Was putting the baby issue on hold a good idea? - Page 3

Originally posted by: mudraswathi

According to the precap, I think Nidhi gets convinced ... and there is a glimpse of Nidhi standing in the Ashu's cabin... So, in all I am guessing today, there is going to be a decision...

It is true, Ashutosh is so stubborn and as Tanu put it.. it is truly 'Rang mein Bhang'...

As far as Nidhi is concerned, she is very clear... and clearly stated too... everytime Ashutosh agrees and again brings it to her twice in a day... In a way, Ashutosh is bringing this contention... and building up the pressure... I would have appreciated him, if he too was clear like Nidhi.

@BOLD
Haan... they are telling us every faltu thing thru baba / lakshmi bai... hope they will tell us this too..😉

Maybe I am reading this differently from you, Mudra...but I felt that she is likely to think that AShutosh got Shyama to talk to her...and this will lead to some kind of a misunderstanding...I could be wrong and you could be right!

And yes, Nidhi is forthright and does not think twice before presenting her pov...Ashu on the other hand is diffident...he is unable to take a stand...on the one hand he wants to keep her happy and on the other hand, he can't give up this yearning for a kid...so he is caught between a rock and a hard place!

Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao

I am sorry if you found my reiterating the point of my post offensive, Deepa...I certainly did not intend to question your power to comprehend...credit me with some intelligence too...but you were making a case for why Ashu should not push for a child now...all I said was that my post was really about the need to talk and not about their decisions...what they decide to do thereafter is their problem!

certianly luked like u did.
Nyways,if ashu can b bashed on a post clearly titled 'top 7 reasons y i love ashu' , n criticsm forced down throat in every positive post,my comments on this post ,r definetely not out of place.
My pov.

Originally posted by: deepa_jd

certianly luked like u did.
Nyways,if ashu can b bashed on a post clearly titled 'top 7 reasons y i love ashu' , n criticsm forced down throat in every positive post,my comments on this post ,r definetely not out of place.
My pov.

You are entitled to yours...and am entitled to mine,.! But if at any point, you felt that I was deliberately ramming my pov down your throat, let me apologize..that was never my intention...!

Nice post Sujatha...the key to every marriage is COMMMUNICATION...Instead of pushing the issue under the carpet, this needs to be discussed by both of them. Ashu needs to make Nidhi understand his point of view so they can arrive at a mutual solution... but in real life we tend to avoid discussions with which we are uncomfortable with.

Originally posted by: sharma.shivani

Nice post Sujatha...the key to every marriage is COMMMUNICATION...Instead of pushing the issue under the carpet, this needs to be discussed by both of them. Ashu needs to make Nidhi understand his point of view so they can arrive at a mutual solution... but in real life we tend to avoid discussions with which we are uncomfortable with.

True Shivani...we do try and avoid certain controversial topics...but then they come back to bite us...I have learnt from experience that issues between husband and wife are best resolved at the earliest...or at least discussed...avoiding them only creates more problems!

What I wonder is how did the these two get into marraige without discussing these things. I mean its understandable if Ranjie dont discuss this because they are of the same age, but its a different matter with Ashni. There is 18 yrs gap and these are the first things that come to one's mind. Secondly, if Ashu was so keen on having children and family, what the hell was he waiting for till 42 yrs of age? He lived like a mast maula, kept Mallika hanging in the meanwhile giving her false hopes and being stupid enough to not understand her feelings for freaking 12 years? Even a dog has better emotional intelligence.

Originally posted by: Nemesispower

Skirting around an issue till the skirt is torn isn't the way things should be handled 😉 i am totally in tune with your thoughts Sujatha 👍🏼 until & unless both sit and talk it out there won't be any issues later on. baby or no baby is a huge decision, both their life will take a major turn once they have a baby. If they aren't clear on what is expected of them then there will be lots of issue and misunderstanding between them can't understand why daily soaps thrive on MUs & stupid behavior by character for the sake of drama 🤢

Yeah...like seriously...is illogical and stupid behaviour the only way to generate drama...and of course, throwing a vile and nasty woman into the cauldron for flavour...formula for a successful soap!

Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao

Yeah...like seriously...is illogical and stupid behaviour the only way to generate drama...and of course, throwing a vile and nasty woman into the cauldron for flavour...formula for a successful soap!

Originally posted by: turags

Sujatha, TRP is down to 1.1 so i guess we now know why Mallika is being brought back...who decides these TRPs?? how is it calculated in the first place?

Have responded to this in Tanu's post!