Breaking stereotypes

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hello everyone!
As we all know KKB is EK show who often indulges in certain stereotypes. Like while Pragya is supposed to be an introvert but more than often that is translated onto the screen as a doormat with being mahaan and all that. I wish Ekta would do away with this stereotype and explore Pragya more as a character. Which stereotype do you wish the show to do away with?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ekta's all heroines are cry babies all the time.
Pragya is the same I want her to stop crying and start thinking.
Also most of Ekta's heroines are housewives, I would love to see Pragya going back to college to teach.😛
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Originally posted by: abhigya24

Ekta's all heroines are cry babies all the time.

Pragya is the same I want her to stop crying and start thinking.
Also most of Ekta's heroines are housewives, I would love to see Pragya going back to college to teach.😛



Yes, I almost that Pragya had a job, she should resume teaching .
Aur vamps should have jobs too, Aaliyah is veli , just plotting against Pragya & co all day,as they say "an empty mind is a devil's workshop" 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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This is an opportunity for the shows producers to show the strength in women - as a professional (she has a PhD I think), is a professor, was earning her own income to maintain herself and her family. Then she got married and dropped into a kingdom of no backbone, no common sense, is not alert and allows others to rail road her. Take up the challenge and make Pragya's character strong. Fight for her husband and her family as she should. Not have the wool pulled over her eyes by Aaliya and Tanu...
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I am copy pasting my comments from another post:
I am going to be hated for saying this but those taunts to Tanu being the other woman, charitraheen etc etc dont sit well with me. Yes, she is not legally married to Abhi but Pragya is, but Pragya knows very well that Tanu and Abhi were a pair, and that she "came in between them", and that whether or not Tanu wants something Abhi very well wants to divorce Pragya and go back to Tanu. I am not siding with Tanu, at all, and she is wrong in wanting Abhi back to quite an extent, but why is everyone forgetting that it takes two to Tango and Abhi is totally there too, with Tanu. As is the case in all soaps, Tanu will be shown as the evil b#@#! who only cares for Abhi's money, and undeserving of his love, but well, lets ask ourselves some questions. Is it really bad for a super model/super successful careerwoman to ask her boyfriend to wait a year before they get married? Isn't the reverse situation viewed in a different light? I feel that its sad that for drama and TRP, women are objectified like this. A woman who is career oriented, asks her boyfriend to be practical and wait for her and wears figure hugging clothes is bad. But a salwar suit wearing, ready to leave her career for her husband, ready to forgive a husband who was caught red handed on her suhag raat, etc., a sati savitri. Both Tanu and Pragya, are examples of how disrespectful and distasteful the portrayal of women in Indian television is. But Abhi is made to be this rockstar who can do no wrong and has two women fighting for him, none of whom sadly deserve the treatment he is meating out to them and definitely deserve better.

So, yes, I want several stereotypes broken here. As a woman I feel as insulted when they show Pragya as a dimwit and not self respectful as I do when Tanu is made out to be the one who is solely responsible for being characterless...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...MonaCo...

I am copy pasting my comments from another post:

I am going to be hated for saying this but those taunts to Tanu being the other woman, charitraheen etc etc dont sit well with me. Yes, she is not legally married to Abhi but Pragya is, but Pragya knows very well that Tanu and Abhi were a pair, and that she "came in between them", and that whether or not Tanu wants something Abhi very well wants to divorce Pragya and go back to Tanu. I am not siding with Tanu, at all, and she is wrong in wanting Abhi back to quite an extent, but why is everyone forgetting that it takes two to Tango and Abhi is totally there too, with Tanu. As is the case in all soaps, Tanu will be shown as the evil b#@#! who only cares for Abhi's money, and undeserving of his love, but well, lets ask ourselves some questions. Is it really bad for a super model/super successful careerwoman to ask her boyfriend to wait a year before they get married? Isn't the reverse situation viewed in a different light? I feel that its sad that for drama and TRP, women are objectified like this. A woman who is career oriented, asks her boyfriend to be practical and wait for her and wears figure hugging clothes is bad. But a salwar suit wearing, ready to leave her career for her husband, ready to forgive a husband who was caught red handed on her suhag raat, etc., a sati savitri. Both Tanu and Pragya, are examples of how disrespectful and distasteful the portrayal of women in Indian television is. But Abhi is made to be this rockstar who can do no wrong and has two women fighting for him, none of whom sadly deserve the treatment he is meating out to them and definitely deserve better.

So, yes, I want several stereotypes broken here. As a woman I feel as insulted when they show Pragya as a dimwit and not self respectful as I do when Tanu is made out to be the one who is solely responsible for being characterless...




