so tannu is wrong not abhi

Agree they messed up everything and giving much imp to the leads.whatever the leads do its justified.i pity tanu.i actually like her.whats wrong wit pragya she dont want to seperate bulbul and purab but does not like love birds tanu and abhi.people like cvs can do any blunders to make lead couple together.thats what i dont like in this show.no offence to anyone.

great post!pragya great lady is nt disgusted to hug abhi bt blame tanu for all wrongdoings.as if tanu married &betrayed her.she is behaving as per plan made by abhi & aaliya.as abhi & aaliya cross all limit to get wat they want then tanu doing same.then y she is only wrong &abhi is innocent?tanu is nt adarsh lady like pragya then abhi is nt also adarsh man.cv used old age formula wife v/s sautan fighting for a man who is disloyal to both.most funny wen he find wife more useful than gf,he accept her happily.

I guess...we are the sensible ones...
I loved the slap...but whatever crap pragya mouthed was stupid and illogical

Originally posted by: ilovemyself98

great post!pragya great lady is nt disgusted to hug abhi bt blame tanu for all wrongdoings.as if tanu married &betrayed her.she is behaving as per plan made by abhi & aaliya.as abhi & aaliya cross all limit to get wat they want then tanu doing same.then y she is only wrong &abhi is innocent?tanu is nt adarsh lady like pragya then abhi is nt also adarsh man.cv used old age formula wife v/s sautan fighting for a man who is disloyal to both.most funny wen he find wife more useful than gf,he accept her happily.

last line i agree with you..just bcoz tannu is bad and pragya is pure he is going to accept pragya...
as usual our great girl accept that as her identity..what if tannu is not negative? how abhi justify his relation with tannu to pragya? when he is in fall in love...

before marriage he was with her..we cant do anything that..but after marriage atleast they can show them have some limit..atleast have some respect for our culture..he can do anything after he get divorce..but why we are arguing..when the lead is busy in hugging the great husband blaming others...

wen pragya getting married to suresh she came to know he was in luv with bulbul.she rejected this relation coz according to her he shld nt marry some1 he nt luv.nw y this hyppocrisy.she does nt want purab- bulbul & lecturing abt wife rites to hubby gf.also what is more dirty.abhi najayaj relation with tanu out of luv or pragya hugging &poojan of hubby who hate her,insult her.marriage is nt license of insult,abuse,sleep otherwise wat is meaning of those vows in front of god.vows r like agreement of marriage.

That's exactly what came to mind watching the Pragya's great tapped scene. As if Tannu is in a relationship alone, no blames on her husband. Tannu is not the married one here, abhi is. Abhi is the one who is cheating on her but her dialogues to Tanu there 🤢and Abhi gets the hug and is the pati parameshwar. What script man!! I am sure TRP audience will be seeing Pragya as the ideal woman, but to me she is everything a woman shouldn't be. So far she was clinging to her husband for life using Sarla's health as an excuse, but the worst has happened to Sarla. What excuse does she have now to run to Abhi to hug him 🤢

I wrote this yesterday on another post asking if a person (Abhi) could be in love with two people at the same time. I am copying it here:

"And while I hate Tannu for being the catalyst for Sarla's heart attack, I do not appreciate the epithet of "the other woman" being hurled at her by Pragya. Tannu was Abhi's girlfriend and still is to all intents & purposes and while that gives her no legal right over Pragya's husband, I think it is still wrong and regressive to label a woman "the other woman" especially in this instance.

The blame is with the man who is in two relationships, the women are not the ones to be blamed, they are both letting themselves be victimized in a way. So instead of hurling insults at each other, they should turn to Abhi and ask him to choose between them and resolve the matter once and for all. He has not chosen for he has not let Pragya free emotionally, socially or legally."

And I agree just because Abhi is funny or cute does not absolve him from immoral and unacceptable behavior, not just the affair but all his harkath. Even coming to the hospital, he was muttering he was there only for his Daadi's sake. He did not rush to the hospital out of shock or care, he sat at home worried his daadi will get upset with him if she comes to know why Pragya left. By stopping Aliya, he is saving his own hide, a habit he seems to have mastered - he dissembles whenever he wants something or wants to save himself from unpleasant situations. And Pragya hugging him was stupid. Why? Unless she has fallen for him already despite his sadistic traits. More fool she or rather more idiot she.

I said yesterday that I liked the slap (sometimes it's like a release for the viewer even) but not the speech. I understand that the context was Pragya was trying to hurt Tanu in the worst way possible - reminding her of her actual position in this family. I also understand that speeches like these are what will lead to the idea of faking a pregnancy; it was so clear to see this is the seed that results in that plan.

Had I based my thoughts on written updates, I would have agreed with everything. I guess when I saw the scene though, I changed my opinion. I think she went to Tanu to talk her off for calling her mum (which was no business of Tanu), but when things got ugly (as is natural in any conversation/argument) Pragya told Tanu that this whole rationale of Tanu letting her down is not valid in the eyes of the society where she still is the legally wedded wife of Abhi, and Tanu the other woman. I guess the whole point of this argument was that Pragya wanted to tell Tanu that while she may be the one who rules Abhi's heart/Aaliya's best friend, society is going to view her as the other woman, and this basically shut Tanu up. I would not want to mix up these two things... At the same time, if Pragya DOES NOT BLAME ABHI equally in this fiasco eventually, I will be disappointed. I do feel that Pragya needs to grow a spine, but this accident has further imbalanced the equation in Abhi's favor, which is why I hope the heart attack was due to Tanu but to Dadi. I am too tired of all the misunderstandings, accusations, etc., being thrown at Pragya and how she keeps taking them. If at all, now , what I want her to do is refuse to go back to Abhi but the only truth Sarla knows is Bulbul, so the first thing she will do when she wakes up is, Pragya...Tumhari and Abhi ki life mein to sab kuchh thik hai, right???, and this going to Push Pragya into more majbooris. I wish the entire truth was out, and atleast then Pragya could have shown some self respect... and Abhi his place. :(