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Originally posted by: Naina-

Yesss! I loved that she said that to his face. And he accepted it too 😆

Originally posted by: Naina-

I think I essentially felt the scene was distasteful because sure, he was helping her think of her future and how she should think about a "special someone in the future." But does he really want her to move on from him? Of course not. Otherwise he wouldnt try to be all romantic. He could have just been nice. And so he doesn't mean it. Why did he say it? So that he can move on from her...so that he could get a divorce from her. Its more like fake promises one gives to a child; if she happily divorces him and moves on, he assures her she'll find someone who will "hold her like this" and he can go ahead and marry Tanu. But once she does just that, you think he'll be okay with her actually moving on? Of course not. That makes me mad.

And of course what made it worse was Pragya happily accepting his fake love. The fact that she's okay with his love being conditional, but doesn't follow the same rules is heartbreaking.

Originally posted by: Sowmii_cutiee

@Bold: Ditto

Originally posted by: -mina-

Interesting thoughts Naina! To me it doesn't matter whether he'd really be ok with her moving on or not...I can't even hold that question in my head. How can he have an opinion on that at all when he's actively trying to get her out of his life? And definitely the fact that he was doing it as part of his strategy to get the divorce makes it distasteful just for that, nevermind any other considerations.

But yeah I guess also as you pointed out...that he tried to be romantic was so unnecessary. He could have communicated the same message without demonstrating it. Because what does demonstration do??? For those few moments, it catches her in his thrall, hooks her with the idea that he could be the one holding her. And if he is saying she should want that from someone else, it's really not his place to be demonstrating. Like how cruel is that? "This is what you want, isn't it? Oh wait, don't take that too literally, I didn't mean this with me."

So yeah I don't like his tactic. His message had some merits but not his style of delivery. Using intimacy against her, as he often does. This time, not to hurt her, but to cajole her - how messed up is that.

I guess...I'm not happy that Abhi doesn't respect that meaning of those kinds of gestures as much as I wish he would. He wouldn't play with them if he took them seriously. Because he doesn't take it seriously, he doesn't consider it hurtful to her. She doesn't find it hurtful either. But he does think that it's a tactic that would work, which means he knows it's not meaningless either.

bahhh. Wish I could remember my random thought from this morning that made me in charity with him again...I lost it to morning sleep-fog 😆