KKB Episode Discussion Thread # 3|DT Note p.124 - Page 73

Originally posted by: anandhi007

If you get repeatedly humiliated in one house and you know not many people like you there then even if a few them do, wouldn't you just stay away for your own self respect? And even her mother was humiliated there in front of everyone.

And when her mother was humiliated, I think you are talking about Diwali, she was no more a mere worker, she was the daughter who has every right to stay in the house.

Originally posted by: SillySeasonHere

She has her reasons.

Prachi ne uske haq ka phool chhin liya which Prachi's beau bought for Prachi.

(Damn!! I am still stuck at "un phoolo pe..."😕)

Kahin tumhari nazar un phoolon pe toh nahi thi??😈

Originally posted by: anandhi007

But she can question that right? Because normally people do. People won't want their mother to go with someone who clearly doesn't treat them well even though the mother is emotional. This is where Prachi putting Abhi on a pedestal seems not very relatable. Especially when Abhi didn't even care to visit Prachi or even invite her to the mansion to give her the rights that are hers and introduce the family to her. His beef is with Pragya,yet he doesn't do the right thing for Prachi as well. And somehow Prachi doesn't seem to blame Abhi for it. Now even rhea asked Abhi to back out yet he isn't backing out and still somehow Abhi is never to blame in front of prachi's eyes? I am not defending rhea here,rhea is entirely to blame but so is Abhi. Why couldn't Prachi go talk to Abhi saying she is his daughter as well and she isn't happy with this.

Originally posted by: Naz_ash

Kahin tumhari nazar un phoolon pe toh nahi thi??😈

Opps pakdi gayi🙈🙈🙈

PS.

But of course I would have pass those to Prachi..any time any day

Pranbir over anything everything❤️

Originally posted by: Naz_ash

She did try .. I guess twice... first time he shut her up.. second time he directly blamed her.. Moreover that Sarita is also blaming her... but unfortunately she doesn’t have the capability of making her parents dance to her tunes unlike our very own Rhea Mehra

And that's what pissed me off. Why does she still respect the man? I would lose some of it at least if i were in her shoes. It hurts like hell if your parents treat you like that. She has every right to feel resentful but because she's unrealistically good, she won't. She'll just forget about it.

It's really, really hard to see the truth of your own parents if they aren't treating you right. I mean we've all be brought up with this belief imbued in us that parents are always right and that we should always respect them no matter what but it's important to understand when your parents aren't treating you right and draw healthy boundaries. That's unfortunately so hard to do, especially when you come from a broken sort of family. You're just so desperate to feel that love, you often overlook the bad that comes with it. I feel like that's how it is for Prachi where Abhi is concerned. She wanted him as her father, now that she has him, her character will keep excusing his poor behaviour.

Originally posted by: misfit007

You obviously can't control your parents choices or anyone else but if i were in Prachi's place and if i knew what she does or at least what she should, i wouldn't want my mother too marry my father even if she loves him because the chances of her being hurt again are damn high. Not unless i could see that history wasn't going to repeat itself and something else wouldn't easily separate them again.

Love isn't everything as much as people like to believe it is. If you can't understand each other and can't accept each other's differences or let go of the past than to be together again is a wrong decision. It's an invitation to repeat your mistakes with added baggage. You have to see if you've changed or learned anything from the past.

Also human beings have the tendency to long for what they don't have. They indulge a lot in what ifs and if onlys. When you're separated from the people you love, you often think more about the good over the bad because you miss them. It's only when you meet them again and see the changes or lack of changes that you remember what you forgot. Those resentments come back, especially if you haven't dealt with them.

And the problem is, your relationship doesn't just involve you but people who are a part of your life too. In this case Pragya and Abhi's differences have and will impact their daughters which isn't fair to them. And they have in no way delt with their differences. Poor writing is to be blamed for that and also the fact that it's ITV and people just want drama and no substance as such.

But as it so happens you have to live with the decisions your family makes, be it your parents, siblings or kids. You can't force people to choose or not choose something. So no matter what Prachi does or wants, she can't really change her parents mind.

As Rhea has recently realized, neither can she. You can't play that card time and time again.

Well said. Love isn't everything. Love is a driving force to work on something but sometimes the reality is too complex that even love isn't enough and in most cases it never is. There's a very few cases where love surpasses reality. So once you reach the maturity where you understand this, you can never look at romance movies or shows the same way. You can always just look at it as a fictional piece that in no way transcends to reality.

Originally posted by: QxainxX

Pragya has never said anything bad about Abhi infront of Prachi nor has Prachi seen Abhi treating Pragya in a bad way. She still thinks her father is a very nice man. And about the marriage, Rhea has told her that it was because of her that he agreed to the marriage, she doesn’t know of his ego problems. Also, Prachi has recieved great lectures by some intruder on how pure her mommy dadda’s love is and how dear they are to each other. People have also blamed her for her dadda’s marriage for no logical reason, and maybe that is another reason why she is trying to stop the marriage.

That external manipulation is just so UGH.

I hate when people manipulate children to get their way. See it far too often, especially with grandparents, aunts and uncles who try to resolve issues between parents by manipulating children to act in a certain way to force the parents hands.

Originally posted by: livelytanu

Lol Prachi was always praised in the past. Did you forget everything? For her work, for her skills, for her behavior, everything. Even after Prachi stopped Ranbir's forced marriage, she was immensely praised.

And when her mother was humiliated, I think you are talking about Diwali, she was no more a mere worker, she was the daughter who has every right to stay in the house.

Hell yeah she even gave muh tod jawab to those who are living off her father’s hard earned money