Interesting Question - What do u think?

Hello Guys😉

Here is an interesting Question aksed bye mk727272 in KS section, I likes the Q so I wanted to know what U guys will Choose😉

-Who would u like to spend your life with, the person who loves you or the person who u love?

I would spend my life with the person who loves me!

ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm i think the person who loves me, but it will b good coz if i marry the person who loves me n whom i love as well

Luv,

Shagun

Would rather have both 😊

If i do not lv the other person, or lv someone else - may feel suffocated or guilty of not reciprocating that person's feelings - and end up feeling bad 😕

I would prefer to live with a person who loves me and who i can love too 😊

Naina

yup me too ....

id like to be wd sumone who loves me...... but even i shud luv him........

u know otherwise it wudnt be justice wd the other person........

blossoms

hmmmmmmmmmmm someone who loves me and trusts me and supports me in other words my HUBBY 😉 and i love him the most so i guess it is the best if it's 2 way otherwise if it's one-sided then it have a possibility to fade away but if it's both ways then the love never ends but blossoms more

i would like to spend my life with that person who loves me because he can keep more happy inspite of the one whom i love 😛

devi

the person who loves me i guess

By saying that we would be with the person "who loves me" - aren't we being a bit selfish here -- take and not give back ??? (as compared to give & not expect any in return - in case of "whom i love"...)

I think all of us want at the end a happy marriage - so - I would rather consider the following options while deciding to marry someone (say X):

1) Who loves me --- only if
- i love X or
- i am not in love with anyone else -AND- i am at present okay (in good terms) with X -AND- i have the strong belief that i will start loving X in the near future. (something like that 😛 )

2) Whom i love --- only if
- X also loves me or
- X is not in love with anyone else AND is in good terms with me AND i have the strong feeling that X will start loving me in the near future
- my love is strong enough to take me through all the disappointments i may have to face

I think option 1 is comparitively a less risky one(the reason why all of us chose it 😉 ) - as in that case the final outcome is in my hands -- if i am sincere enough in my relationship & works towards its success, there is a very good chance that it will work at the end !! (as the other person is already in love) 😆
- but in the other case - there is a chance that i may end up trying to force the other person to love me - or be like Nimmo 😭

But if u check deep inside you - i think - you would really want to go for option 2 with X also loving u back !!! i want to marry the person i love - only it may not be practical 😉

In any case, it is our life decision - and so it would never have a straight forward A or B answer - will have to consider all pros and cons and choose the better one 😆

[Oh God ! i wrote too much...]