Dreams Vs. Desires - Page 2

Originally posted by: Armu4eva

Thurst upon?? 😆

When did that happen?? She was wondering.. if he will approve or not.. if he will feel bad or not.. n hesitatingly .. she asked him for those 2 years... ! I dun think its thrust upon. n even if it is.. i dun think there is one marriage in this world where.. both partners always discuss things and everything goes as per mutual consent..!

There is always an element where one partner has a bigger say in something than another one..! Eventually both learn to move to common ground n make peace with it!

Originally posted by: nandininandu

Yes, she has the right to make her choice and live her dreams and personally even I want her to grow serious on career instead of excitement about profession. But here it is not of her choice alone as marriage is a mutual agreement, As you rightly said onus cannot be on One and one sided but it is in this case...I mean to say the decision is not Mutual..

My only reason behind the post is to know where is this inclination for Nidhi stemming from??? (Professional Interest). Coz, often we tend to mix our personal choices with the characters ignoring the personality traits of the character.

Btw, I think DB has not injected but stirred hidden desires. I personally want both Ashu and Nidhi to fulfill heir desires with a sensible discussion instead of fixing random time period.

Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao

Come on, Tanu...let us not kid ourselves by imagining his wholehearted consent was obtained...she had him cornered there and he was left with no choice...I am not questioning the legitimacy of her desires...I would never do that...all I am saying, and I maintain it, is that instead of just coming up with a time frame based on whatever Shyama told her, the couple could have had a discussion...even fought over it...and then finally arrived at a solution...that is how it happens in real life...

You may be right in saying that all things don't happen by mutual consent...but wherever they don't, there is resentment and the seeds of dissension are sown...

Originally posted by: Armu4eva

He has been supported to the hilt ... till 42 (when he meets Nidhi) he had no desire in life.. no need for love.. etc etc... n in just one year.. he wants the world.. ! Agree.. 'our wants are unending' but his desire is not justifiable.. in my view..!

Further.. its not something that comes from him. .it came from a trigger... it was dormant till this day..despite the fact that he always loved kids.. always loved the childrens ward more. even before Nidhi came in his life.. 😊

Originally posted by: nandininandu

Agreed he never had any dreams till 42 and spent a barren life, but it doesn't mean one shouldn't have dreams or desires in the life afterwards. If you take your post in right spirit, even Nidhi never had career dreams or seriousness about profession, she is the one who choose to quit KGH when given the chance way before he has removed her.

Nidhis persona has been such.. she is flippant.. n now that she wants to do something with her career.. shuld she be deined that opp ... based on past track?? She quit bcoz she felt she wasnt made for the career... but once she found her calling she stayed on.. till Ashu did the needful..! 😊

Btw, I got my answer, as you're personally career oriented, and see career as an identity you're supporting her dreams. Thank You

Indeed n proud to be so! 😳

Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao

Originally posted by: Armu4eva

Did .. Ashu ask Nidhis consent.. to have Mallu home??? from the Hosp??? No ... it was much after the DB showdown that he so much as bothered to do so... wasnt that THRUST UPON???? 😆

Originally posted by: Armu4eva

If whole hearted.. consent was not given.. whole hearted rejection was not given either.. so we interpret situation based on our own assumption ... u have ur set of assumptions .. i have mine..!

May be.. today we can have a follow up to the scene.. maybe.. Nidhi discusses why she wants 2 years.. n not 10 or 1 year.. etc...! Lets see..! For me.. she is right.. n shall support her to the hilt.. thru it!