Fatal attraction

yes..attraction can be indeed fatal..

yes..society is indeed a harsh and judgemental place

But sometimes we may not be given the option of choosing one...

Thats what this the FF was about, right? The more i think of that NIdhi, the more i am fascinated by the complex character and the emotional roller coaster that she is going through. She can't deny her feelings for a relative stranger and neither can she negate what she felt for Rohan all these days..a gentle cooling and soothing breeze after a tiring day Vs a tempest in a still silent environment..

And Doc.. Finally got my problems resolved thanks for the encouragement

agree Deepa..once kids enter the equation..things change and priorities change in a big way...

my POV was more about after engagement and before marriage scenario..

Yes.. Understand that Suvi.. Kids change the equation in a big way ..

I will say only one thing...it is all very well too speak hypothetically,.,we like to believe we are principled etc etc...

Maybe some of us are strong enough to be that way! Maybe we have an iron will that is our armour against any form of temptation. But, the truth is, the good majority of us are only too human. We are made of flesh and blood after all. And the flesh is weak! By flesh, I don't necessarily mean the body but the heart too! I mean, apart from the physiological functions of the heart, we like to believe that it is what makes us susceptible to emotions, So, until we are right there, in the midst of whirlwind, no saying what any of us would do!

My mother has a friend. She was widowed young and had three kids. When she was close to forty, she met a man. He was also in an unhappy marriage. They fell in love. The wife refused to give him a divorce and her children refused to accept him. She told the man that she could not abandon the children since they did not have a father either. So, they were in what the world would call an illicit relationship, for more than ten years. The kids grew up and got married. She told them that she had lived long enough just for them. Now, it was time for her to come out in the open about her relationship, The man left his wife, they started living together and finally, he got a divorce. They got married but only one of her children attended. The other two were ashamed and refused to even speak to her, interestingly, the one who attended was a daughter and the other two were sons.

Anyway, they were very happy together for close to twenty years, He died recently. Her sons are talking to her now!