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Posted: 13 years ago
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i am just saying,he hesitate to tell..but he couldn't hide anything from nidhi.that he also understand that if he didn't tell her and she will come to know from other source he will loose entire trust of her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: alkaparmart

i am just saying,he hesitate to tell..but he couldn't hide anything from nidhi.that he also understand that if he didn't tell her and she will come to know from other source he will loose entire trust of her.



Exactly...he knows that he will lose her trust completely if he does not tell her the truth himself...so will he take such a big risk, I wonder!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao




1. What would Ashutosh gain by hiding Mallika's pregnancy from Nidhi?

Assuming he will indeed hide this from Nidhi, I can think of two possibilities..

One, like Tanu pointed out, he may not want her to feel pressurized on the baby issue...

second, he may feel that if Nidhi knows this truth she may ask for Mallika to be brought home since Mallika needs constant care and attention ( I know this is extreme but still)...Ashu knows Nidhi is very large-hearted...the woman who did not think twice before sending him after Mallika to save her from Jagan is capable of bringing Mallika home to save her and her child from Jagan...however, this would not be an easy situation...and while her intentions maybe noble, it would put Nidhi under extreme discomfort and pain..Ashu would not want that and hence he may not tell her...




Sorry to disagree...

How Mallika's pregnacy and Nidhi's pregnancy are related?...why would Nidhi feel pressurized unless Ashutosh dons a devdas pose and like to spend time with Mallika?

After the last visit of Mallika, no way Nidhi would like to bring her home... even if she wants, Ashutosh should disagree... isnt that he is feeling now?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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1. What would Ashutosh gain by hiding Mallika's pregnancy from Nidhi?No gain at all - he will not hide the pregnancy from Nidhi

2. What would Ashu gain by clandestine meetings with Mallika?There will not be clandestine meetings..As he said he will come only to see if everything is ok.

3. WIll it actually be possible for Ashu to keep such meetings secret from Nidhi?Not at all...Ashu can never keep secrets from Nidhi. On the first day also he wanted to tell abt Mallika as soon as he reached KGH - but Nidhi was busy - so they spoke at dinner and yesterday also at the first oppurtunity he told her where he had got late..


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: mudraswathi



Sorry to disagree...

How Mallika's pregnacy and Nidhi's pregnancy are related?...why would Nidhi feel pressurized unless Ashutosh dons a devdas pose and like to spend time with Mallika?

After the last visit of Mallika, no way Nidhi would like to bring her home... even if she wants, Ashutosh should disagree... isnt that he is feeling now?



I am not saying that they are related at all..but there is a possibility that he could think that since pregnancy talks put her off, news of Mallika's pregnancy might disturb her...all of this is conjecture...

True..after what happened last time, nobody would have thought Nidhi would send Ashutosh chasing after Mallika either...but given that these characters are behaving in an extreme fashion, you never know...!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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1. What would Ashutosh gain by hiding Mallika's pregnancy from Nidhi?
Nidhi needs 2 yrs. but if Ashu told Malhu pregancy she may stop her career or she will hurt.

2. What would Ashu gain by clandestine meetings with Mallika? _

3. WIll it actually be possible for Ashu to keep such meetings secret from Nidhi? No
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sujatha, sometimes we lie to avoid a unpleasant situation. Give you a small example... Once I went with my friends for shopping,my cell was,by mistake on silent mode.After shopping we went for a movie so I was out of the house from 10 in the morning till about 7 in the evening & my husband was in the flight,on his way to America. My mom had something very urgent to tell me & she called home & then obviously on my cell around 10.30. I didn't pick up, because I didn't hear it. My mom kept calling & I wouldn't pick up & I was so engrossed with shopping,movie etc that I didn't even realise that I haven't had a single call today so I need to check the phone if everything is ok.My mom got worried,my servant couldn't tell her a thing other than the fact that I left home at 10, my husband was on the flight so no help from him.When I came home , my servant told me that mom had called end number of times for me then I realised that my cell must have been on the silent mode.When I checked my cell,it had 35 missed calls from my mom. I knew my mom would be furious.I called her & she started blasting me ( she was so worried ) So just to calm her down & avoid further fury from her I told her that , ' how could I keep the phone on, I was in Ramayan ka akhand jaap in a friends house. ' The moment I said that, it was a 180 turn.her anger vanished & she told me lovingly how she was worried etc etc. After 2 days I told her the truth & she just laughed but had I told her this at that time,she wouldn't have laughed,she would have blasted me even more.So what I am trying to say is that sometimes we lie just to avoid a unpleasant situation not because we want to cheat.Anyway, as of now our dear Ashu hasn't lied ? Has he ?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fiza1960

Sujatha, sometimes we lie to avoid a unpleasant situation. Give you a small example... Once I went with my friends for shopping,my cell was,by mistake on silent mode.After shopping we went for a movie so I was out of the house from 10 in the morning till about 7 in the evening & my husband was in the flight,on his way to America. My mom had something very urgent to tell me & she called home & then obviously on my cell around 10.30. I didn't pick up, because I didn't hear it. My mom kept calling & I wouldn't pick up & I was so engrossed with shopping,movie etc that I didn't even realise that I haven't had a single call today so I need to check the phone if everything is ok.My mom got worried,my servant couldn't tell her a thing other than the fact that I left home at 10, my husband was on the flight so no help from him.When I came home , my servant told me that mom had called end number of times for me then I realised that my cell must have been on the silent mode.When I checked my cell,it had 35 missed calls from my mom. I knew my mom would be furious.I called her & she started blasting me ( she was so worried ) So just to calm her down & avoid further fury from her I told her that , ' how could I keep the phone on, I was in Ramayan ka akhand jaap in a friends house. ' The moment I said that, it was a 180 turn.her anger vanished & she told me lovingly how she was worried etc etc. After 2 days I told her the truth & she just laughed but had I told her this at that time,she wouldn't have laughed,she would have blasted me even more.So what I am trying to say is that sometimes we lie just to avoid a unpleasant situation not because we want to cheat.Anyway, as of now our dear Ashu hasn't lied ? Has he ?



Ritu...it is true that all of us do resort to white lies to get out of problems temporarily...but if the lie is so material that it could impact our the very foundation of our relationship, then I think we would think twice...this is a similar situation...lying to Nidhi about Mallika would definitely damage their relationship in the long run...the truth cannot be kept from her for long..

And yes, he has not lied to her...and I hope he doesn't ever. not on Mallika at least,...this is something that will rock their marriage!


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