The Birth and Death of KDMH

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I realize that I have not been around much, and completely let my new family down. I am sorry. But I needed some time away from this forum and show to think, to accept that the soul of KDMH is leaving, for whatever reasons, and that ying-yang will never be united again. But now that I have accepted that, regardless of the disappointment and hardship of doing so, I am ready to come back and give the leap a fair chance. I know that whatever has happened should not be taken out on Abigail nor her career. However difficult it will be to watch this show without Rahul-Kakun's beautiful relationship and chemistry - I will make the effort and try. For Abigail's talent and dedication to KDMH.

KDMH was born one year ago in December. 70 episodes made us laugh, weep, hope, fear and frustrated. But we stayed loyal, because the show had a magic created by two talented and hardworking actors. You know of whom I speak. Aamir Ali and Abigail Jain. They made KDMH what it was. The magic, the sparkle, the fire and heat, the laughter and joy, the pain and passion - it was them. Together. Seperated they were incomplete, the magic was incomplete. Just like it has been for almost 30 episodes. But because of our constant love for them, because of our hope and our faith in their love - we stuck to the screen every week and our hearts ached for them. Now some may say that KDMH had died in December, too. Hearing about leaps and leavings. But I believe that KDMH died 30 episodes ago, when the creators and the writers had a moment of insanity and lost their way. Lost the concept. Lost what and who it was all about.

It was not only murder of Naina Bhasin. It was murder of this show. It was murder of Rahul-Kakun's true and eternal love. Something that I can never forgive them for. I can never forgive it and never forget it, but I have still decided to put it aside in order to watch the show with new eyes. I have no expectations, I have no hopes and I don't feel any excitement at all. I'll watch it, is all. And I'll always miss what Rahul-Kakun gave me for 70 episodes. They gave me faith. In love. In true love and that we all have a soul-mate. That love is fought for and earned rather than taken or stolen. They gave me one moment of perfect happiness every week and for that one moment I forgot all the pain in the world, all the hurt and terror. For one moment, it was all perfect. It was all beautiful. Now it's gone. And I have to move pass it.
This is my way to move past it. This post is not only for me, but also for all of you who feel the same way. Who had the same faith in this show, the same love for it and felt the same magic in it. I have never seen anything like KDMH, not ever. This show will always be close to my heart, it will always be special to me, and Rahul-Kakun will always be the definition of true love for me. The definition of two souls in one body. I'd like to thank Ekta Kapoor for bringing us 70 episodes of pure love and magic. I am honestly sorry that you changed it and made it into something completely else, something that had nothing to do with the original concept and message. I'd like to thank Aamir Ali, because he stayed loyal as long as he could. I understand that he wants to leave before the leap. I don't know the other reasons for his departure, but it does not come unexpected and no matter how sad I am about it, no matter how disappointed I am, then I stand by that he is one of the most talented actors I have witnessed on-screen in my life - and that he will go places. Don't become another star, Aamir. Stay who you are, because that's why we love you. Don't let the world or the industry change you. The most cruel of things that one can lose on a journey toward what one believes is stardom - is yourself. So don't lose yourself in order to climb higher. Not all mountaintops reward you with true happiness. And the higher to climb, the harder you'll fall. Stay you.
I'd also like to thank the actress who played Devi, because she gave me something to. The image of how much love and warmth a mother contains for her child. She and Abigail gave me priceless moments of a mother-daughter relationship which touched my heart and filled out a hole in my chest.
KDMH is dead, guys. But there's a new beginning coming soon. There's a new show coming. I guess it's true what they say. We take what we can get and do our best with it. But in this case we'll take what we can get and we'll get the best out of it.
Moderators, please do not delete this post as it is an appreciation thread for KDMH, and a heart pouring out what the show meant for it. Thank you 😃
And guys, don't forget them. They were the show. The whole of it.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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well said👏
I truly agry with what you said like you I lost hope in the serial... I think I am going to watch the serial even if the leap happens but well yeah I won't look forward to it as it will be the most paining thing ever... it will hurt to see some1 else instead of amir, it wil hurt to forget rakun and accept ekta for what she is! she is like that! I shouldn't have started to watch this soap, but yeah I did, so cac't change it now and I will have to stay loyal to it, because of abigail, she deserves it!

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Posted: 16 years ago
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elysia u just speak wat u feel and tht's wat everyone feel's who watched 70th epi of kdm. u just owsome and integent person who speaks her haert and our heart thank u 4 opening this i don't think anyone will close this. anyways thank u so much and may allah pless u.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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This is the most beautifull dedication of all...👍🏼

