What would you choose of the two? - Page 2

Originally posted by: -Tia-

But she has made option A already. The poll is confusing.. all I want people to tell me is why Pragya would choose A but not B.

Tia, she chose option A because she had no choice - perceived threat to Bulbul, her mother's health, dadi's health, etc. Absent those circumstances just walking into a relationship sans those outside compellers, I don't think Pragya would have stayed in the marriage as she had no ties or emotional bond with Abhi at that point.

I think for once Pragya is doing the right thing in walking away but I do think she is wrong in abetting Tanu in her plan. She should walk away and let Abhi deal with it, he is not a baby and can fix his own problems before coming after her. I find it odd that he has no qualms in declaring his love for Pragya and in expecting her to accept him, baby and all. No moment of self reflection or self loathing on what he is asking of his wife, to accept his ex-girlfriend's child along with him so late in the day. Saying "I love you" cutely or in a romantic setting just doesn't cut it. What about the poor girlfriend he is allegedly got pregnant? If Tanu were telling the truth, it is not right of Abhi to ditch her after proclaiming to love her and promising he will leave Pragya for her.

Didn't p choose option A .
She lived a life with a person who insulted her , who flaunted tanu in front of her..
Even during mms track she kept loving him and she wanted him
She loved him always and still loves him.
She prefered to stay with a husband like option A .

She had a choice to leave in mms track when her mom didn't want her to stay with abhi but she chose to stay and go through the pain

I respect her choice of leavibg him but I cannot accept her to make him marry tanu..

If U love me , marry tanu ..I hate this..

Didn't p choose option A .
She lived a life with a person who insulted her , who flaunted tanu in front of her..
Even during mms track she kept loving him and she wanted him
She loved him always and still loves him.
She prefered to stay with a husband like option A .

She had a choice to leave in mms track when her mom didn't want her to stay with abhi but she chose to stay and go through the pain

I respect her choice of leavibg him but I cannot accept her to make him marry tanu..

If U love me , marry tanu ..I hate this..

Technically it's not the divorced man or a man with previous relationship situation. But in reality Abhi did not have a regular marriage/love relationship with Pragya until now and wants to from now on. So just a correlation to that.

I know my opinion here will be the least welcomed but I will say it any way ..I will not make a choice too because it's a big choice to make with so little details about the circumstances and the reasons behind the choice and if I'm supposed to choose according to Pragya's POV which means I know all the details made her choose version " A " of Abhi and reject version " B " ..I can only say that her choices are justified for me and I can relate to them she chose to look beyond the surface of " A" Abhi and loved and chose him for a lot of good things she saw in him and he proved her right in the end that he is a good man and deserve her love and deserve a second chance with her ..I also understand her rejection for " B " Abhi because she is not rejecting him she is sacrificing him and yes I hate the scenario and I'm not buying it and frustrated with it to the maximum but I can understand and relate to her stand
I'm also not a great person like Pragya ( actually no human being is. specially in our time..she is a fantasy ) but I wish to be a great person if I could.. it's not a bad thing to be a nice and good person who want to do the right thing for other people than your self ..yes your nearest and dearest are the number one priority but even this is depending on the situation you can support a total stranger over one of yours if the situation call for that and even if this person is a bad person if he has the right in a particular situation he or she deserve to be supported and not to be judged by his past or history ( of course Tanu dosen't apply for this cause she is not only a bad person but also a miserable liar and has no right here but Pragya dose'nt know that.. right ?) ..for me humans are standing in the middle between animals and angels ..it's difficult to be angles while a lot of thing pull us down to be animals but we can keep our identity as humans by always trying to rise so inspite of failing to be angles we also don't fall and can still be humans in the best version we can achieve ..as for rejecting "A" Abhi because he made a mistake I really don't dare to make such a statement because I'm human and human make mistakes all the time to not accept mistakes from others means to stop doing them my self and this is beyond my nature as a human so I hope to always have the power to forgive others mistake no matter what and hope to be forgiven for my mistakes because they are a lot and will not stop as long as I'm human.. hope there will always be a place for second chances in our lives or this world will be unbearable
Sorry for saying all the wrong things here but sharing my opinions , wishes and dreams are one of the things I joined this forum for ..I'm the farthest person from being great but it's on my wish list..so I will fake it till I make it or die trying ...hope you don't mind 😊