Originally posted by: admail_bd
Well...everyone is different. Antara is different. If Dhruv and Antara move out I won't be surprised. Why should it be the newer generation always making the sacrifice?? What is wrong with the oldies??
Agreed..Antara is different.. everyone is different. But living in a family means blending all your differences and staying together.. Moreover, Antara has not been asked to make sacrifices..just a few compromises here n there.. nothing wrong with that either.. As for the elders.. they are compromising.. I don't think Veena would have said anything had it not been for Shanti mausi's interference..
Originally posted by: admail_bd
In the end it all depends on what a person wants and is happy with. Kumkum is happy being the ever compromising wife and daughter in law...someone like Antara may not want to do that. Nothing wrong with that. It is a lifestyle choice.
Exactly.. it all depends on a person's individual choice.. Living alone is fine..but its not the same as living with a family..
Originally posted by: admail_bd
Living alone does not mean you do not know the importance of relationships and family. Living together with a bunch of people is very difficult. Unless you have the experience since childhood, it might be very difficult.
I dislike this idea shown in serials that if you are individualistic and a bit selfish, then you are a villain. 😡
I didn't mean Antara does not know the importance of family and relationships.. I meant, once she begins to live alone, she will miss being with the family.. which in turn will make her realise that compromising in certain situations is a small sacrifice for living the joys of a family life
when every body is diplomatically handling shanti's ashanti, why she is not learning from it.
Exactly my point.. when everyone is calm about the entire row until Shanti mausi is around.. better be calm too.. My mom always tells me, when a girl gets married not much changes for the boy..but everything changes for a girl. Don't expect them to change much for you.. you have to change a little bit for them.. 😊