Fatal attraction - Page 3

Originally posted by: bc123456

@suku yes Suku in are rational minds we all think that , but what happens when the fatal attraction , occurs and u lose ur ability to think clearly , then would u go ahead like nidhi' did or would u be able to rationalise it . If u are not married or engaged it does not matter cause u are not hurting anyone else , but if the attraction is towards a married man , would u still go ahead , sounds kinda complicated doesn't it , but was just thinking aloud

I really think its bit more complicated then I thought... Well Do t know why I think I can rationalize my mind nut ither than that I think I should zip up my mouth in this one...

Nice post,I will go with what Deepa had said,no matter what,we always think of our children first and secondly,I think ,unless you are in a real bad relation,after a whil in a relation,i dont think physical attraction is what you are looking for in the other person,it can be emotional bonding or may be a relation in which you are getting the due respect 😕,I am myself confused a lot

@deepali my dear, hope u never have to go through this kind of stress, but most people hope that they do find that kindred soul who attracts u the most and lives up to that image too , but life always springs surprises when u least expect them ,

Originally posted by: bc123456

@suku yes Suku in are rational minds we all think that , but what happens when the fatal attraction , occurs and u lose ur ability to think clearly , then would u go ahead like nidhi' did or would u be able to rationalise it . If u are not married or engaged it does not matter cause u are not hurting anyone else , but if the attraction is towards a married man , would u still go ahead , sounds kinda complicated doesn't it , but was just thinking aloud

@dr Vidya hope that one can stir clear of it , cause I too believe that u can't compromise your life for a sexual attraction but like Sujatha said life is not black and white , and each person not as strong

A very deep question Dr Babs.

What is meant by fatal?

Is it having an affair (physically) with some one?

Having affair (mentally) with someone?

One would argue the mental affair is only attraction... but I feel NO.. if someone is thinking about the girl or guy it is as good as fatal...

Dear Mudra , thank u for ur cheerful answer, maybe it's a part of both a mental and a physical attraction , but when it compromises u values , and makes u go against them , then probably it does become a fatal attraction