If Aaliyah could be forgiven, why not Abhi?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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So we all know that except Abhi and BB every one in MM and at the Aroras more or less forgave Aaliyah's murder attempt and fraud during RaBul marriage.
Now if they could forgive her, why can't Abhi be forgiven by Daadi for whatever mistakes he has committed?
First of all, Abhi married Pragya under a huge misunderstanding created by Aaliyah and then kept on by Pragya/Purab etc. Despite this hate he had for Pragya he still did some good things for her and her family. He also took a bullet to save Pragya. Pragya herself won't have much to complain about Abhi. She won't anyway given her adoration for him.
And the other mistake of his is Tannu pregnancy. Even if we consider Tannu is really pregnant by him, he still was tricked into it, so it's not like he slept with Tannu for pleasure and carelessly impregnated her. Yes it was wrong to have an affair outside marriage but given the fake nature of the marriage, MUs, it is not as bad as it looks.
And he did this all for the love of Aaliyah.
And he continued the marriage to please Daadi and Pragya's elders too.
So, why there is so much worry in revealing things to Daadi now?
Abhi unlike Aaliyah has been a support to the family and attended eveyone's needs. If a killer, selfish Aaliyah can be forgiven, why not Abhi?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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For me as a viewer I already forgave Abhi and like you so convinced that everyone must forgive him he did a lot of good deeds to compensate for the bad he did under MU and for the love of his sis
but for the sake of argument let us say they don't forgive Abhi I think the reason will be that they all put Abhi in a pedestal and he is so better person than Aliya and no one will expect him to do such mistakes cause it beneath him ..I think it happen daily in real life that people can easily forgive and forget the mistakes of common and even bad persons but if a good person who is treated like an idol did the slightest mistake it's so hard to forgive or forget I think people will be angry not because of the wrong deed but becauseof their disappointment on him\her
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Please join the kkb team...cvs need your brain👏
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I know he did this marriage only for aaliyah and he didn't give any status of his wife but he didn't have to insult her so badly like their first night I felt so bad for pragya like how she was crying in the middle of the road .I just can't forget that.He insults her infront of tannu ,aaliyah.Was it necessary I mean wasn't it enough that he used most of his time with tanu which would be biggest punishment for any girl.How much more will he have to torture her,criticising her all the time and even pragya accepted it which is the worst .
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think its more of worrying about how a loved ones feel about you like the respect you see in their eyes. If a mistake you do whether its due to mu or not it does not matter you can lose that persons respect, I mean i would prefer the whole truth coming out from both abhi and pragya which was originally planned anyway due to abhis mu and to be fair if they sit her down and talk to her i dont really see dadi having attack. And abhi is just scared what dadi would think of him as to any child would when it comes to their parents and shes very much attached to him i guess thats why pragya would rather tarnish her own image :( and i do see dadi forgiving him but because her relationship with abhi is different than aliyahs maybe cvs will show her do nakhre first 😆 then forgive him...dont know just want screeching tanu out of the way of abhigya's life, mm and nikhil doing something useful 🥱
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I don't think Abhi ever was on a sainthood pedestal in anyone's eyes.
Let me say why I think so.

In the initial episodes, Rockstar Daadi and BB discuss TaBhi affair as fans/audience. They wonder why TaBhi never come out in public and think that it is to create suspense amongst fans etc.

Abhi's Daadi often thinks he is into wrong things/wrong people. She is not appreciative of the kind of things he stands for that is money, glitz etc. Did Daadi think Abhi never had affairs? It would be foolish for her to think so, if she did.

So, I don't think TaBhi having an affair at some point should be a shock for either Daadi or the Aroras. It was kind of obvious. But yes, carrying on with the affair after marriage was wrong. But Abhi didn't sleep with Tannu on his own and he had that in his mind to "limit" himself.

And Abhi doing things out of impulse/love for his people isn't unknown to anyone either. Daadi had known he would do some things like as she quotes how Abhi pampered Aalu. It was evident in Aakash case too where he blindly believes in Aakash and takes on Suresh.

So, I don't think Abhi was big on typical social morals even before marrying Pragya that was unaware to the elders. Yes, he is a kind and giving soul, a Pragya is a big witness of it. I am sure she can vouch for that about him, so can the Aroras for they have taken so many of his favours.

If anyone can accuse him of wrongdoing, it is Pragya. But Pragya is on a different tangent with her love/understanding of him.

As per Abhi's Daadi goes, even she should remember she forced him into this marriage by emotionally blackmailing him while he was against marriage to begin with.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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I'm sure Abhi will be forgiven by his family. I think Abhi is overthinking this and is so worried about his dadi's health. Dadi herself said in yesterday's episode why Purab and BUlbul are having so many problems to get married. So truth will come out soon and everyone will be fine after that.
Abhi and Pragya are supposed to go on their honeymoon to Prague, according to some TV news. So eventually all will be well. KKB creative team is buying time for next few tracks for Aliya and Nikhil.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: hagen

I know he did this marriage only for aaliyah and he didn't give any status of his wife but he didn't have to insult her so badly like their first night I felt so bad for pragya like how she was crying in the middle of the road .I just can't forget that.He insults her infront of tannu ,aaliyah.Was it necessary I mean wasn't it enough that he used most of his time with tanu which would be biggest punishment for any girl.How much more will he have to torture her,criticising her all the time and even pragya accepted it which is the worst .


Hagen, I agree he did all this. But let us also remember what he thought of Pragya at that time. He believed she was a gold digger who traps men (remember how he hears her talking to Purvi about luxury lifestyle and MUs her). She didn't disprove him or talk against that for her own reasons. Abhi found her secretly talking to and meeting Purab at the Arora house during Pag pheres. He also saw his pic in her books! Pragya never cleared these things for him. And Suresh was peeping at her bedroom too giving a bad image of Pragya.

So basically at that time, Abhi neither wanted to be faithful to this marriage, nor wanted to continue it. Why should he have been faithful to a traitor anyway? He is no saint na?

Pragya accepted all that for her own wish to protect her mother and sister and that's a different problem. She knew he wouldn't do that if he didn't have MU, and that makes it easier for her to deal with.

But after slowly knowing (never told directly), things, Abhi did change slowly on his own.

Of course we all feel bad for Pragya because we knew she was innocent but Abhi didn't know the same thing.
Edited by -Tia- - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think Abhi doesn't want to blame it all on Aaliyah for the MU of his marriage and Tannu for the pregnancy (if he is believing her). May be that's why he is so worried.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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As I said Tia for me the reasonable thing is that everyone will forgive Abhi but as we know TV shows create unnecessary drama all the time so it's quiet possible to see Dadi and Sarla ma at least angry with Abhi and not forgive him immediately and when I used a pedestal to make my point at the first point I didn't mean that Abhi is on a pedestal as a perfect person or because he is a moral example I was talking about Dadi and Sarla ma's own pedestals.. for Dadi Abhi is the man with the Golden heart and she can accept that he is so imperfect in many ways but she trust him 100% when it comes to this point, so treating Pragya this way is like falling off Dadies pedestal ..Sarla ma putting him on the best sun in low pedestal so knowing the truth about the marriage can make him fall off ( of course the CVs will find away to not make her think about all the good things he did for Pragya and the whole Arora family )
Any way all this is just a try to make sense in case the CVs choose to go down this road but ..may be they will choose the rational choice after all and make them forgive him 😊

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