Wow very well said. I completly agree. Do you know the saddest part is that its Ektas show. She is a successful woman, why does she not show other successfull women. Men are always dominating and treat their wies horribly. Also the whole dressing thing bothers me a lot. Why cant Pragya wear jeans and a top, its not like she isnt allowed too, yes I know she is married but i dont think dadi would really object to Pragya wearing jeans and a top, i mean look at Aliyah.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hello really nice and interesting post I want her to go back to work
I don't know if it's only on EK's shows but
evertime they describe woman like someone who knows only one thing cooking and cleaning nothing else that's quite "clich"
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...MonaCo...

I am copy pasting my comments from another post:

I am going to be hated for saying this but those taunts to Tanu being the other woman, charitraheen etc etc dont sit well with me. Yes, she is not legally married to Abhi but Pragya is, but Pragya knows very well that Tanu and Abhi were a pair, and that she "came in between them", and that whether or not Tanu wants something Abhi very well wants to divorce Pragya and go back to Tanu. I am not siding with Tanu, at all, and she is wrong in wanting Abhi back to quite an extent, but why is everyone forgetting that it takes two to Tango and Abhi is totally there too, with Tanu. As is the case in all soaps, Tanu will be shown as the evil b#@#! who only cares for Abhi's money, and undeserving of his love, but well, lets ask ourselves some questions. Is it really bad for a super model/super successful careerwoman to ask her boyfriend to wait a year before they get married? Isn't the reverse situation viewed in a different light? I feel that its sad that for drama and TRP, women are objectified like this. A woman who is career oriented, asks her boyfriend to be practical and wait for her and wears figure hugging clothes is bad. But a salwar suit wearing, ready to leave her career for her husband, ready to forgive a husband who was caught red handed on her suhag raat, etc., a sati savitri. Both Tanu and Pragya, are examples of how disrespectful and distasteful the portrayal of women in Indian television is. But Abhi is made to be this rockstar who can do no wrong and has two women fighting for him, none of whom sadly deserve the treatment he is meating out to them and definitely deserve better.

So, yes, I want several stereotypes broken here. As a woman I feel as insulted when they show Pragya as a dimwit and not self respectful as I do when Tanu is made out to be the one who is solely responsible for being characterless...



Well said.

Kekta being in the position she is can and should break the mold and break stereotypes. If anybody can bring a change in the desi soap business, it is Kekta and I wish she would. Others will follow suit.

I wonder what exactly it is that appeals to viewers in shows like this that the TRPs are so high. I am not mocking the fans of this show, it is a genuine question.

Anytime I come across this show while changing channels there is a party going on or some silly plotting to frame or harm Pragya and she has to prove herself innocent. Like seriously????

Do the the 'creatives' have a story to tell at all? Preferably without objectifying women and showing them in such poor light..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...MonaCo...

I am copy pasting my comments from another post:

I am going to be hated for saying this but those taunts to Tanu being the other woman, charitraheen etc etc dont sit well with me. Yes, she is not legally married to Abhi but Pragya is, but Pragya knows very well that Tanu and Abhi were a pair, and that she "came in between them", and that whether or not Tanu wants something Abhi very well wants to divorce Pragya and go back to Tanu. I am not siding with Tanu, at all, and she is wrong in wanting Abhi back to quite an extent, but why is everyone forgetting that it takes two to Tango and Abhi is totally there too, with Tanu. As is the case in all soaps, Tanu will be shown as the evil b#@#! who only cares for Abhi's money, and undeserving of his love, but well, lets ask ourselves some questions. Is it really bad for a super model/super successful careerwoman to ask her boyfriend to wait a year before they get married? Isn't the reverse situation viewed in a different light? I feel that its sad that for drama and TRP, women are objectified like this. A woman who is career oriented, asks her boyfriend to be practical and wait for her and wears figure hugging clothes is bad. But a salwar suit wearing, ready to leave her career for her husband, ready to forgive a husband who was caught red handed on her suhag raat, etc., a sati savitri. Both Tanu and Pragya, are examples of how disrespectful and distasteful the portrayal of women in Indian television is. But Abhi is made to be this rockstar who can do no wrong and has two women fighting for him, none of whom sadly deserve the treatment he is meating out to them and definitely deserve better.

So, yes, I want several stereotypes broken here. As a woman I feel as insulted when they show Pragya as a dimwit and not self respectful as I do when Tanu is made out to be the one who is solely responsible for being characterless...



Well said!👏👏 Specially how Tannu asking her B.F. for a year is vilified, and then she is turned to be the stereotypical "bad girl" doing all the vamp like stuff and then the independent, intelligent woman is turned into a doormat and both of them are fighting over the guy who doesn't give two hoots about either of them.
Ekta who herself is a career oriented accomplished woman should not potray women as props who are just waiting for the approval and attention of their bf/husband.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Asma-

Hello really nice and interesting post I want her to go back to work
I don't know if it's only on EK's shows but
evertime they describe woman like someone who knows only one thing cooking and cleaning nothing else that's quite "clich"



Then the elders of the family are happy when she alters her husbands suit rather than encouraging her to rejoin her job. vela khandhan.

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