real life

the gf becomes the characterless chudail who seduced the beta and beta is still doodh ka dhula.

the show is basically encouraging 🤢
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: nirvanlove

things like these do happen in real life

the gf becomes the characterless chudail who seduced the beta and beta is still doodh ka dhula.

the show is basically encouraging 🤢


ya, things like this are very common in our society. men are never blamed as if they are dragged by the women into relationships.but they should be equally guilty for extramarital affairs.

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