abhi mehra: worst husband and boyfriend

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Asmaa

@Asma-

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#11

he's easily manipulated by other people's opinions
Well said I hate this thing
once He believed that Pragya have some hypnotising eyes jaadu or something that was ridiculous . He needs to think by himself just like he did for the MMS expose :)

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Lkb79

@Lkb79

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#12

He's the worst everything. People can defend his behavior forever, put it in context, whatever. but there's a pattern of behavior since the beginning that shows he's not quite as good as people make him out to be. For example, would a good person even participate in such an elaborate revenge scheme? Nope. I understand that badness or grayness is necessary to push the plot and to make a multidimensional character but I'm tired of hearing about Abhi's good heart which I've rarely seen despite the insistence of others that it exists. The occasional good action hardly makes up for the multiple bad ones. Moreover, I'd be more willing to bend on my assessment if Pragya was allowed to be "human" like everyone alleges Abhi is (in the name of defending his behavior). Instead she's an automaton of goodness - so dull and dumb. Wants for nothing, requires nothing, asks for nothing. Inhuman.

I can't even say he's a good brother (giving in to his sister's every whim instead of educating her to truly be better) or a good grandson (hiding his true nature from her). The only thing he's good at is being a charismatic clown - and let's be real. That's all Shabbir. Not the writers.

And yeah, I agree that his attitude lately is pretty loathsome - Pragya's no longer giving me troubles. She bends to my every need. She anticipates my every want. Tanu's actually requiring me to participate in my relationship with her now. How dare she?!. I will prefer Pragya, who wants for nothing, for the next few episodes. Gross. It's like a portrayal of a male fantasy - a woman who will let you walk all over her and forgive every stupid thing you do.

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Renukha

@renukha871

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Lkb79

And yeah, I agree that his attitude lately is pretty loathsome - Pragya's no longer giving me troubles. She bends to my every need. She anticipates my every want. Tanu's actually requiring me to participate in my relationship with her now. How dare she?!. I will prefer Pragya, who wants for nothing, for the next few episodes. Gross. It's like a portrayal of a male fantasy - a woman who will let you walk all over her and forgive every stupid thing you do.

I completely agree with everything you said Lk, but a big YES to THIS! He doesn't like/love for who she is. He prefers her over Tannu because she is more handful than Pragya. And Yes Pragya is inhuman now.

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Anbhigya

@Anbhigya

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#14

My only question is wat d hell on dis earth he wants???? His equation wid pragya disturbs me..there is only take n take n take n no give!! He is totally ignorant towards her...he rarely shows tid bit f concern towards her... Wat he does is fuggy fuggy fuggy... Being a jolly gud person is gud but being foolishly funny towards a relationship status is just so arrrghhh!!!

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...MonaCo...

@...MonaCo...

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#15

Bravo!

I wrote on another post something on similar lines but you have said it the best!

I dont even want to say anymore how the characterization of Pragya-Abhi-Tanu is affecting me.

Originally posted by: -mina-
So! I love Abhi, and I totally root for AbhiGya, but today I am very unimpressed with our hero and I don't think he deserves to have any woman in his life!

Tanu may be a selfish, scheming person, and that's a reason for the audience and for Pragya and Bulbul and Indu Daasi to dislike her, but Abhi does not know this side of her. He ranted to her today about not being patient and understanding like Pragya, about not doing anything for him, about basically not being good enough for him.

Um, like, hello? Does he even realize what she's tolerated for his sake all these months? True he's not making her stay on as his girlfriend - that's her choice. But at least he should recognize all the constraints that are on this relationship they're both continuing - constraints from his side.