Elysia i must say u made me cry my heart and eyes out...
It's so touching and nice to see how much KDMH and the most beautifull couple rakun meant to u...and it's also very encouraging for u to post such an dedication to the ending happiness with your own hands and mind....
I would never be able to write all that....and wud never be able to accept the horrible and aching truth of the ending of rakun....😭
I just want to add a bit more dedication from my side to the speciality of Rakun and this most loved show....
KDMH revealed it's charm and beauty from the first episode and more on when the two beautifull lovers met on a moonlight and then carried on to fight for eachothers love...🥺
But they never got to meet...probably because it was their fate and that's how it was meant to be...if we look at it as a real life occurence...but if we look at it as an drama view we can say that's how ekta made it to be....
The chemistry the two charming actors shared was never seen before with an onscreen couple...so if they had met....if they were united in this serial....it wud have been something unique to see...=]
Just like u Elysia i've also learnt something from the journey of rakuns love...but something different....something that we don't see in every happy ever after love stories....something hard to accept but it's the truth...
Also Both lovers rakun ...have left us an gift and memory of their love...that we will be able to see every clear night for every day to come...and that is the MOON..
Like rahul had said to kakun...''Jab chandani raat par ek larka aur larki miltein hai to karishmein hotein hai'' and he always used to remind kakun that...''yeh jo chand hai jo hamare pyar ka gawah hai...''
Everytime i see a full shining moon...it reminds me of rakun...which also gives me the hope that one day this moon will be the witness of my love too...lol😛😊
KDMH could have been something that we all fans of rakun wanted it to be....but we just have to remember KDMH as an incomplete journey....
Abigail is an sweet princess....a girl with beauty and brains....she's 16 and has reached for the stars....I'm sure she's got a bright future ahead awaiting for her...I'm her crazy fan and will always be....She inspired me thoroughout the whole serial with her lovely character and beauitfull thoughts...she is and will remain my ideal....
And Amir ali...is the most charming...and talented actor to mention....
He's a star in himself....and the stealer of all the hearts that we girls are missing...lol
Wish him all the best and good luck...and hope to see more of Amigail sharing one screen again...=]
Rakun Rockss!!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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babes this is such a beautiful dedication to kdmh im just so glad that yu are bck i missed yu guys so much and es yu are rite its goin to be so hard no seeing rakun tougther and noone cn take their place. but im grate ful that abis still with us. luv ya lisa this was just amazin
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Posted: 16 years ago
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lisaaa i missed u so much its great that u are back luv yaa!! i just love what u have write thanxxxxxx dear
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Now I am looking forward to leap because u never know what can happen. It might be something interesting. When I first time watched KDMH I never knew it in advance if I would be liking it or not.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I am glad to read that you all understand my heart and that I touched yours with my words. Let's all stick together through the coming time and help each other get through it. As a family.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Elysia

I am glad to read that you all understand my heart and that I touched yours with my words. Let's all stick together through the coming time and help each other get through it. As a family.



i knw yur right we hve to get throug this tougther as a family i mean when it does finally become final they its goin to become real that goin to hurt even more
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I think Elysia and Nishamehak have put into words waht we all feel about KDMH and what the last 30 episodes have done to us.
What was it the captured us so intently and passionly with KDMH?
Was it the setting?
Was it the story?
Was it the Family relationships?
Was it the chemistry between Rahul & Kakun?
Was it the combination of all?
Or was it something elusive that we can't put our finger on?
Whatever it was it captured us, tied up our hearts with theirs; whatever they felt we did too, when Kakun cried we did, when she hurt we did, when she and Rahul loved we did.
every emotion they went through we did, every change we accepted even if we did not like because WE BELIEVED that RaKun would remain forever, that love would conqueor all- or so we believed.
Like Elysia said for 70 odd episodes this was our hope, our dream, our belief nothing could take that away not even when Aman sat in the mandap with Kakun, the belief that any minute Rahul would stop the wedding, but it was not to be and from there began the pain, the disillussionment, the disappointment and the end of our RaKun.
Beautiful love stories like KDMH fall into 2 catergories for endings:
1. the tragic ending or 2. the fairy tale happy ending.
Most tragic endings in their stories there are moments or a brief time of happiness for the doomed lovers, it makes the tragedy more heart braking the contrast of such happiness to such pain.
Or in the case of the 2nd ending it is the opposite from much pain and suffering to intense joy and happiness.
So where does KDMH fall into? Neither!
In the beginning we have the beautiful love story between Anurag and Kakun and we thought it would Kakun family that would pull them apart, but for some reason Ekta had a change of mind and decided to shift everything; the love story, the places, the family.
So we now have a traingle Kakun-Rahul-Naina, and for Kakun it is the beginning of continious pain and humilliation- but she still believes in her love and WE believe in her love, we suffer her torments but like her we in our heart of hearts believe that her love will win out. After all this is to be the 2nd ending, the happy ending.
After pain and separation, united and together-right? Were we wrong!
All RaKun was left with, all we were left with was a muddle of emotions that made no sense. We had a plot which was slow and disjointed, which left us wondering and in dispair.
We had family disappearing, relationships gone and new people in without any reason to KDMH.
We had scenes in which Rahul showed no emotions for Kakun at all, no understanding of her. But we had scenes where he was so in tune with her, he knew something was wrong and he would say that he understood her, understood her eyes, her silence.
We were left confused, annoyed and angry for we had been patient, we had lived through all of it with them and we deserved more Kakun deserved more, RaKun deserved more but in the end we were all left wanting, with a bitter taste in out mouth when the truth came out- no great love ending, whether it be a great sad or happy love ending, Rakun are not going to get it.
What kind of ending will it be? Just an ending; Rahul riding into the sunset with his new love and Kakun in torment once again.
The last 30 episodes make a mockery out of love and relationships, all relationships not just that of lovers but of mother-daughter too.
The question begs to be asked if we could see all this so early on, couldn't they the writers see it? Or were they blinded by their egos in beinging able to do whatever they want and no consequence to pay?
But the consequence is paid by us the loyal fans and I also think in losing Aamir; the fact that he has been in so few scenes, the fact that the scripts have been poorly written especially after highly charged action before has played a part in his decision to leave the show.
I look forward to the leap for Abigail deserves her chance and 'Kakun' deserves her happiness I just hope that the lessons have been learnt.

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