SOME REASONS WHY ABHI IS A TERRIBLE BOYFRIEND
he married someone else
he doesn't expect his family to respect his girlfriend - he expects her to put up with their insults
he doesn't stand up for their relationship to his family
he doesn't have a clear exit plan for his fake marriage and is stringing his girlfriend along
he expects his girlfriend to make his life easy for him and not complain that he doesn't prioritize their relationship at all.
And surely there are other reasons - but this post is getting long so my list will stay at that.
And as for Abhi as terrible husband, well, that mostly goes without saying naa? It's true that Abhi doesn't want to be a husband and doesn't see himself as a husband. But does that mean we can completely excuse him from the responsibilities he incurred by agreeing to marry Pragya? I guess that's a matter of opinion - and my opinion is that today I don't want to excuse him.
SOME REASONS WHY ABHI IS A TERRIBLE HUSBAND
he has a girlfriend
he's easily manipulated by other people's opinions
he wants to make everybody happy, which means he makes nobody happy
he's not clear about limits, boundaries, expectations
he expects utter devotion and fidelity from his wife while refusing to actually acknowledge her as his life partner
And ohhh, I could go on about this. But my purpose is just to vent my frustration, and I think I've outlined enough of that. Abhi is a good man deep inside, a devoted brother, a loving grandson, a fierce friend, and a dutiful and affectionate son-in-law. But DAMN BRO, he is so bad at his most intimate relationships. And I'm not happy with him today.
I know he's not perfect and he's not supposed to be. But we can still talk about his flaws, right?

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Mina

@-mina-

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#16

Guess who is back in action!! Bro made both his wife and his girlfriend cry so far this week and it's only been two days. 👏

I'm not as mad at him as I was when I first made this post. In fact I have only good feelings for him right now. But still he continues to be awful as both a husband and a boyfriend - probably because he wants to be neither.

He may just be about to realize that he does want to be a husband - as you suggested Mages, the day he realizes his love is the day things fall into place. Too bad for him that his girlfriend and wife will just kick it all back out of place right when he's ready to commit to one over the other.

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Ayesha

@NasreenAyesha

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#17

Only think he does whatever happens is jealous of fuggy

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Krishna

@kubare

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: -mina-
Guess who is back in action!! Bro made both his wife and his girlfriend cry so far this week and it's only been two days. 👏

I'm not as mad at him as I was when I first made this post. In fact I have only good feelings for him right now. But still he continues to be awful as both a husband and a boyfriend - probably because he wants to be neither.

He may just be about to realize that he does want to be a husband - as you suggested Mages, the day he realizes his love is the day things fall into place. Too bad for him that his girlfriend and wife will just kick it all back out of place right when he's ready to commit to one over the other.

😆😆😆 Bro indeed has not improved in any thing has he...😆

Still not a Husband and really a very very bad BF hes turning out to be...door on Tanu's face...when she wants to talk about their marriage...😆😆😆

The thing with Abhi is that he really is easily lead manipulated by the ppl he loves...

The love of Aliyah got him agreeing to marry for revenge with Tanu's blessing and push too...

Pragya accepted his act of betrayal without any questions or threats as she had her own cross to bear and keep this marriage going...thus...he saw no problems from her end...thus his life being the same

He thought that nothing will change as he Hates Change in his life...I think this is due to him facing so many when he was young...the death of his parents ... surviving with them...struggle to the top...etc...has made him hate changes or made him so stubborn that he does not want to face them...deal with them...he thinks all will take care of itself without his involvement...

Thus now that his boat is rocked...by his GF & Wife...he does not know what to do really...thus his act of berserk-ness...if one can call it...as both these ppl who he thought would not trouble him are the ones Rocking his boat...😆

He surprised with Tanu asking for more when she was alright with no marriage and just being his GF...and hes surprised too by Wife not just being there but falling in love and wanting more too...😆😆😆😆

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-Nimmy-

@-Nimmy-

Rocker

Posted: 10 years ago

#19

so the bad boyfriend is back in action!

according to the latest bts he throws tanu out of the house!

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Mina

@-mina-

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#20

Episode a couple of weeks ago, he raised his hand on both of them at different points in the same episode. 🤢

Today, he warned them that he's entirely willing to live a life without either of them...but waiting on them to do something about it. 🤔